Question Posted Saturday February 10 2007, 4:41 am
I just had the greatest date ever. I know a guy at school, and we've talked on a few occasions for an hour or two at a time. Anyway, we had a wonderful date tonight, and of course, ended up making out. A lot. We talked a lot too, but ooh my god, i don't know where to get started with the making out part. Anyway, we sat on a stairwell and started making out, and I ended up sitting on his lap, straddling him, which felt so good and comfortable for both of us. But i don't know if I got carried away or not. I was kissing his neck and touching the top of his chest. And when he dropped me off, we made out in the car for a good 15 minutes or so. ANd I don't know...is all of this generally appropriate on a first date, even if you totally get along with the person?
pockets answered Saturday February 10 2007, 4:24 pm: Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with making out on the first date. The only thing I wouldn't agree with is if you go any further on the next date. The only downside of all the make out sessions on the first date is that the guy will expect more of you the second time around. [ pockets's advice column | Ask pockets A Question ]
lovelyrics answered Saturday February 10 2007, 11:42 am: It depends on you if it is okay or not. Different girls have different rules for first dates. If you feel comfortable with the guy then in my opinion i think it's fine. So just as long as you and the guy are comfortable than i'd say go ahead and make out. There's no crime in that. [ lovelyrics's advice column | Ask lovelyrics A Question ]
clouded_bluee answered Saturday February 10 2007, 9:54 am: Every girl has different rules or standards for their first date. Whatever you feel is appropriate at the time I'm sure is. Because if he didn't like it I'm sure he wouldn't of made out with you in the car, and you say you guys have known eachother for a while so its not like you guys just met. I think it`s appropriate. [ clouded_bluee's advice column | Ask clouded_bluee A Question ]
audra answered Saturday February 10 2007, 7:28 am: it's great that you are coming into womenhood with such enthusiasum. if you feel that you might have gotten carried away with him, then it is possible that you did.
but it's not like you had sex with him or anything like that. i wouldn't worry about your make out session, if anything develops between you and him make sure that you take a little bit longer before you have sex.
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