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When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it? (link)
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I try to do 3 things like that a day.
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Okay, If you are over the age of 14 then you could really give me some advice. My life sucks! So lets start from the beginning. Shall we? Okay I'm 14/f and I wont be 15 until april 2nd. Well my life is horrible because I dont do anything or go anywhere plus I dont have friends or a boyfriend like everyone else seems to have. I was with this boy that broke my heart. We didnt go out or anything. But I almost lost my virginity wiht him because he played me and I'm young and stupid. He told me that we were meant to be then he ignores me and doesnt want to talk to me so I hate that I did anything will him and I can't get that off my mind and I'm ssooooooooooo depressed about everything! I just cant handle that he played me like a fiddle then left me there. I'm trying to deal with it. I see that everyone else is happy with somebody else! I really want to die. I'm sooo glad i didnt have sex with him because gosh that would be bad. I mean we didnt take our clothes off. So I guess i learned my lesson to make sure I really LOVE someone before I get in their bed and let them stick their hands down my pants. And whats even worse is that my mom is being a bitch about lettin me go anywhere because she knows what I did with that dude. So I lost my moms trust and guys still wont date me. That dude even called me a whore for doing all that I did wiht him sooo fast. So he lost respect for me and I honestly think I will kill myself. My life was bad and now I've made it worse!
Does anyone have advice as to what I can do? (link)
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ok look at it this way, in 15 years will any boy you meet now matter? Not really. So whats the point of guys now? To have fun. But you can have fun w/o any guys. Just make new friends and try to leave out interests of dating. If you dont make new friends so be it. They wont be in your like in 15 years either. What i'm saying is that you can find ways to entertain yourself. Learn something new. What have you always wanted to be able to do? Well learn how to do it. Oh, and it sounds like you need some serious bonding time with your mom.
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on a desktop for your computer is it possible to put two pictures up on the desktop because im trying to put two up there with the same size. (link)
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or you could save them as a desktop item and then strech them individually to your needs
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I'm friends with at least 6 Athiest people. I don't really want to change them. It's just why doesn't people believe in God? My one friend say me wearing a cross to school one day and told me to take it off. I asked her why. She said some very unkind things about God. Then she said, How can God be real if he doesn't save anybody from death? I couldn't answer that. SI asked around and found out she wasn't always Athiest. She used to believe in God until her grandparents were murdered. Since me and my friends live in a town with drug dealers, malesters, and murderers, it's common for people to get hurt, but i'm not scared of the people in my town, but my friend scares me saying too many rude things about God. What do I do?! (link)
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Because when people become baffled and confused they begin to doubt. The doubt manifests and they find a new belief.
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is it okay for a 17 year old guy (just turned 17) and a 14 (turning 15 soon) year old girl to go out?
i dont want to get him in trouble (link)
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no, if it is ment to be then let it happen later in life.
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my friend is really pretty and likes to flirt with guys. once she was over my house and the guy that i liked was on so she gave him a link to her myspace and asked him what do you think of me. he wouldn't answer since he had a girlfriend. and she goes i can't wait till he breaks up with his girlfriend so he can tell me what he thought. then she put together this lunch so i could meet up with him but she started flirting with him and he asked her to be his girlfriend. she knew i liked him so she asked me what should say. i told her to say yes regardless my feelings and the next day after she said yes she bragged about getting him is she really a true friend?
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To be honest, she is an idiot. Don't worry about her too much, but be there for her, cause eventually she will be there for you. For now, ignore her idiocracy.
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My boyfriend and I just broke up and I heard there are 4 dirty low down tricks to getting him back..... someone out there has got to be able to help me I want him back....but how? (link)
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wtf is wrong with you? what did he ever do to you? He was just a boyfriend. NOT A HUSBAND. Get over it, you were dating to see if it would work, obviously it didn't. If you give me a decent reason of why he deserves it, i will give you the info you want. Otherwise grow up and get over your steriotypical socialogical view on dating.
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does drinking milk and orange juice get you taller? (link)
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milk and oj will help you reach your maximum hight which is predetermined by genetics.
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Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and he says he really loves me and I really love him, but then all the sudden he decides to go to the movies with another girl? He says they want to hang out cause they haven't seen each other in a long time, and don't get me wrong I totally trust him. But I just don't know what to do I mean why the movies of all places? ughh. this sucks. I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
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As a guy, i think this really needs to be said: YOUR NOT MARRIED TO THE GUY. Get a grip, worse thing is he cheats and you break up with him. Not the end of the world. Your only dating him. He deserves room to live a life separate of yours. When the hell did this whole dating thing become so screwed up? Just because you have a boyfriend doesnt mean he has to be attatched to your hips and spitting out wedding vows. Look, ask what movie they are going to see. Rule of thumb, action and comedy is generally ok. Drama and horror is borderline; romantic movie is bad. And remember you CAN question him if your worried, and you can tell him that your nervous about it. It makes a guys life about 100 times better if they arent make to commit solely to their girlfriend.
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Guess I'm not as cool as I used to be...
I'm sitting outside in my back yard, typing on my brother's laptop, taking in the beaming gleam of the sun. it seems like I'm losing all my friends to a number of illegal substances. No one wants to come to my house anymore, because they aren't going to get plastered or toke up a fatty. As if I'm in a competition with drugs to have friends, I don't invite people over anymore, I don't even look foreword to weekends anymore, because my house is a boring place to go all of the sudden. I guess when you grow up to a certain age, you have to start doing drugs and drinking to be fun? How long ago was last summer? No one ever mentioned drugs last summer, what with the change? I guess life is boring without uppers and downers, being sober is being square. My house is a last resort for people to go to have fun. "hey guy, let's just go to my house, there aren't any parties tonight, I guess we'll just have to be sober for once… goddamn.". I only have one friend that hasn't smoked or drank. And we hang out all the time, and have a lot of fun. But I guess it isn't actual fun because we remember it. I guess we're just boring people, it almost makes me want to toke up and get hammered just so that I can hang out with all my friends that have ditched for the shit. But I won't, and I guess that means I have to continue living my boring, sober life alone, with my one friend… in my boring house. Any generic after school special would say "well, those guys aren't your true friends, go find some real ones!" sure thing A.S.S. I'd love to. But I don't know anyone that hasn't been incapacitated. Not only that, but those people ARE MY REAL FRIENDS! Just today Anthony ditched me, at my house, we were all about to leave to go to bowling green, to go to lake malone with my brother; he didn't even say 'bye'. What the hell is that? That sounds like something my brother would do. And it is something my brother has done. I don't care if he went to do drugs, it was still a shitty thing to do] But I'm not here to cuss out my friends, I'm here to query myself, to ponder… I don't do drugs, that makes me a loser, no seriously, it does, I have lost all but two of my friends to drugs, and it kills me. Goddamn it, and people wonder why I play online games? I play them so I can interact with people and have fun! I can't any other way! I don't have any friends! I'm not going to hang around drunken and high people, unless it's Westray, because he's the same sober as he his high! I didn't mean this as an insult, I'm saying that Westray is a cool person to be with no matter what, we can talk to eachother and laugh with eachother, no matter what]
But I guess that's the end of this rant. If I can't have friends while being sober, I guess I won't have friends, maybe I'll find some more real friends like kaleb and nic. But i just gotta live and find out. I know that things won't be the same this summer, I won't have many memories this summer, not without buddies to make them with. and my old buddies that get high and shit, they won't remember the memories that they made. I thought I was cool, but I guess you can't be anymore, not without that shit.
Have any advice for me?
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hmm, i'm guessing as the fact that you are bold and intelligent enough to not do drugs or drink that you are a decent guy and similar to me in many respects. But here is some real advice: go out with some girls. Yea, some girls go out and are partying with your friends but i promise that not all of them are. Go for the intelligent girls with good school grades-- you will probably have a good time with them. And while your at it, hook your one or two friends, who aren't into drugs, up as well. Trust me, the ones who ditched you arent having a great time. They are too plastered or high to realize how shitty of a time they are having. Or you could make a scheme to get all your friends caught and then they would be forced to hang out with you again. The choice is yours.
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is there any site where i can get free music? for example, music such as rock, indie, screamo, metal, poppunk, etc. (link)
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do it the legal way and just listen to internet music with pandora.com
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my friend's phone broke, and her parents wont get her a new one but her service is already paid for the rest of the year.
i was wondering if anybody here knows of a website where a 13 year old could get a free phone? for tmobile. preferably a cute one but anything works.
but i would have it shipped to her house as a suprise and so if this could be a website that dosent send mass advertisement mail that would be awesome thank ya so much! (link)
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instead of getting one online, go talk to a bunch of your friends and see if they have an old one that isnt activated anymore.
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ok, so drinking water helps you lose water weight? technically, how does water help you lose weight? what effect does it have on your body? (link)
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on top of current answers, water is used in all chemical reations. more water means faster reactions which means faster metabolism. but be warned, your metabolism works at a rate that is maximized before overcasual water consumption takes place.
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I'm taking English with the most annoying people on earth. They frustrate me to death, and I strongly believe that some of their oppinions that come through our class-disscussions are wrong. My teacher on the other hand agrees with them and says I need to realize that my way of seeing things is..well, a minority. And that the majority of people would agree with my class. So, I need to find out what YOU guys think, honestly, don't agree with me for a high rating, dont disagree to piss me off, just give me YOUR HONEST OPINION PLEASE.
Because I don't want anyone to agree with me for the sake of a high rating, I wont tell you what my opinion was, I'll simply ask for yours, that's fair right? So.. my teacher said "I think that a society like ours that makes economy such a high priority in the end looses it's humanism" and then let us discuss this quote. What are your opinions about this? Do you agree? Or can you find examples that show that that's not quite true?
Thank you!
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Maybe humans are the flaw, not the economy. Economy and humanism are concepts: they in practice may not meet the true requirements. In theory a monarchy is great: speedy intelligent decisions. But in practice there is rarely the perfect king or queen. Same idea, but on a mass scale-- the people are flawed.
Our economy actualy inspires humanism: 2 examples that are irrefutable-- gospel of wealth and philanthrapy.
if you need more info then ask and i will answer.
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Let's say someone came to your class to tell you about World War 2 (while it was still going on) it was this woman, who would kill others and work at a concentration camp and when someone (like a classmate) asked her how she could do such awful things she answered "Me and my husband want nice neighbours and friends, and we havn't been able to buy a house until now. If we just work there for 6 more months we'll be able to keep the house and invite our neighbours and have a normal life! After that we'll quit!" you'd pretty much think the woman was selfish right? I mean she's killing people for a nice house! But then your teacher would say something like "hey you can't judge people before you've been in their shoes, how can you decide waht's morally wrong or right if you havn't ever proven that you can go against everyone, follow your conscience, even if that means losing your career, future, friends, money or anything like that?!" what would you answer to that? or like AGAINST that - to show that we actually do have a right to say what's wrong or right even if we havn't been in the exact situation! Cause I really believe we do, like I KNOW IT'S WRONG TO KILL, so why can't I make that judgment and say "she was wrong, because she killed" ?! (link)
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In a picture of a man shooting an unarmed man who is on there knees begging, who would you rather be?
Why is it morally wrong do you ask? Because she made a choice: she took the easy path when a hard path could have had the same outcome. Why is it wrong to do that: because it's cowardly.
tell your teacher: " it matters not what I would do, because I may be just as immoral as they are: my actions have little to do with the moral implications of an occurance."
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this girl at school i hate her and so does the whole class but these 3 girls do this to everyone but find it more fun doing it to that girl they for a joke pinch her boobs slap her bum tiggle her vagina im a bystander i just watch this may be bullying but they do it to everyone including me but i dont react so they stop what do i do i hate that girl though?! (link)
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whats wrong with you? Stand up for her! I dont care how much you hate her, if someone needs backup then dont wait for god to smite the wrongdoers. Whats wrong with helping her, you look like a mature person and a nice person and more people will like you. Help her, she may need it.
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Well when i was in 7th grade i started to cut and have not been able to stop and i started because of my family my mom and dad always fought and my grandmother was always faking sick to get attention and i would lock myself in my room and would cut can anyone help me? (link)
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I'm not a professional, but I'd like to offer more help then just reffering you to someone else.
Chances are, you dont cut because of yourself. You're letting others force thoughts upon you. Live for yourself. when you get older, none of the people who you are around, that you dont want to be around will be around you. When you grow up, there will be no mom or dad; you will be the mom or dad(gender unbias). If you have to take the hit for a couple of years do so, but there is no point to cut. Instant satisfaction will not make time move faster. You're only a kid once, live like one. have fun. Enjoy life: you only have 1 chance at it.
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Ok well my house is less then half a block form my school and everyone's really nice so they dont' litter on my lawn or anything but recently these kids in my brother's class has been littering on our lawn on PURPOSE! THey wlak together in a group but only one litters.
He rips his snakcs and stuff and liek uses our door as an aiming target or something and keeps whipping sutff. I told him to fuck off but he won't! Did I mention he was in grade 5?
I need this to stop because I am sick of tired of picking everything up (so ant's don't come because I'm scared of ants) and my dad is like a grandpa now and I odn't want him to liek strain himself picking them up all the time and hurt his feelings (he's really senstive). I also don't want him to know because he'll probably go to our school and yell at the boy but loose cuz the boy will probably make fun of him and stuff.
I was thinking of phoning his house but do you think it's a good idea? The police already went to his house 5 times but his parents don't care so I don't want to be being yelled at them on the phone if I'm telling them and thye dont' care.
I could tell my brother to yell at him but their friends so..I don't even know if their even friends! They always like fight but mostly he always hit my brother so I'm not sure if my brother knows what the word FRIEND means or if it's a guy thing cuz guys fights sometimes but they're not really fighting.
Please help..I really want it to stop! My finger are like shaking to go beat him up but I'm known as a kind and nice girl in my school and I want to be a doctor when i grow up so i don't want anything to ruin my perfect records if they have one. (link)
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Your options are:
1)_Scare him by: A) buying a snowman costume and waiting on your front lawn then chase him. B) wait with firecrackers. c) w/e else you can think of to scare him.
2)_Embarrass him in front of his group of friends. Make him look really bad in front of them then tell him (privately) that you will humilate him until he stops.
3) get a sweet squirt gun (self explanitory)
**warning, be careful, kids like this are likely to make up stories and get you in trouble, make sure you always have an aliby. (fairy tales of rape and such.)
****it would be easier to answer if we knew your age.
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Aright well I just downloaded AIMUTATION and i really like it.
but I heard that you can get more skins somewhere. And i looked at all the websites and i dont understand how do download themm
helpp? (link)
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point me to a website that has skins and I can tell you.
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my friend Jon is so stupid. he thinks it'll be easy to be a girl and he thinks he can handle a period. WHAT A F@$#ING ASS! I tell him that imgane that you have really bad head ache, craps, stomch flue ect for a week every month. but he said it wont be bad. so how can i show him or make him understand that having a period is not fun or easy. i want to punch him in the face but he is my friend. (a very dum one!) (link)
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and this is why nobody respects the wnba
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