about

hey im allison
im 14 and i go to WBHS.
i love volley ball and snowboarding and i love spending time with my friends.
im a dork and i love it...and i dont care what you think.
music just so happens to be my life.
i like most music...just as long as it doesnt include a BANJO!...eww.
other then music...my life is dedicated to my bestest friends amber conner rachelle michelle and linnea. they are my reasons for breathing. ive had my heart broken twice by the same guy. and it was just recently. i really want some one to show him how i feel. but im still in deep like with this kidd. i dont regret the things that i do...i regret the things that i didnt do when i had the chance. that would happen to be my motto. tee hee(btw...i use 'tee hee' WAYYYY too much!)i like school. but im not good at it. im ok at it. but im still on 'second string' if you will. finding song quotes or just random takes up most of my time. and i have about 3 notebooks filled up in the last 2 or 3 months. im also eager to get better at drawing. i just really like it. but im not that passionate about it. that is really it for now. tee hee...(see! i told you so!!!)
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allison

advice

Sorry, i didnt know what catagory to put this under. im getting tested for ADD soon. they said itd be like 3 hours for two days. whats the ytest like? and whats the difference between ADD and ADHD?

the test isn't TOO crazy. and not much of a difference. but add is where you can't focus or pay attention. and adhd means you cant focus, pay attention and you are incredibly hyper. so. yehh.

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so i have a boyfriend. he loves me and tells my im amazing/gorgeous/beautiful and everything a girl loves to hear on a regular basis. we've been together over a year. he says he loves my body. the thing is, i dont love it. at all. i mean yeah i have big boobs but thats about it. im overweight (5'9" about 251 lbs, size 18 pants and 3x shirt). im completely disgusted with my body but somehow he finds me beautiful and almost has me thinking maybe its true. but how do i see myself the way he sees me? i believe that he thinks so but im just like "ugh...why?". he wants me to be self confident but its like i just cant. im ahnee on advicenators if you want a pic (its small though)

sweetie...hes a quality guy. keep him. and if he thinks you are beautiful...then you must be beautiful. no need to be self concious. everyone is different. meaning you have a different body type then what we have so wrongly percieved as beautiful for so long. listen to him. he has to be right.

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When a guy says
" you were moaning like a bitch"
is that good or bad?

well...guys like it when girls moan bcz it gives them a sense that they are doing a good job...lol i knoe funny. so i'd say it's a god thing if they realy can make you "moan like a bitch".

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I had sex with this guy.

He asked the next day "is it everything cool between us?"

What does it mean?

he meant is everything going to be weird. are you guys going to be awkward. and prolly are you going to want more. pretty much are you still going to be friends. or are you going to be the kind of people that have sex and pass each other and like stare instead of saying hi or and such.

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okay so i have this friend...well i think shes still my friend but anyways,she has a boyfriend and i had put a comment about him on his myspace pic saying "damn you look good, i would hit that anyday" before they were going out and i was just playing around. and now they are going out and my friend saw it and she was really mad at me because she gets jelouse real easy. she asked me if i liked him and i told her "ya hes cute but im not in love with him or anything"...and she just blew it off then she started acting wierd like started staring at me real hard and just madd dogging me at times. when i ask her "are you mad at me" she says no but im just not sure anymore, we dont talk like we used to anymore and she probly thinks im trying to steal her man...but im not i swear!!!

ughhhhhh...she should stop acting stupid!!!
well i guess its my fault huh? what should i do? do you think shes mad at me?


heeeeeeeelp!!!!!!

i agree 100% crazy. may i ask if you told her it was a while back. and still, if you were messing around then she should understand. have her bf explain that it was a while ago and she shouldnt be jealous.

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Do guys think pantie line showing is sexy or not?

they tend to find it quite disturbing. they prefer to imagine you wearing a tiny little thong. so not so much.

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There is this Jack Black movie where he is a wrestler in Mexico (I think). Can you tell me the name of it? He always seems to be in funny movies.

Thanks a lot! :D

NACHO LIBRE!!!!(accent above the E)

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Why do you like your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Just your honest opinion :]

Something more than looks, please.

of course i think my boyfriend is cute...but that isnt what i love about him. with him...i never lost interest. we always find something to talk about. and he makes me smile. a lot. just getting a text message from him makes me smile uncontrolably. he doesnt tell me he loves me bcz it sounds pretty....he says it to me beacuse he means it. he knows that i dont need any presents for christmas...but he asked my brother(best friend) to go with him to get my present...he bought me a tiffani's necklace. with our names engraved in it. he listens to me when i talk. and he cares. he doesnt call me beautiful without meaning it. and he tells me when i truly look sexy...not just to get in my pants. back to the present thing. for our one month anniversairy....he went to one of those little ring machines and bought me a little pink one, he told me he didnt stop buying them untill he got the pink one. he wasted 10 dollars in that dispencer. a lot of my ex boyfriends tried to stay away when i was crying...but he couldnt stay away. he sat there on my couch with me kinda just holding me. for 3 hours. he is a true boyfriend. im crazy about him. and i know he feels the same. i love him. a lot.

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Ok well i've had my period for about 5 or 6 months now. It's always been irregular. Is it normal to skip a month after youve had it for 6 months? Im still a virgin too so i can't be pregnant.

thats completely normal. i got my period for the first time...then didnt get it for another 2 months.

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when is the right time to try geting pregnant? Is it 10 day after period are what?

well...your peak fertility days areliike 3 or 4 days after your period. so try that.=]

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my name is Rachel strickland and iam 17 years old and iam a speciaed student and i want to have sex with my boyfriend who's in regulared and is 18 could jesse get into trouble with the police for have sex with someone who has a disability like add attention defficence disorder while they are still in school?

neither of you are under the legal sex age...so no troubles with that. but he wont get into trouble for having sex with you if you have a.d.d. that just means you have trouble paying attention. so all you would have trouble with is losing interest in his dick. or just like not paying attention to its existance. so no. no one will get into trouble. =]

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i'm a pretty emotional person, and with what i've been going through nowadays, i have emotional breakdowns almost everyday. i write what i'm feeling, but sometimes i feel like it's not enough. i wanna be able to share my feelings with others who might be feeling the same way, and can help me out and stuff. so i was wondering what are some online diary/journal that i can use. please don't say xanga or livejournal. i want it a little more private, but can be seen by other people too. or something similar. please help! i really need it right now

LIVEJOURNAL!!!!!!!! it's amazing. and advicenators should help you some too

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ive been haveing sex with my boy for about 6 months and i dont think ive ever orgasmed..what could be wrong with me? we have tried different things but it hasnt worked...any suggestions? thanks

that just means the guy is bad at it. i have the same thing. i have had one before. but i have never had one with sex with this guy. but with the other one i was done fast. so he's just bad at it.

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m/18

recently I've gotten a new atatude(sp?) on life due to the fact i've joined the army and lost 37 pounds, now if that isn't a confidence booster I don't know what is. but anyway i've liked one of my friends for quiet a long time about 2 years now come to think of it, and two days ago I asked her out... unfortunately(sp?) she is going out with someone that she knew in high school and he is off at college but she's back here and quite frankly stuck at home till the spring semester starts. The reason i'm asking this question is that i don't know my chances of he actually calling it of with the guy, btw they have broken up before and their relationship is patchy at best... and going with me. when I left her house two days ago she was really pondering the thought of did she actually like her current bf... and when we hugged and said our goodbyes to eachother I told her that even if she didn't choose to go out with me I was happy I told her and she responded "I'm glad too"*she smiles* the only thing is that i haven't heard from her in two days so i'm a little nervous about the whole thing... exp since we are supposed to hang out today at noon or so... if anyone is still up at this time it'd be a great help to know your thoughts on my stiuation

thankyou

it's atitude

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I broke up with myboyfriend of 6 months after things were getting really serious and I felt I just couldn't cope with it all.Even after he cheated on me after a week going out. I have never been scared of commitment in my entire life and thought this guy was the one. But it freaked me out so much, and i couldnt forget the fact that he cheated on me with the same girl that i warned him bout that I hated because the same girl did it to me before. So i decided to break up with him. I really hurt him as he felt the same way and he had just broken up with his gurl for me again.. I dont know if i did the right thing?? Help me please

a guy that cheats...isnt worth your time. you did the right thing hun.
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my boyfriend always checks other girls out on the street, it really bugs me and am scared its cuz he's lookin for someone better? should i be worried? please let me know and do all guys do this , he tells me he loves me but im not so sure cuz it bothers me :( help~

dont worry too much about it. guys do that. they arent looking for something better. you have to look at it like, you are the best thing he's got and he's with you for a reason. so dont worry about it babe. he'll come around.

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i dont know how to start conversaitions,get into them, and even just talk to people with out feeling nervous. i can talk with like 4 people,but 3 or under and its just hard to start convos. it seems like people dont find me interesting. and i have no idea how to open up and become more interesting.im soo lost. i dont even know what i like!how can i open up and start convos. also become interesting?

i dont think you can just..become interesting. but you can try to find things you have in common...and go from there. or you can like ask them what kind of things they are interested in and if you dont lknow anything about it then you can just ask them questions about it. and mauybe they will tell you more about it.
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all good convo starters

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I'm a 15 y.o. freshman girl and boys don't really talk to me. I'm sort of shy and quiet in class, so I may come off as snobby or unapproachable. I'm only shy and quiet because I'm afraid they don't like me. I don't think I'm ugly or anything, so I dunno. Should I talk to them? What are some good conversation starters? How can I be more outgoing?

i think you should just go up and talk to them. try to make friends and maybe one or two of them will end up liking you. you cant expect something to happen if you dont take matters into your own hands.

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so about 2 weeks ago i gave my bf a hangjob and i got cum on my finger but i wiped it off and washed it off only a lil and 40 mins later i masterbated but i got my period 4 days later. and now its after my period but i still kinda have cramps is that a sign of pregnancy?

you wouldnt get pregnant from that. you can still have cramps after your period. dont worry about it.

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have asked this question,but a bit differently.anyways,i've already decided to get a lip ring,so I wanna ask do girls perfer lip rings on
1)the middle
2)the side,if so,which side?
3)snakebites
4)spider

and is there like a meaning if you pierce on the right side?cause my friend said that it is for gays...

and besides that ,could you girls help with suggesting other places beside the lips that you find attractive,and how many a guy should have.

thanks a lot,really appreciate you guys.

SNAKEBITES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! omfg! those are the hottest things io have ever seen in my entire life!

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