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i dont know how to start conversaitions,get into them, and even just talk to people with out feeling nervous. i can talk with like 4 people,but 3 or under and its just hard to start convos. it seems like people dont find me interesting. and i have no idea how to open up and become more interesting.im soo lost. i dont even know what i like!how can i open up and start convos. also become interesting?
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Just say whats in your head. Are you craving some pizza? Say it. Haha. Maybe bring up a class or a teacher. Bring up a tv show that they might watch or music they might listen to. Its not that hard, you just need to relax and remember that you can do it!
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well you need to open up to other people dont just sit thre say something it is like me coming to a new school just be yourself ariund the people you want to be friends with dont be nervous to talk to other people it is just talking to your parnets but a little different their is just smaller people to talk to
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Heya! No probs. I've had this problem before too. And the root cause: you're worrying unduly and trying to pre-empt the situation. There's nothing wrong with your personality; you don't sound like an introvert to me.
When you talk to people, don't think so much. "Oh will they like me? Am I interesting? Will I be able to make them laugh at me?" What for think of all these? My logic is that the conversation hasn't even happened yet so why the hell are you worrying bout it?
You see, you've thought so much bout the problem that you've actually analysed right down to the point where you mathematically calculate how many people it takes for you to have a smooth conversation. I say f it. Don't bother. When you're with them , just lighten up. You should have fun and not worry.
I'm not gonna say just be yourself because I myself don't know myself. Just behave like how you would to them. If you're with funny people, you can laugh till you pee or you could just carry on their crap and say lame stuff to make them laugh. When you're with bitchy people, bitch with them. Bitching bout people are good conversation starters; but don't get too mean with it. Just let the conversation flow naturally.
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i have the same problem i mean im so undesive i never no what i want and im always lost just try not to be nervous and think of something funny or say something really stupid and make a joke out of it or just voice your opion you know and people who dont think there intersting could be the most fun you know just be yourself confident and once you learn that im sure your have no problem starting a convo
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i dont think you can just..become interesting. but you can try to find things you have in common...and go from there. or you can like ask them what kind of things they are interested in and if you dont lknow anything about it then you can just ask them questions about it. and mauybe they will tell you more about it.
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all good convo starters
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