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ok when im with my friends i always say tha tlike the jocks & stuff r hot.. which they r and alot of the times ill like them.. but when it comes to actually likin sumone and being in relationships i choose the guys that my friends think r not hot.. like i go for personality not looks... a good body is just a plus.. and my friends r always like y r u with him, hes ugly, u could do so much better., but i dont want to do better i like the guys that im with... how can i make my friends see that id rather have a guy with a soso body & a great personality than a guy with a great body but cant even make me laugh...???
average people liker......
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you shouldn't have to prove anything to your friends. if they really are your friends, they wont care if they think your bf's are hott. (well, they will, just not to a disturbing point.)
.hope i helped/.
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I kno wat your sayin who cares wat your friends think bout the guyz u like i mean they dont kno them like u kno them and they prolly have awesome personalitys and alwayz kno how to make u laugh and thats wat u want in a boy friend when your in a relationship and thats how it lasts!!
hope i helped
.*.>> Caitlin <<.*.
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Wow well it seems to me your friends are shallow! Tell them that its not their choice who YOU go out with! Tell them that you go for a personality and someone who cares for you over just a hot guy! Im pretty sure they will understand and if they dont maybe you should re-evaluate why they are good feinds to you girl~! xoxo
*~MALLY~*
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tell them that you dont want better and that you dont like people for only there looks.. also state why you like him soo much and theyll most likely understand.. if they dont, the hell with them!!
-xXoBrianna
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If you go by personality instead of looks, you will be a lot happier and more likely to get who you want. Who wants to be around a hot guy who only cares about how you look? I think you're doing the right thing. I think you should ask out one of these nice guys, and then when your friends see how happy you are, they'll quit bitching and see that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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just tell your friends that you like normal people and look`s dont matter to you...and they should totally understand..and when they say stuff liek " y r yu with him" or " hes so ugly you could do so much better" tell them that you wanna be with him cause hes got an awesome personality and then tell him i dont wanna do better i want him...they shouldn`t have a problem with it...and if they do mabye they arent your true friends!? so just talk to them about it..im sure they will understand!
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Just tell them how you feel. And you're deffinately doing the right thing. It is tons tons better to have someone who you are compatable with then someone who is just good looking. So tell you friends that, and hopefully they will understand where you're coming from. =)
Hope I helped
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Tell them that you don't go just for looks. You want someone that has a good personality, and someone that can actually make you laugh!! If they still continue...then just don't listen. Who cares what they think? The ONLY thing that matters is how YOU feel. If they don't want to see it your way...then it's their problem, not yours.
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Well, your friends will never know unless you tell them. Right now, you tell them that you only like jocks - they are doing what friends do, and they believe you.
It can be hard to admit you like someone your friends don't approve of, but that's what you need to be able to do. I'm sure some of your friends have similar thoughts.
Think about it - even within the category of 'jocks', there are a bunch of different guys. Different hair colour, personality, brains. They aren't all alike, and I'm sure each of your friends prefers different sorts of guys.
The one thing I know they'll agree with you about is that girls need to find guys they actually like; there's no point in dating someone for your friends. Relationships are about YOU and your partner, not your friends.
So tell them - I bet they react really positively.
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