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im sara, and i'm smallll. dig it
im in love with tylor mutton
& have been since june 28th 2006
he's a better boyfriend than yours
i work at carrabbas as a hostess
it's pretty amazing if you ask me
i go to wilson hs.. ill be a junior
i do that softball thaaaanggggg.
oh and i have a screen namee..
you can IM me if ya wanttt=]
it's onexlove09. yuuuurrpppppp
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advice

Ok so I know I have asked before but I am freaking so I am going to ask again. My boyfriend and I have dry humped but fully clothed. (Him: boxers, cacies(sp)Me:Pad,Underwear, jeans or korderoy pants.)Well my period hasn't come but it should be anyday now.(I think I am having light cramps but not sure) I am a bit late. I have never had intercourse. Is there anyway that I might be pregnant if he has gotten a quater sized wet spot on on his pants but he never like...ejaculated?
Help..
~ELI

you're not pregnant.. i promise =] ♥

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well i really am tired with my hair color because in some lighting it just looks green and sometimes it doesn't match my skin tone, so what color would look good?

http://a820.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/11/l_24de6501d2c4ebce80e620adcbf16e6b.png

i would definitely say BROWN. =] allll the wayyy. like this:

http://www.hilarynews.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/07/glam-jam11.jpg

good luck ♥

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my friend is getting abused by her boyfreind but she doesnt know it. i can tell, because she says "i called him an a$$hole and then he slapped me., but i forgive him because you know, if he called me a b***** i would slap him" or how she says "me and him had sex, i didnt really feel like it but i mean i am his girlfreind, i kinda HAVE to". and how he can check her phone atleast once a day. She just says its him making sure that noone is calling her that could harm her. Oh please the only harm that she has is him. What should i do? Ive told her a few times its considered abuse if he hurts her in anyway, and forcing her to have sex, even if shes his girlfriend, is rape. And checking peoples phones to make sure they arent calling anyone or texting anyone they shouldnt is basically violation of trust and privacy. She just won't listten. and won't report it. WHAT SHULD I DO? Hes even starting to not let her hang out with me and her other friends

f that man.. hes a loser. if you can't get it through your friends mind, she's probably just blinded by [what she thinks is] love. reeeepooorrrrtttt ittttt!!! to a trusted adult.. depending on what kind of parents you guys have, tell them. or a school guidance counselor. or any kind of official. because that is definitely abuse.. wow he's a jerk. try your best to convince her of this. i'm sure it will eventually get through to her. if not, simply report it =\ good luck babe ♥

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ok 18/m
shes 17
going out 4 months
then she tells me she loves her x
we break up
2 days later she comes back cryin sayin she made a mistake blah blah blah
wants me back blah blah blah
doesnt want him or ne1 else blah blah blah
i ask her if she has even kissed any1 else. she says no
i say ok
we get back together
Then i find out through trusty lil myspace that in those 2 days she fucked a 20 year old and lied about it.
Confronted her. She admited it. Shes crying over it. Shes givin me all the "im so disgusted in myself, i hate myself for it blah blah blah"
i cant take this pain anymore, every time i look at her i break down cuz i picture her and him.
But i also cant walk away from her. I love her.
And i also cant go on a break with her, becuase im to afraid of what she will do if shes not with me cuz i cant trust her whatsoever anymore. HELP

alright well i can understnad loving someone so much, that you don't care what they do wrong. but look at the facts, she's being very unloyal to you. you need to sit down and have a very VERY serious talk with her. only you can decide if she's truly sorry. =]

and about that whole 'break' thinggggg....
ever hear this quote? i hate it, cause its sad.. but unfortunately its true..

"IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING, SET IT FREE. IF IT COMES BACK, ITS YOURS. IF IT DOESN'T, IT WAS NEVER MEANT TO BE..."

so hun, all you can do it figure it out on your own.. you know her better than any of us here on advicenators do.. so only you can decide.

but i advise you to talk to her, figure her out. she doesn't seem very trustworthy though.. but i can tell you love her. and she probably loves you too =] you just reallllyy have to follow your heart with these kinds of things =] good luck ♥

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i feel really dumb asking this but what is dry sex?

you mean dry humping? its like humping with your clothes on. so dry sex, must be sex with your clothes on.. ouch lol ♥

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this question is kinda for girls only.

ok so this is kinda gross but lately i have been discharging alot, i usually do but not this nuch.

why is this happening?

well if you haven't had your period yet, its coming baby =] and if you've already gotten it before, its still coming baby lol ♥

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I am a 14 year old male who has been masturbating since 13, and it was a bit weird because when i finished, the stuff that came out wasnt white, it was like seethrough or grey, is this normal?

alright well to answer your first question.. cum isnt always white.. it can be clearish or white or even gray. so yes you can cum. =]

secondly, ummmm yes she could be pregnant. ever hear of precum? its a nasty little thing. it comes out before the real cum does, and you can't feel it coming. so yes she could be. NEVER USE THE PULL OUT METHOD EVER AGAINNNNNNNNNNN.

ok so i don't think she should tell her mom friday.. periods come at alllll different times and they're never regular.. not even when you're older. so if its due wednesday, it might not come til NEXT wednesday. i know someone whos 17 years old, had sex, was worried shitless that she was pregnant cause her period was realllllyy late.. but her period did come. 3 MONTHS LATER. so i advise her not to tell her mom lol.. cause i'm sure everything will be fineeeee. just dont tell her so soon. =]

and once again, don't use the pull out method!! =] it rarely works because of dumb precum lol. good luck with everything though!!! ♥

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Where is it

its that little circular thing at the top of a womans vagina. its the only body part EVER just made for pure sexual pleasure. neat, huh? =) lol. but yeah.. its like a ittle button that gets hard when it's turned on. =) yepppp

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how do i delete my advicenators account?

you can't delete it.. but you can delete all of your personal information, and any questions you've answered. if you really want to delete it i'm pretty sure one of the moderators have to do it for you =) ask dangernerd on his advice column ♥
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=DangerNerd

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So, i'm pretty sure I like girls. I mean, ive never dated a girl or a guy to EXACTLY know. (or kissed for that matter) but honestly i'm just attracted to girls and find male genetalia gross.....

But i'm starting to think that maybe i just find it gross because of my age and inexperiance and just... immaturity? and maybe I like the idea of having friendships with girls and confuse that with being in love with them? I just dont know.

I have told people I am bi, but never told someone I was actually a lesbian. Also, all the guys im friensd with are gay. I have like no straight men in my life besides my father and older brother lol, if that matters....

Oh, and I watch/enjoy girl on girl action frequently and i just dont know who i can see myself spending the rest of my life with: a man, or woman? I can't see myself with EITHER! :-p

you're just young an inexperienced. its normal. you're more comfortable with girls, because you are one and there's no mystery about girls to you. you find male genetalia gross, because it's something new to you and you don't exactly know very much about it or feel comfortable with it. as you grow older, i'm sure you'll be able to develop your opinions. but i don't think you're a lesbian.. you're just young and inexperienced. =) you could be, but only you can know until you experiment =) good luck hun!! ♥

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what exacly does understanding means? can you give me an example?

im from korea

understanding means that you can relate to where people are coming from.. if you're an understanding person, you're very nice, and you are very approachable. it means to grasp the meaning of something =)

for example: i am a very understanding person. i can always see where people are coming from and i can find something good about anything anyone tells me. people can always come to me for help, or if they did something wrong. because i am understanding and i find good in everything people do.

website with more definitions:
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/understanding

♥

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whats the first thing you do get ipod nano? i got one yesterday and i dont know what to do. please say it step by step. step 1 step all that thanks =]



[for example do i charge it? how? how do i know if it is charging? if it is full?]

ok well i'm not an instruction booklet.. and i'm not gonna go and get mine and type all the steps for you.. that'd be silly. your ipod comes with a little booklet.. everythings in there. the firsdt thing you do though is download itunes.. put your songs into itunes, or buy them.. whichever you want. then plug it in and the songs will sync to it. and yeah you charge it lol.. you plug it into the computer. you know if its charging because it will say "charging" on the ipod... when its done charging it will say "charge complete".

**EDITTTTT;;;
yes, that means its charging. when its full i'm not sure what it will do.. just take it off and look at the battery meter thing on the ipod nano's screen and see if its full. =)

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15/f

Since the day I met this boy, Alex, in September 2004 I have liked him. I'm sure he felt the same to me but things dragged on and never happened. I recently found out some things that allowed me to get over him.. mostly.

Despite RARELY talking, today he sent me a message with one of those poems about sex with "YOU'RE FUCKIN SEXY" at the end. Sure, he can think that of me but I also have a 4.0 GPA. Alex clearly isn't right for me.

I am wondering what I could say back to his message. I want this jerk to lust over me but think he has no chance. I am feeling quite bitter and would like a little revenge for all of the time I wasted thinking of him.

I was considering replying with a simple "oh" to him, so he would just be confused/defeated. I am not interested in sending the poem back or not replying.

Thanks, any suggestions or overall insight is greatly appreciated! =)

PS: For more info, just ask!

well its up to you.. but here's some options:

okay...
thanks i guess.
yeah i know =)
alrighty
thats fantastic. [thats probably what i would say.. lol]
or you could say, "yeah i know.. i've only gotten that 357857 times today"

your pick =) either way, i totally agree with you.. he seems like a ninkumpoop. =) but he's probably intrigued by your smarts and looks.. good luck with him lol ♥

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I am a male, 19 years old. I dont know when i started mastuebating but now i am a mastuerbation freak. I mastuerbate everyday sometimes even 4-5 times. Is mastuerbation bad and how should i stop myself from doing so??

its not bad unless it controls your life lol.. like for instance, if you find your self choosing masterbation over hanging with friends, going to school/work, doing other things you normally do, then i'd say it's a little out of hand. just think of it and how much you want to stop.. if i even want to stop doing something, i just say to myself "ok well if i want to stop so badly, then i just should." so i do. same if i want to start.. like if i want to do better in a class and do my homewrok more, i jsut say well if i want to, i just should. but in your case, i would just find things that interest you MORE than masterbating. like find a new hobby, chill with your friends more. get a job, if you don't have one. just find something better to do =) as far as it being unhealthy, it is not dangerous to your health physically, but like i said; its bad if you choose it over other things. so just find something else to occupy yourself with =) and everytime you want to go and masterbate, just stop and go do something else. you don't have to stop all together, but maybe cut it down to twice a day.. once you conquer that, then cut it down to once a day, then 3-4 times a week. and just keep going until you think you're at a normal rate =) good luck!

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O.K. well you here people like saying they want to hit 2nd base in a relationship.... what does that mean? like what are all the bases & what do they mean?

alright well i've always head of it diferently than the two previous people have...

i've heard:

1st: make out
2nd: hand/feely things [fingering, hj]
3rd: oral things
4th: sex [aka. home run]

♥

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ok so i just got a new razor and im trying to set up my voicemail but i cant seem to find the number and i already treid hoolding down #1. help?

well usually you either dial 1, and press send, hold down 1, or call your phone number. but i'm pretty positive that if you go into your messages, somewhere in there it shoudl say 'voicemail' and click on that, then press send where it shows you too =] if you're not sure, stop back at the place where you got it and they can help you with anythingg ♥ good luckkk.

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I was having problems with my boyfriend of 2 years over christmas time. he was away for 2 weeks and i was going to break up with him when he returned. At work i became close to this other guy & we could talk about everything. once when we were working together i was really upset about my boy & after we closed, he wanted to make out & used me to get back at his girl for cheating before on him! my boyfriend has never *excited* me that much but when i hooked up w. my coworker, it was crazzy! when my boy came back from his trip, everything change & he was different & i fell for him all over again. Now every time i go to work & the guy is working he wants to hook up & i dont. every time i deny him he tells me all these mean things & that my morals shouldnt matter & i should lighten up. im now really mad at him & myself for getting in this situation. i dont no what to do...please help!

well that is a pretty tough situation =\ i think you should maybe tell your boyfriend what you did.. i would, because i don't know how i'd be able to deal with that on my conscince.. but thats just meeee lol. so i would just basically tell your coworker to F off and that you aren't interested in him at all. just tell him that you love your boyfrined, that one time meant absolutely nothing to you, and you don't want anything to do with him =] and don't worry about being harsh, you said he's been saying mean things to you; so he probably deserves it. good luck hun! ♥

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iv'e been going out with this guy since x-mas. we're going out for valentines day but i seriously have no clue what to get him........he has lots of aftershave already so i didn't want to get him that i really don't want to get him clothes either.... i'm soooo stuck on what to get him.. his style is kind of gay because he knows what he likes... is there anything mutual that any guy would like that i could get him....

please reply soon so i can get it thanks so much

aw just get him like something tacky.. lol like a box of chocolates and a reddy bear! or just a nice shirt =) nothing too huge though. or you could make him a CD, a photo album, just anything i'm sure he would like =) if you get really stuck though, just get him a cute teddy bear and a box of chocolates and a card =) that ALWAYS works ♥ good luck!!

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what are smyptoms of a concusion and how long do they last

alright i am basically an expert on concussions, thanks to my dumb unsafe-football-playing boyfriend =] lol. i don't know, he's has a numbr of concussions in his life.. around 5 or 6. and he gets naucious, a headache [obviously], dizzy, can't remember the actual getting hit part, and he says he just feels 'really weird'. meaning really uncomfortable, out of place, and just off. it all depends on the seriousness of the concussion, when it comes to determining the length of them. google it to find out exactly what you want to know =] good luckkkkkkkkkkkk ♥

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14/f
In one of my classes, we were put into groups of 4 and told to think of ideas how to design the tallest freestanding paper tower, using only 1 sheet of paper, 8 1/2 x 11, and 6 inches of scotch tape. It's being graded, and the tower has to be at least 30 inches tall in order for us to pass. 40 inches will get me a decent grade. The tower can't be taped to the floor or hanging from anything, and tape cant be added for height. Does anyone have any ideas of what I could do? I need this for tomorrow [2/8] so im kind of desperate.

you should cut the paper into 3 long pieces and roll them like straws.. save some paper and tape and make a base so it stands =] good luck ♥

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