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Hey guys! I used to be GreenDayWillRockYou (aka GD) here at Advicenators. I'm 16 years old, currently a Junior in high school and would be more than happy to help anyone with their problems. I can almost relate to anything, so send the questions away! :)

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if any one has a essay about the maya aztec or inca that i could get some notes off of that would be much appeciated:):)

Hey,

Man We had to do that. It stinks, talk about boring. Well anyways you could go to some of these sites:

only search advicenators.com


I had to use google when I had to do home work.
Lots of Good Answers there!


http//www.about.com

Plenty of Articles there!

-GD

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ok for health i have to do an essay on 5 reasons why americans on average are not phisically fit.

i am just drawing a blank about what to write about
please help asap!!

i rate.

Hey,

I have a few reasons why americans are this way.

Fast (Greasy) Food.

Internet
TV
Bigger Portions of Food
No Exercise
Media
Advertising Food on TV
&
Depression

If You Want to find out more, Go to:
http://www.about.com

The funny thing is, is that I was trying to look up weight loss solutions just a second ago.

-GD

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hey does anyone know how to cover up a black eye completly? im a cheerleader with a black eye. i dont care if my mom and dad or lil bro see it. its my cheerleading coach i also have a compitition really close! so please help.
**sleepiesheep**

Hey,

I have had a black eye before and what I did was used ALOT of Make-Up. Here is a site Site:

http://www.webterrace.com/home/ad.htm#Black%20Eye

(lol, It took forever to find this!)
Plus a Key Word That Every Girl Uses (I think). Make Up!

Good Luck On Compitition Sleepiesheep!

-GD

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it says something like

its been 3 weeks since..someithng

and

it has the word couch...

its a rock song....

sorry its not alot of info but there are 5's involved!

Hey,

Wow, that was kinda easy for me. I accually liked that song (lol). Its Nine Hours and Forty Seconds Lyrics! (Woohoo! I still kinda like that song). Go To:

http://www.lyrics.com

They have TONS of lyrics there!

-GD

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I have a rash...down there. I am not sexually active. What could it be from?

Hey,

Do you shave down there? If so, its just razor burn and its nothing to worry about. Believe me you have no idea about how many questions advicenators gets about that.

& Another thing could be. Are you over weight? That could possiably be a cause to (trust me I know on this one. I'm over weight). Just put some Lotion on it (the Non-scented kind because it could make it worse.)

Or it could just be dry skin! But if thats the case put some Lotion (Once again haha) on it (Non-Scented Please).

But its nothing serious, Every girl one time in her life has that question.

-GD

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well..were leaving for vacation at the beginning of feb and thats when my period is due...is there anything at all that i can to to make it delay like till at least later this month so i wont get it till later in feb? thanks

Hey,

Their is a kind of Medicine, but I wouldn't use it because I have read (In Magazines) that it can be harmful to you. I would just wear a Tampon. If you want to try them I would suggest Playtex.

-GD

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i need to know what is the best kind of make up..
i'm alleric to cover girl

Hey,

Maybelline, is very good. I have used it ever since I have started using make-up. And NYC is a good brand to. NYC has pretty cool colors. Like Blue Eyeliner, etc. You can usually find these at a Drug Store or Walmart!

-GD

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heyy i was just wondering if www.limewire.com and the program is illegal
thanks
ANK

Hey,

Yeah, Thousands of people are getting like a $70,000 Dollar fine for that. One woman got fined that much and she wasnt even the one that burned the music. Someone in her household had and she didn't know it. Its your choice.

-GD

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Well, my best friend died exactly a year ago as of yesterday. I'm not sure if many of you are familiar with my question I posted last year about her death, but so you can hear the whole story here's the link: http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=248637

I've had a hard time dealing with her death, mentally and physically and I've been really depressed. I still blame myself for her death every day because I still feel that if I were there it wouldn't have happened.

I really need help coping with it... I've tried to keep myself busy with fencing, my boyfriend, my friends and schoolwork.. But nothing really seems to keep my mind fully off of what happened.

This past week, when her anniversary came up was when I really started to get depressed. I've gone to therapy because of her death and also because of other problems and my therapist keeps telling me that it wasn't my fault and that I couldn't have prevented it from happening. But if you really think about it, I COULD saved her. She kept begging me to go to the party with her but I said no because I wanted to be with my boyfriend. I think that if I wasn't being so selfish in wanting to spend so much time with my boyfriend, then I WOULD have gone to the party. My ex boyfriend WOULDN'T have slipped X in her drink he WOULDN'T have raped her and she WOULDN'T be dead.

I talk to her family almost every day and they always tell me that it's not my fault... But I still feel like it is.


How can I stop feeling like this is my fault? And how can I finally get closure on her death?

Hey,

I don't believe that its your fault. Because thats the way life is. You know. One day we maybe living and the next day it's over. I have recently been depressed over my grandma. I Will Tell you the story, if you want. Just drop an Inbox and I will be more than happy to tell you! ♥.

It wasn't your fault. You had NO control over what would have happend that night. So please don't be so hard on yourself. I know how you feel.

-GD



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ok heres the story. my friend john has been going out with this girl for a little over a year. today this other guy walks up to me and tells me that the girl he was with cheated on her, but that i wasn't supposed to know that. he was in my next class, so i asked him how his break was and he gave me the thumbs down.

he told me that his gf told him yesterday that she cheated on him...8 months ago. so i was like wow what did you do when she said that, n he said he cursed her out. im pretty sure theyve done stuff before, but she slept with some other guy and tells him this now. ill give her credit for at least waiting until after the holidays to tell him. so the friend that told me said to the guy: so i guess theres no chance of you guys getting married now, and john said: wait why not?

so its a bit confusing. should i talk to him about it? i mean i want to help but at the same time dont want to get dragged in and involved. should i just let things happen? all of my friends are really mad at the girl for doing all that...but for me, not that im mad and hate the girl, but i do feel bad for the guy. any ideas - will rate

Hey,

Do you want to get proof on the girl? If So maybe take a photo of them together and put it in a envolope and don't put your name on it and slip it into Johns locker.

But if you want to convince him that she is trouble, I would just say kinda stay out of it. Because she would probably wana fight you. Which is retarted cause she would probably end up getting her butt kicked. But anyways, If I was in that situation I would kinda lay low. He will soon figure out that their not right for each other.


-GD

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I'm really not liking my advicenators name anymore. Its so corny XSugarpieX77, i mean come on. I have a 4.95 rating, should I make a new site? or, is there a way to change my username but keep my advice page?
thanks.

-Brina

Brina,

Maybe you should email DangerNerd. He would probably Change it if you wanted it changed.:)

-GD

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does anybody know where to get a cute trucker hat for girls real cheap anywhere?


kthx


-cami

http://www.oldglory.com

They Even have some with the Rock Band Names on them!

-GD ((Green Day))

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How do you shut down an xanga?

Once you shut it down, can you start it up again?

Hey There,

Once you shut down an Xanga you Cannot open it back up. Go to Account and it should say "Shutdown Site" on the list.


-GD((Green Day))

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Are being "stretched" and being "loose" the same thing? (down there..) Thanks

Hey,

Yes They Are.

-GD ((Green Day))

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how do you make the heart things not like this

Okay its:

& hearts ;

BUT PUT THEM ALL TOGETHER.

-GD ((Green Day))

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What happens if you take too many sleeping pills?

Hey,

Trust me. You might wake up in heaven..

-GD ((Green Day))

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I don't know if this question has been asked before..but is there any way to see exactly who has visited your myspace? Thanks

Hey,

Not that I know of. I do know a site that you can make that DOES show who comes on your site. If you want to know its:

http://www.tagworld.com

But I don't think their is any way to tell.

-GD ((Green Day))

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I have bit of problem but then again since I'm asking a question I guess thats obvious.

15/F. (16 in a couple months)

There is this guy Marcus, who likes me and I guess I like him. Lately my feelings for him have diminished but anyways he has a girlfriend now but he still says he loves me and all that. (I don't understand guys who say they love you when they don't even know what it means)
At the beginning of December I had a dream that sort of disturbed me and didn't make sense but its become constant now. I have it almost every night.
basically I'm taking a walk and I run into Marcus making out with a girl and I'm shocked, hurt and angry at the same time but when I turn around someone is right there and puts their arms around me and reasures me everything is alright. I know this person is a guy because of his cologne. he's in this brown/tan trenchcoat and I finish crying he goes out and beats up Marcus. (its a dream. I have to have my revenge) Then comes back and puts his arms around me a takes out to the car so no one can ask questions. When were out there we've been talking for sometime, I think and then this person says he loves me and I realize I love him too. We kiss and I wake up. The most desturbing part of the dream is that its my best friends' little brother. He's two years younger then me, 13. I mean this kid is very nice, and matture for his age but its no reason for me to be dreaming about him in such ways. I keep telling myself I don't like him. That its not right to like him but for some reason I constantly think about him. I'm really disgusted with myself. I don't even care that he's my best friends' little brother so much as the age. I feel stupid.
I've told my friend about my dream and she sees no problem with it. I can't get her to understand that there is something wrong with me.

Now my real question is, How the hell do I get myself to quit dreaming about him? I try listening to music before I go to bed, and think about anything but him yet it still doesn't work.

Any suggestions would be great.
kat

--------EDIT--------
Please Explain To Me, Why My Answer is Soo Bad. Exacally, What was wrong with it?

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Would anyone recommend a tampon brand that fits these requirements:

~easy to get in and take out
~has an applicator
~good for girls who are just starting out on the whole tampon matter.

*brand websites highly welcome*

will rate

The Brand "Always" Are Good. I use them when needed. They are easy to put in and take out. Has an Applicator to,and are good for starters! Here is the Web Site For The Brand:

http://www.beinggirl.com

-GD ((Green Day))

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so i like this guy from camp and he lives like 2 hrs away from me. like i want to call him and everything but im really shy and i wouldnt know what to say. can you help me think of topic to talk about or some way i can get over my shyness?

thanks

i rate!

Hey,

I have the same problem. I have googled a web site for you :

http://www.getromantic.com/dating/content.shtml?articles/shyness.shtml

It's Safe so don't worry. Just skip down to were it says :"Stage One"

That way you don't have to read all that. But Here is a web site to help get a conversation started [Cause I know you will need one! :) ]:

http://www.eslgold.com/site.jsp?resource=pag_stu_speaking_phrases_li_conv_start


-GD ((Green Day))

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