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i dont know if there is something wrong with me, but i'm 15/f and everday when i get home from school (i'm usually alone for about and hour) i completely pig out on tons of junk food. ie. those little debbie desserts, chips, licorice, etc. the rest of the time i eat normal stuff. i really like salad, and other healthy foods,but i cant stop this binging when i get home. i dont like throw it up or anything. but i have been getting really insecure about how i look. i m not fat, i am 5'6" and 107 lbs. but i don't know what is wrong with me. i am afraid i might get an eating disorder help!!

Wow, you're definately not fat, but you really should try to control how much fat you eat. It's so normal for teenagers (*esp. girls) to pig out on junk food..try to eat smthn healthy instead. Or just like eat a couple chips or smthn and then brush your teeth so the taste is outta your mouth and you don't want more! Thats what I do and it works really good. You mite eat a lot of junk bc you're bored..so try to occupy yourself w.homework, talking in the phone, or cleaning, maybe watching TV...but like, I kno I watch TV when i'm bored and end up eating too..so maybe thats not a good idea. You won't get an eating disorder if you remind yourself how dangerous they are and that you aren't fat!! Just try to control how much junk you eat and exercise, I work out @ curves..everyone thinks its like an old fat lady place...but teenagers and not fat people also go there...I mean the majority of people are older and kinda big, but its a really good workout bc its aerobic and you burn lots of calories!
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im not sure if im pregnant.. my boyfriend and i had sex last week.. and we were protected and all.. and "nothing came out of him" (thats what he said).. i've been having tender breasts lately. i'm not sure if he's lying about nothing happening or whatever, but maybe i'm just overreacting? someone help me!

Buy some pregnancy tests..even tho nothing came out..you can still get pregnant..and protection doesn't always work...tender breasts could be from your period or smthn...just buy a couple tests and if its positive tell your boyfriend and parents (*assuming you live w.them..) and go to the doctor. And if I was you..I'd make my boyfriend go w.me to tell my parents. But you have a low chance of being pregnant...
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i am a 13 year old girl with a lot of friends. boys and girls. but mostly boys. im a girly girl though not a tomboy or anything. when i am with my guy friends i am totally normal and myself.the only problem is that whenever i am going out with a guy, i get nervous. i dont really act myself around him. do you know anything to help me over come this problem?

Everyone gets nervous like that..so don't worry about it.. You probably just need to spend more time w.him to be comfortable around him. I know w.a lot of girls they are comfortable around guy friends bc they have brothers and they're used to it, but when they think of a guy in other ways then just a brother...it changes everything. Don't worry, the nervousness will go away and you'll be fine. Instead of stressing about everything you say to him..just be yourself..like don't try to say the perfect things bc you mite end up messing up..just act natural and he won't remember everything you say to him or everything you do so just don't worry and have fun!
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okay so theres this guy and hes really funny, and nice, but he lives like far away and he flirts with you a lot but you don't want to have a longdistance relationship, b ut you don't want to hurt his feelings, what do you do?

Well if he asks you out just say you think you live too far away and you don't think it'll work...tell him that upfront and if he still wants to try just be like "We can try it...but I really don't think it'll work..." so he knows that you really don't think it'll work...if you don't want him to ask you out...don't flirt back w.him and lead him on. Personally, if that ever happened to me and I really liked him and he liked me, I would @ least try going out w.him but I would let him know I don't think it'll work out
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I hate my life and myself. My parents love me and all, but all we do is fight. My friends and I are fighting, I'm not good enough for any boyz, and I'm always finding myself getting mad. I don't think i'm that ugly, and boys tell me I am. THey like the popular girlz. Please help me. What do I do with myself?

Are you a teenager? bc its normal...you'll get over it eventually..and if you don't, then go to the doctor or get therapy...but seriously..I know what you're going thru and it sucks..but it happens..you just have to wait for the right guy to find you..he'll like you for you..none of the other guys are right for you..bc if they were..they'd like you!! You'll make-up w.your friends, you're parents will understand that its hard being a teenager, and you'll realize its just as hard to raise one. But if you really feel like sooo upset all the time..you should go to the doctor and get some medicine or go to therapy...
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Ok.. I'm almost 15 years old in the 9th grade.
Over the summer I started dating one of my best friends. (Jay).. Jay and I were really close. We were always hanging out. So anyway.. one night at my house we had dry sex. Is it true that you can get pregnant from that??? We continued dating the rest of the summer and on the 1st day of school Jay broke up with me. He's always all over every girl at school anyways. But I was still really hurt. He's the only guy that I've ever really cried over. So.. I've had anyother boyfiend from about 2 months now but I think I still like Jay. My boyfriend and I now haven't even done anything that is even close to dry sex. Is it possible that I just miss Jay because we actually did "stuff"? and is it fair to my boyfriend now that I feel this way??

You can't get pregnant unless you guys were really close down there and you weren't wearing clothes..but you'd know by now if you were. It's possible you just miss him because you did stuff. When you think about Jay...do you only think about the physical stuff? If you do...then you probably only like him for that reason. It's not fair to your boyfriend now...but I seriously don't think theres a girl (*or guy) out there that will never miss an ex when they have a new boyfriend or girlfriend. If Jay was like..your first serious boyfriend...then you'll probably always miss him bc he was like..the first guy you cried over and all. Try to get over Jay..I mean as long as you're not like out of control liking him, its probably not a problem, but if you think about him constantly and you think its distracting you from your boyfriend, then you should break up w.him and talk to Jay. If Jay broke up w.you the first day of school...it shows hes not really into a real relationship..yah kno, bc he dumps you so he can flirt/check out all the girls at school. So if you really feel like you're being unfair..have a talk w.Jay and break up w.your boyfriend. But don't break up w.him untill you talk w.Jay bc he mite say smthn that totally changes the way you like him..
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how do u know if u have athsma. i think i do b/c i play sports & when we do conditioning after like 3 sprints i like cant breath i think its b/c my parents smoke alot & i have to be around it :-( can sum1 tell me how u know if u have it

The only way you'll know for sure is to go to the docotr...and you really should because after 3 sprints you really should be able to breathe =/
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MJy stepdad is a real jerk, and my mom always chooses him over me, is that right:?

Yah he sounds like an idiot. Tell your mom about everything and if she doesn't believe you or doesn't care....just leave, stay with a friend or smthn..
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my mother is very unhappy about her figure and she wishes to hide it. Are there any specific colors she can wear to make her look thinner? If So Please HELP!! Shes always so unhappy. Thanks!!

Black! and any outfit thats all one color..because it will make her look taller and slimmer because there won't be like a line that divides her top from bottom
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hi, im 13/m i have this gf we started going out like 2 months ago and its been really cool and i really like her alot but now i found out shes been smokin pot and drinken and shes only 13 though it was her first time it was kinda shocking cuz i expectede more from her i still like her but i sont kno if i wanna handle this i dont know what to do should i keep going out with her.

Talk to her and tell her exactly what you just told us. You don't know if you can handle going out w.a girl that smokes and drinks but you really like her and you really don't want her to do anything that could hurt her. What she SHOULD do is say she'll try to stop (*even if she can't, she should @ least try), but if she doesn't...then shes not worth it and break up w.her. She should care about you and how you feel and if shes not even willing to try to stop..she doesn't care enuff and you shouldn't waste your time on someone who doesn't care..
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If I find out that the guy I like "doesn't like me like that", well i would still wanna be friends with him b/c he's just a really cool guy, but how would I show him that I just wanna be his friend but not his significant other? B/c we're friends but we're not THAT close cause we just met this year (we're both freshmen). ok well hope you can help!-thnx:)

You could just tell him, "___ I know you don't like me the way I like you but I still wanna be your friend.." and then invite him somewhere w.you and like a group of other people that are your/his friends. After he gets to know you a little better, he might decide he likes you..so you should def. hang out and stuff. Don't be shy about it..just tell him you like him and if he doesn't like you back its no big deal and you wanna be friends. Nothing bad will happen!!
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How do you put a picture on your column?

Profile settings and then upload picture. It has to be really small tho if you get it from a file. So like I went to picture trail and put it in an albumn, then got the URL of the pic and put it in..
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i like this guy,but i dont know if he likes me.I mean i really really like him.What should i do?

Tell him...nothing bad is gonna happen..if he likes you back then that'll be awsome..but if he doesn't then you'll get over him just like you would w.any other crush and it'll be easier since you know he doesn't like you
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So I'm doing the South Beach Diet and I cant have carbs for a while. Well I've been on it for 5 days, but yesterday I decided to cheat. Well this morning I woke up and my stomach felt gross. I was about to eat lunch and I looked at the food and wanted to throw up. I really love food but today its grossing me out. Of course, I cant go out with food so I'm forcing myself to eat but I dont know whats wrong! My stomach just gets grossed out when I see/eat food. Is this because yesterday I decided to cheat and have carbs and my body was just getting used to the no-carb deal? I dont know..Its confusing me and yeah. Do you know what could be wrong?

Your stomach probably was just getting used to not having carbs..so when it had some it was kinda shocked and freaked out. It'll probably get better, but you really shouldn't go on a NO carb diet...just a LOW carb diet, because you'll be sick if you don't eat carbs because your body needs them..and theres low carb EVEYTHING...salad dressing, milk, cereal, juice, peanut butter...and like every other food..so its not hard to find low carb stuff @ all
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is it weird for a grl to ask out a guy?

Nope, its not weird..but most girls wouldn't
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Ok, i was at sonic and a really hot girl brought the food out to me. Ive never seen her before in my life, but i got the nerve to ask he for her number. and she actually gave it to me. Ok now im stumped. What do i do? Should i call her n ask her out, or what? help plz.

Yah, call her and ask her if she remembers you and if she wants to go somewhere over the weekend...or go back to sonic and ask her
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does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!!

freetranslation.com
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I really need some advice :(.... I'm trying so hard to get over my X boyfriend that i had for 9 months, and he was my first love but every1 says i need to move on. So i have a new boyfriend but i don't know if i can give my heart to my new boyfriend because im still stuck on my X... but it doesnt work out with him so its so hard!! ... please help :`(

It's not fair to go out with a guy, and let him fall for you...and you're in love with someone else. Maybe you went out w.this guy too soon after you broke up w.your ex...and thats just smthn you'll know from now on NOT to do..but be honest with him. Tell him you're not over your ex but you still really like him (*if you do) and tell him you're not ready to start a relationship when you haven't finished another one. That's what'd I do...but follow your heart
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Christmas! Omg... Its just around the corner. Its coming faster, then light. I have this boifriend. I LOVE HIM TOO DEATH!!! But i mean this is our first Christmas together. What should i get him for christmas? I need help. I Love him sooo much. I want it to be something special. Truly special. Please help!! ME!! Ill rate you VERY HIGH 5 Whole BIG POINTS! Avice Columnists help me!! Im just lost!!! ASAP! Quick help me... I have only a week to get his present cause im busy with other stuff til x-mas!! Thankss!!!! soo much...

Well I know everyone is saying this, but get him something that he likes. Like CD's, DVD's, T-Shirts from his fav. bands, Hats, just whatever =) You should go to the mall with some of your friends and go to stores like Spencers...you're friends can help you pick stuff out since they know him, but spencers has a lot of..perverted things (*that you probably won't wanna get him) but they have some cute things too...and you could like get a cute frame that says smthn like "Hugs and Kisses" or "I Love You" or smthn like that and then put a picture of you guys in it
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i have a really hard time talking in front of a group of people unless i'm just acting like a retard in front of my friends..but if its a group of guys i just kinda stand there and don't talk and they're always like why are you so quiet and i never know what to say to that either so i feel incredibly stupid..help me! by the way i'm 15 and i'm a girl

Just pretend they're your good friends! Like I'm sure there's some guys you feel comfortable around and can talk to and stuff...just pretend they're them! And they're just boys...and it's not like they'll remember everything you say..so if you act like a retard sometimes, they might remember some of it (*which won't be bad...bc if you were stiff and perfect then you wouldn't be fun to hang out with) but they won't remember every word you say. So just act a little retarded (*but just nothing to weird lOl) and after they see that you're silly and stuff then they'll expect it and you can be yourself and have fun! No pressure..
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