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boyfriend going out with another girl?
Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and he says he really loves me and I really love him, but then all the sudden he decides to go to the movies with another girl? He says they want to hang out cause they haven't seen each other in a long time, and don't get me wrong I totally trust him. But I just don't know what to do I mean why the movies of all places? ughh. this sucks. I dont know what to do anymore.
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As a guy, i think this really needs to be said: YOUR NOT MARRIED TO THE GUY. Get a grip, worse thing is he cheats and you break up with him. Not the end of the world. Your only dating him. He deserves room to live a life separate of yours. When the hell did this whole dating thing become so screwed up? Just because you have a boyfriend doesnt mean he has to be attatched to your hips and spitting out wedding vows. Look, ask what movie they are going to see. Rule of thumb, action and comedy is generally ok. Drama and horror is borderline; romantic movie is bad. And remember you CAN question him if your worried, and you can tell him that your nervous about it. It makes a guys life about 100 times better if they arent make to commit solely to their girlfriend.
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this seams like an honest case of just catching up with a friend. but, if i were you i wouldnt let him hang out with her toooo much. you never know what they could be doing. the easiest way to tell is if attitude changes, like if he doesnt talk to you the same way, or he doesnt talk to you as much. hope it helps
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Seanx
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okay well they haven't seen each other in a long time? a movies is NEVER the place to go to have a conversation.. so if they really wanted to catch up then they should've done like lunch or something... friends do lunch not dinner.. I'd talk to him. plus there's no reason why you couldn't of gone.. i mean if she was really that good of a friend he'd care enough to bring his woman along so they could meet right?
be careful girl.. don't let him play you for a fool.
hope i helped (:
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