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How should I reply to his comment?
15/f
Since the day I met this boy, Alex, in September 2004 I have liked him. I'm sure he felt the same to me but things dragged on and never happened. I recently found out some things that allowed me to get over him.. mostly.
Despite RARELY talking, today he sent me a message with one of those poems about sex with "YOU'RE FUCKIN SEXY" at the end. Sure, he can think that of me but I also have a 4.0 GPA. Alex clearly isn't right for me.
I am wondering what I could say back to his message. I want this jerk to lust over me but think he has no chance. I am feeling quite bitter and would like a little revenge for all of the time I wasted thinking of him.
I was considering replying with a simple "oh" to him, so he would just be confused/defeated. I am not interested in sending the poem back or not replying.
Thanks, any suggestions or overall insight is greatly appreciated! =)
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you could reply like this:
i know or
yup, too sexy for you
or you could do the steven from that 70's show:
thats cool
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well its up to you.. but here's some options:
okay...
thanks i guess.
yeah i know =)
alrighty
thats fantastic. [thats probably what i would say.. lol]
or you could say, "yeah i know.. i've only gotten that 357857 times today"
your pick =) either way, i totally agree with you.. he seems like a ninkumpoop. =) but he's probably intrigued by your smarts and looks.. good luck with him lol ♥
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So, you've mostly gotten over him, he doesn't have a chance with you, he isn't worth your time at all BUT you feel like insulting him and making him feel shitty anyways?
That is called a petty female mind game.
The time you spent thinking on him was your doing. The time you are still spending obsessing over causing him pain is your doing. I’m sure this little turd has a lot of faults but your thoughts aren’t one of them. Your thoughts are your own and you simply made an honest mistake by being interested in him.
Oh yes, I'm being a bit of a bitch right now, but behavior like you are considering is what gives all women a bad name, and on behalf of all women out there, I’m taking a bit of offence. You are considering treating him badly for your own pleasure. That is never okay, in any situation, not even when a guy screws over a girl. It makes for a funny movie, but it’s not an okay way to live.
You should not try to make other people feel bad in order to make yourself feel better.
You want to reply to him, reply with the truth "I'm not interested in you like that anymore. Never will be again. Sorry babe." That will frustrate him I’m sure, but it will also be honest and mature.
Otherwise, prove to yourself and to him that you are in fact over him, that he is in fact not worth your time and that he is in fact beneath you in ever possible way, and don’t respond to his message.
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I know what you mean. I'm like that with guys to- you sort of like them, but you want them to think they don't have a chance. If it was me, I would reply back something like, "Yeah, I got that poem a thousand times today." If you think that sounds too mean, try adding an "Lol" at the end of it, to lighten it up a little. Basically anything can be lightnened up with the words "Lol" or "Haha." If you're into this whole, being mysterious thing, you could twrite back "mkay." or something like that. When you say "mkay," a guy gets mixed messages and he doesn't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing. If you really want to be mysterious, you can not reply at all. Or you can just wait a few days before you reply, and if he asks you about it, you can say, "Gosh, I've just been so busy lately. Sorry I didn't really have time to open your message a few days ago." Or if jealousy is more your style, a little, "Sorry it took me so long to reply, but I've been talking to alot of other guys." will always do the trick for you. Hope you find something that works for you!
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