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Is she really a true friend?
my friend is really pretty and likes to flirt with guys. once she was over my house and the guy that i liked was on so she gave him a link to her myspace and asked him what do you think of me. he wouldn't answer since he had a girlfriend. and she goes i can't wait till he breaks up with his girlfriend so he can tell me what he thought. then she put together this lunch so i could meet up with him but she started flirting with him and he asked her to be his girlfriend. she knew i liked him so she asked me what should say. i told her to say yes regardless my feelings and the next day after she said yes she bragged about getting him is she really a true friend?
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well some friends, they dont realize that they do things like that. or they do it just to prove to you that they can get any guy they want. i have a friend just like that and if you tell her you like a guy she will go after him and then once she has got them she drops them and they dont want anyone else besides her. it gets annoying. try talking to her and telling her how you feel. you never know she might realize what she has done and feel bad and try hooking you two up.
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A true friend would think of you first. She needs to think about your feelings. She doesn't sound too true if she bragged. Friends who brag can hurt you later on in life.
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Well it depends. Is this a consistant problem? Does she truly like this guy, or does she just want him to have him? Now, it seems considerate of her to ask you before she became this guy's girlfriend. However, that might not be the case. I think it sounds like this girl just likes male attention. If this is a consistant problem, or you think it might be in the future, then I would just forget about her. Don't tell her who you like anymore, that way she won't try to "steal" them away from you. There is nothing saying you can't still be friends with her, just know that she might not be the true friend you once though she was.
Now, if she really liked this guy, and this was just a one time thing, then maybe don't write her off just yet. Stuff happens, and no one can control their feelings, so if this wasn't intentional, try not to hold it against her. However, from the way you worded this, I don't think that was the case.
Good Luck =)
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True friends would think of your feelings before theirs. Being in love is like being hypnotized. You may want to explain to her how you feel, sometimes that works. But, maybe you should be more of a flirt to the people you like so she will not win over you. Also, do not take the flirting too far that it becomes a competetion. Just keep your friends and love life in two different categories, but keep them close. Best of luck!!
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Yes , most likely she will get her day :] it happens to everyone , and it is REAL :]
x'kayla
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To be honest, she is an idiot. Don't worry about her too much, but be there for her, cause eventually she will be there for you. For now, ignore her idiocracy.
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