Question Posted Wednesday February 7 2007, 11:06 pm
I was having problems with my boyfriend of 2 years over christmas time. he was away for 2 weeks and i was going to break up with him when he returned. At work i became close to this other guy & we could talk about everything. once when we were working together i was really upset about my boy & after we closed, he wanted to make out & used me to get back at his girl for cheating before on him! my boyfriend has never *excited* me that much but when i hooked up w. my coworker, it was crazzy! when my boy came back from his trip, everything change & he was different & i fell for him all over again. Now every time i go to work & the guy is working he wants to hook up & i dont. every time i deny him he tells me all these mean things & that my morals shouldnt matter & i should lighten up. im now really mad at him & myself for getting in this situation. i dont no what to do...please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? 0NEL0VEEx answered Thursday February 8 2007, 4:50 pm: well that is a pretty tough situation = i think you should maybe tell your boyfriend what you did.. i would, because i don't know how i'd be able to deal with that on my conscince.. but thats just meeee lol. so i would just basically tell your coworker to F off and that you aren't interested in him at all. just tell him that you love your boyfrined, that one time meant absolutely nothing to you, and you don't want anything to do with him =] and don't worry about being harsh, you said he's been saying mean things to you; so he probably deserves it. good luck hun! ♥ [ 0NEL0VEEx's advice column | Ask 0NEL0VEEx A Question ]
Ender answered Thursday February 8 2007, 10:33 am: You shouldn't stay with your boyfriend because you cheated and he deserves better. I'm disgusted that you would cheat on a boyfriend of two years. Some people (you) aren't mature enough for relationships. There is no excuse to EVER cheat. As soon as you do it you aren't worth the other person's time. And all it took was him being gone for two weeks and you're off with other guys? Become a nun for the sake of all the men out there. [ Ender's advice column | Ask Ender A Question ]
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