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im like really in love for the first time... and we are going out and everything.. but ive had so many short term relationships taht all my friends are like " your not in love... you'll be done with him in a couple months" but thats so not true at all cuz im heals over head for this guy..... and to add on to all of it.... i dont know if he feels it as much as i do.. and im kinda scared because i have been hurt so many times.. i dont want him to be another one of those guys taht was really great but then puts yet another bruise in my heart... i dont know how to explain to my friends or him how much i really love him... i know he loves me back cuz i can see it in the way he looks at me.. i just dont wanna lose him... ever.... please help me!! haha thanks!
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Wait until the perfect moment to tell him if you're sure you feel this way. And forget your friends, they don't know what you're feeling!
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tell him how you feel you only live once and you dont wanna live with any regrets lett me know if i helped hope i did
monica
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When I realized that I was in love for the first time, I was scared to death. For much of the same reason that you are scared. I didn't think of it, as "I've been hurt so many times before, I don't want to be hurt now" because honestly, I hadn't been hurt before... because I wasn't in love with any of the other guys, it didn't really hurt when we broke up.
But I was scared to death to actually have loving feelings for this person. I didn't want to lose him, it would hurt way too much.
Honestly, there is nothing you can do about the future, you two may make it forever, but you also might not. Try not to worry about that. If you worry about it all the time then you will miss out on the great things that are going on in the present time. If you can't enjoy the things that are going on now, because your worrying so much, then that could be a factor in you two some day breaking up.
As for your friends, all you have to do is prove them wrong by staying with this guy and showing yoru feelings. They will get the picture eventually.
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hey my friend is like that and now shes realli in love with this guy and me being her friend think its awesome and im so happy for her. she always use to cheat on guys and now with this guy she doesnt even want to meet any other guys and shes realli happi and i kno how much he means to her....im sorry that ur friends dont understand that try to forget what ur friends are saying and listen to ur heart. soon ur friends will notice how serious u are th emore u show it....they could aslo be jealous that theyre not in love and didnt expect for u to be first......so try not to let them ruina great relationship but remember theyre your friends so try to tell them how much he means to u even tho im sure u alreadi did and try to give hints or tell them straight out that u dont like wen they say that stuff. i wish u lots of good luck and hope everything works out with your boyfriend and friends.....im sure soon enough theyll notice and be as happi for u as u prolli are for yourself....hope i helped
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Hun i kno how u feel when i started goin out wid my bf last year a month afta skool started no 1 thought we were gunna last but guess wat we showed them we could cuz we r still togetha and truly inlvoe wid each otha we have been together for ova 9 months and everything iz goin great so juss talk to him and find out how he feels bout u see if he has strong feelings for u like u have for him u kno and whe you fall inlove wid him u juss kno that he iz the "ONE" and u couldnt live with out him in your life!! Hope i helped hunni
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well if u think u really are THAT in love then go for it ... but be sure that he loves you back .. maybe you guys should talk about this .. i know i have this boyfriend who i have been going owt wit for like a year [im 14] and im COMPLETELY in love with hem .. like i cld NEVER let hem go . .it would completely crush me to EVER see hem wit ne one else .. but yet i still look at other guys and like other guys ... and it causes MAJOR problems since i have a REALLY jealous bf. but i know he loves me otherwise he wouldnt waste so much of his time on me? who ever heard of a guy who was playin u the whole time that stayed with u for a year you know? so just give it time .. like they say .... time will tell .. well ... and its in his kiss ;)
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