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I broke up with myboyfriend of 6 months after things were getting really serious and I felt I just couldn't cope with it all.Even after he cheated on me after a week going out. I have never been scared of commitment in my entire life and thought this guy was the one. But it freaked me out so much, and i couldnt forget the fact that he cheated on me with the same girl that i warned him bout that I hated because the same girl did it to me before. So i decided to break up with him. I really hurt him as he felt the same way and he had just broken up with his gurl for me again.. I dont know if i did the right thing?? Help me please </3
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You totally did the right thing.
If this guy is cheating on you with another girl a WEEK into the relationship ; this obviously shows that he has serious commitment issues, and you can't have a good relationship without commitment. It'd eventually have failed anyways. I'm not trying to sound negative, but like I said, you can't have a relationship without commitment.
Also, if you two had continued to be in a relationship together anyways, once a cheater, usually always a cheater, and you don't deserve a cheater, and they don't deserve your time. If you two were to continue seeing eachother, you could never fully trust him ; and a relationship needs trust too to survive. You'd never know if he's out cheating on you once more, or what.
Trust me, you'll find a guy who'll want to be with you and only you and you'll be able to trust him, and he'll just be alot better than this guy here.
I hope I helped.
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I think you did do the right thing, and he deserves to feel hurt. For him to cheat on you is bad enough; for him to do it with someone who had previously broken up a relationship you had is despicable.
Your only error was in not breaking it off sooner, right after his transgression. By continuing the relationship and providing an illusion that there was still a chance for you, it ended up causing more pain all around, including for yourself.
When you get a new boyfriend, make sure you tell him all about this girl who keeps messing with your guys, especially her scorching case of herpes.
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hey i think you did the rigth thing because if you don't do that he will keep cheating on you and if not that girl would not stop until she sees u lonely so don't pay attention to her ok.
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ok i know sometimes you think that you made a mistake but in this case you didnt you really didnt feel that comferable with him and plus he cheated on you yea sure it was a mistake but what makes you think he wont make that same mistake again you know temptations always there and if you only broke up with him because you were getting to close and you were scared and not because he cheated on you, than your not going to get anywhere and your always be thinking about what if hope i helped you can ask me a question anytime
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a guy that cheats...isnt worth your time. you did the right thing hun.
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