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Making out on 1st date
I just had the greatest date ever. I know a guy at school, and we've talked on a few occasions for an hour or two at a time. Anyway, we had a wonderful date tonight, and of course, ended up making out. A lot. We talked a lot too, but ooh my god, i don't know where to get started with the making out part. Anyway, we sat on a stairwell and started making out, and I ended up sitting on his lap, straddling him, which felt so good and comfortable for both of us. But i don't know if I got carried away or not. I was kissing his neck and touching the top of his chest. And when he dropped me off, we made out in the car for a good 15 minutes or so. ANd I don't know...is all of this generally appropriate on a first date, even if you totally get along with the person?
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There's no rule out there saying what's appropriate and & what's not appropriate for the first date. It's your personal decision on how far you want to go (& if he's comfortable with it as well.) Since you both seem to be alright with making out, then there should be no problem! If you want MY opinion, I don't think there's anything wrong making out with the person if you're both attracted to each other. (Anything further is out of the question FOR ME.) But others may not be believe in anything on the first date. Like I said, it's YOUR personal choice! Glad you had a good date. :)
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Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with making out on the first date. The only thing I wouldn't agree with is if you go any further on the next date. The only downside of all the make out sessions on the first date is that the guy will expect more of you the second time around.
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It depends on you if it is okay or not. Different girls have different rules for first dates. If you feel comfortable with the guy then in my opinion i think it's fine. So just as long as you and the guy are comfortable than i'd say go ahead and make out. There's no crime in that.
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Every girl has different rules or standards for their first date. Whatever you feel is appropriate at the time I'm sure is. Because if he didn't like it I'm sure he wouldn't of made out with you in the car, and you say you guys have known eachother for a while so its not like you guys just met. I think it`s appropriate.
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if you feel comfortable then good for you..if not, then next date when you 2 start making out again just be like wait we should take it slower or something.
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it's great that you are coming into womenhood with such enthusiasum. if you feel that you might have gotten carried away with him, then it is possible that you did.
but it's not like you had sex with him or anything like that. i wouldn't worry about your make out session, if anything develops between you and him make sure that you take a little bit longer before you have sex.
otherwise have fun with your new and exciting experiences!
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