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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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What do you get guys for gifts????

U can get them a cd they want a band shirt a hat um.. a cute lil stuffed animal even tho it sounds cheesey lol but thoughs are sum things!!
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I just started using tampons. And when i wear them they hurt like heck. Did i not have it in all the way or what? please help!

you prolly dont push them in all the way u have 2 push them in until u cant feel them but make sure the string iz hangin out and then u will be fine
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a month and we don't really live close to each other like a 40 min. drive to get to his house.. but I can't drive so.. I haven't seen him as much as I have wanted to but we talk on the phone alot.. (except for one night when i got totally blown off so he could go and play card with his friends.. which was deff not cool..) but now one of my guy friends is all like joking about stuff loving me and flirting with me and idk I feel bad cause he's a good friend but I know I like my boyfriend so much more.. yet the less I see of him and the more I see of my guy friend it gets really hard to handle sometimes and it's crossed my mind to dump my boyfriend but really think I might be starting to have stong feelings tords him... how do I get myself out of the situation with my guy friend without ruining our friendship?

Juss be like i kno u may like me as more then a friend but i dont see u like dat i have a bf who i really like and i dont wanna mess it up so we are juss friends and nothin more!! good luck n e otha questions drop 1 iight~



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OK Caitlyn...I really like this guy..lets call him Miguel. MIguel and I have been friends since kindergarden.....Jus the ohter night he asked me if i new anyone that would go out wit him or tht liked him...so I told him that I liked him because I do....He told me that he thinks its kool that I like him. I asked him if we were jus friends still and he said to me that we could be more than jus friends. Like we could do stuff 2gether. But not go out yet cuz he wants to hang wit me more before we go out. So i said that it was ok wit me and i invited him to the movies since it was his birthday. And when we where at the movies he didnt sit next to me and he was talkin about all these hott girls that we there. And I dont know what he is thinkin now..Plz Caitlyn can u help me....IDK wut to do.

Juss be like y were u tlakin bout all them otha girls at the movies when u sed u wanted to stay friends for a lil longer then prolly go out if u wanna go out wid me u shouldnt be talkin bout otha girls cuz that gives me the idea that u dont wanna go out wid me so wats the deal!! well good luck and if u gut n e more questions drop 1 in the inbox

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Hey about the lemon juice and how you put it on your arms to make your arm hair lighter...well, do I juz squeeze it on my arms or like is there a certain thing called lemon juice or what? cuz some 1 said go out and BUY lemon juice so IDK, thx!

U go to tthe grocery store and go to the like fruits n veggies n look for a lil lemon shaped bottle of lemon juice what u do iz put it on your arms and rub it in and when u go out in the sun it will make your hair lighter!!
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Hey yall! Peroxide doesn't help make your black arm hair turn blonde I tried it over and over again and it doesn't work...what else do yall think will work, anything around the house? if not what can I go buy, where can I get it, how much does it cost, and in what cities do they have it in??? Plz and thx I appreciate yalls help! And I will rate yall! l8er!

You could use lemon juise i mean it soundz funni but it works cuz i kno pplz who dun that to their hair to make it light so u could do dat or u could get it bleached!!
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OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me!

Juss sit hi down n be like every time u wanna have sex wid me u con me into it and i dont feel comfortable bein forced to have sex wid u i mean i love u but when i wanna i will juss dont pressue me into it!!! Hope my advice helps!!



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my friend's parents dont think that teens know what love is so shes getting as many people as she can to tell her what they think about love and stuff like that. but she doesnt have that many people. if some of you could please help and tell what you think about love then please do. thanks.

Love iz when u cant put into words how u feel and he takes your breathe away and juss lookin at him makes u smile. And when u talk to him or he puts his arm around u u get butterflies all over and u feel like u could juss float away its the best feeling in the world!!! Hope i helped



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hey! i was just wondering if anyone who's willing would give me ONE sentence on what the best part of being a teenager is for them cuz i want to make a list and i think it would be really cute!! thanks

I think the best part of bein a teenager iz fallen inlove for the first time and bein able to do things wid your friends u were neva able to and then bein able to look back and CRACK UP!!

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I REALLY like this guy named kyle and he goes to my school. and he likes me too! and ive only talked to him for a week but i have gotten to know him REALLY well and have have LOTS in-common, and im still waiting to get to know him more but if i really like him and he really likes me should i tell him that i love him even if were not going out?? please help because i want to tell him but i dont know if it is to early or not!
(im 14)

Dont tell some one u love thme if u dont mean it u kno i mean u may like him A LOT but it iznt the same cuz u aint goin out wid him so u dont kno him as well as u would if u were goin out wid him i mean if use do go out and afta u get to kno the "REAL" him u will no when it iz time to say i love u 2 each otha and when u love some one u juss kno but juss maek sure he duznt get freaked out if u say i love u to him u kno find out how he feels bout u first!!! Hope i helped if ya need n e thing else drop 1 in the inbox!!!


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im like really in love for the first time... and we are going out and everything.. but ive had so many short term relationships taht all my friends are like " your not in love... you'll be done with him in a couple months" but thats so not true at all cuz im heals over head for this guy..... and to add on to all of it.... i dont know if he feels it as much as i do.. and im kinda scared because i have been hurt so many times.. i dont want him to be another one of those guys taht was really great but then puts yet another bruise in my heart... i dont know how to explain to my friends or him how much i really love him... i know he loves me back cuz i can see it in the way he looks at me.. i just dont wanna lose him... ever.... please help me!! haha thanks!

Hun i kno how u feel when i started goin out wid my bf last year a month afta skool started no 1 thought we were gunna last but guess wat we showed them we could cuz we r still togetha and truly inlvoe wid each otha we have been together for ova 9 months and everything iz goin great so juss talk to him and find out how he feels bout u see if he has strong feelings for u like u have for him u kno and whe you fall inlove wid him u juss kno that he iz the "ONE" and u couldnt live with out him in your life!! Hope i helped hunni
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good and cheap makeup....what kind of brands?

Wet and wild iz mad cheap i recommend it!!

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hey im a child star, which means that i do tv shows and commercials and stuff, and my agent called me and wants me to be in this movie...and this movie will take up 2 months of the school year..i cant miss school, but i cant miss this movie oppritunity. wht do i do? help!!!

u take the job and get a touter!!
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My birthday is coming up in november and i really want to have a party..does anyone have any ideas of what kinds of parties i could have? I would want a lot of my friends to be able to come!

you could have a sleep over i mean it mightt sound lil girlish but its a good idea then u play games and do u kno girlie stuff!!
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ok when im with my friends i always say tha tlike the jocks & stuff r hot.. which they r and alot of the times ill like them.. but when it comes to actually likin sumone and being in relationships i choose the guys that my friends think r not hot.. like i go for personality not looks... a good body is just a plus.. and my friends r always like y r u with him, hes ugly, u could do so much better., but i dont want to do better i like the guys that im with... how can i make my friends see that id rather have a guy with a soso body & a great personality than a guy with a great body but cant even make me laugh...???

average people liker......

I kno wat your sayin who cares wat your friends think bout the guyz u like i mean they dont kno them like u kno them and they prolly have awesome personalitys and alwayz kno how to make u laugh and thats wat u want in a boy friend when your in a relationship and thats how it lasts!!
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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??

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Yea cuz u might be one of the ppl who when they get there period they become very sensitive over little things u kno!!!
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ok...i live in st.louis and my b-day is this november...well i want to have a hole bunch of friends over but i have no clu what to do at my party! like i dont want to get in truble for beaing to loud or anything.....but wuld be some good stuff to do and i cant do a pool party cuz i dunt have a pool :/ i need good ideas! plz help

You can play games and liek watch movies u could have a sleep over i mean it might sound like lil girlish but its a lotta fun!~!!
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does anyone know any good places that hire 14 year olds? i really need a job! lol

You could get a baby sittin job or like a job at dunkin donuts!!
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I was havin a great summa wit this kid named tim but he was my frendz cuzin and he lived in PA and was just visiting. He was so great and like my dream guy that i had been lookin for for a long time. he would hold my feet to keep them warm, play with my hair, adn id just sit on his lap and wed talk. Neways after about 2 weeks he started likin a diff. friend and since we werent officially going out he started going out wit her and i bawled my eyes out and couldnt eat the next day cuz i was so depressed. Now we still talk a lil and the thing is is kinda still like him and i dont know why. hes supposed to come down next summa for the whole summa and im afraid they mite hook back up (they broke up now tho). If i hook back up wit him everyone down here would b mad cuz they hate him for what he did to me. I dont even think he would take me back neways but i cant hepl but miss him.

well i think he should give u anotha chance when he comes down next summa and if he treats u bad then juss tell him 3strikes and your out i kno u prolly miss him a lot trust e i kno how it feels bt u shouldnt cry ova sum guy even if he was more then juss sum guy but still try n talk to him more and stuff so u can become closer and when he does visit again use can hook up!!!
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okay...i was with this guy for a month and then we had sex but the next day an old guy friend called me and we talked for a while even tho i was still at his house. then he got really upset and started yelling at me and i yelled at him saying how he cant talk to me like that and he slapped me across the face. i broke up wit him right then and there and called my sister to come pick me up and the next day he called me saying how hes so sorry he was just going through a lot and has so much stress on his back (which i knew he did) and he called me and asked me to take him back..this was today and i know that i shouldnt but i love him and i have all these feelings for him..what should i do because there is always a chance that he could do it again????

He had not 1 right to slapp u even though u love him i wouldnt go back cuz there are thoughs chances that he could get mad at u again and slap u or even worse. so think about it b4 u make a decision!
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