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mastuerbation
I am a male, 19 years old. I dont know when i started mastuebating but now i am a mastuerbation freak. I mastuerbate everyday sometimes even 4-5 times. Is mastuerbation bad and how should i stop myself from doing so??
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Its not bad its Normal !!
Who doesnt do it ;)
But if yu feel its bad then qet ah qirLfriend that Loves to have Sex :)
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buddy there is nothing wrong with masterbating im a 18 yr old female and i masterbate like its my religion hey whenever the mood strikes i do whatever i need to do its a good way to releive stress you know THERE ANIT NO SHAME IN MY GAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
its completely natural and i love learning new postions
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find a girlfriend.
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4-5 times???Wow
Dont let that talent get wasted lol, go find yourself a girl.
If you prefer masturbation over your girl, then u should delete all the porn from your computer
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its not bad unless it controls your life lol.. like for instance, if you find your self choosing masterbation over hanging with friends, going to school/work, doing other things you normally do, then i'd say it's a little out of hand. just think of it and how much you want to stop.. if i even want to stop doing something, i just say to myself "ok well if i want to stop so badly, then i just should." so i do. same if i want to start.. like if i want to do better in a class and do my homewrok more, i jsut say well if i want to, i just should. but in your case, i would just find things that interest you MORE than masterbating. like find a new hobby, chill with your friends more. get a job, if you don't have one. just find something better to do =) as far as it being unhealthy, it is not dangerous to your health physically, but like i said; its bad if you choose it over other things. so just find something else to occupy yourself with =) and everytime you want to go and masterbate, just stop and go do something else. you don't have to stop all together, but maybe cut it down to twice a day.. once you conquer that, then cut it down to once a day, then 3-4 times a week. and just keep going until you think you're at a normal rate =) good luck!
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Masturbation isn't itself a bad thing, but if you are feeling compelled to masturbate four or five times a day then this habit is likely interfering with the rest of your life. Any habit, engaged in so much that you ignore things like work, family or friends ought to be looked at very seriously and scaled back on.
If you are masturbating instead of living your life, then yes, it's become a bad thing. How do you stop yourself? Pure force of will dear. You find something else to do, something more productive to do instead. You don't even need to stop all together if you don't want too, just scale back so the habit doesn't run your life.
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its just a phase, i am a girl and when i was your age i did just that much if not more in one day.
it will take a while, you might not get over your "fix" for months if not years, then again you could wake up next week not feeling the urge as much.
until then, surf porn on the net, and get it in as much as you want. but don't be ashamed of your endeavers. and don't think that there is something wrong with you, you are just a 19 year old guy expressing yourself. also, if you want you could try to find a girlfriend... that might help you along if you want.
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