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i dont get it
so i have a boyfriend. he loves me and tells my im amazing/gorgeous/beautiful and everything a girl loves to hear on a regular basis. we've been together over a year. he says he loves my body. the thing is, i dont love it. at all. i mean yeah i have big boobs but thats about it. im overweight (5'9" about 251 lbs, size 18 pants and 3x shirt). im completely disgusted with my body but somehow he finds me beautiful and almost has me thinking maybe its true. but how do i see myself the way he sees me? i believe that he thinks so but im just like "ugh...why?". he wants me to be self confident but its like i just cant. im ahnee on advicenators if you want a pic (its small though)
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Your boyfriend loved you nomatter what you look like. This should give you confidence all in itself, how you view yourself isnt always as other people view you.You should be proud of your body because people love when you confident in yourself. You can never really see yourself the way he does, but you can look at the positives about yourself, if you understand what im saying... your boyfriend loves you for you that very hard to find and you are very lucky, you should be unconfident because you have what many people want already. Hope i helped you
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I have to say, you have a really good guy. And I'm sure just about every girl not only on Advicenators, but in general would agree -- that these are the kind of guys that we want. Who love us and think we're beautiful for who we are not only on the outside, but on the inside. In which, a lot of guys lack. So please, don't worry about anything. You are beautiful, your boyfriend knows that and he wants to let you know that. Congrats, on having this great guy!
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sweetie...hes a quality guy. keep him. and if he thinks you are beautiful...then you must be beautiful. no need to be self concious. everyone is different. meaning you have a different body type then what we have so wrongly percieved as beautiful for so long. listen to him. he has to be right.
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Check out my picture on my column.
I am happy with who I am, not what I am.
You have to put yourself into that frame of mind. You have to be able to look in the mirror and see who you are, not the ugly reflections that society makes us see through billboards, movies, and magazines. Oh, how I love how fake the superficial people of this world are.
You are amazing, gorgeous, and beautiful on the inside. You are a real woman. That's what he sees. That is what shows on the outside.
Some one who is a size 4 and acts like a total bitch is outright ugly.
Yah, guys like boobs. There is no getting away from that. But your guy sees more in you than just your boobs and your exterior.
The only way to see yourself as he does, is to completely change your self opinion. I can't tell you how to do that. Only you can figure that out.
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To love yourself on the outside you gotta love yourself on the inside,if you love your personality and feel good on the inside,youll feel beautiful and think your beautiful.When a guy truely loves you,your inner personality reflects on your looks in some ways and he sees you beautiful...he sees what he didnt see before he got to know you.Its like a shirt you buy that you think looks...different or not that good,when you try it on you it looks great!thats kinda how it is.This is a great thing by the way,he truely oves you and truely does think your beautiful and sees the real beauty that others might not see.
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You're lucky. Fortunately, so am I. My boyfriend tells me the same thing. And we're lucky because they noticed us for the inside, not just the out.
Honey, if you're so unhappy with your body, do something about it. Complaing & picking out your flaws are going to do nothing.
Start eating healthier, go to a gym, & run. Switch from sodas to juices/water. Instead of junk food, eat fruits, and vegetables. Don't eat after 5pm. If you do, make it a small meal. Make your portions smaller.
Hopefully, with that, you should see some results. Just, don't do anything dumb. Don't take diet pills, or beauty supplments. Don't get lypo [not saying that you need it]. Just lose it healthily so you won't do anything you'd regret in the future. :] And remember, you're beautiful even when you don't realize it.
♥T!NA
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you gotta understand that everyone has something about themselves that they dont like. unfortunately we focus on the negatives. think of what you like on that and when you feel like your not beautiful think of that. Trust me, it's the best way to be :)
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you're really lucky. you found a guy who knows that looks aren't everything. who sees the person inside, and realizes that thatn is what makes you beautiful.
i know this isnt helpful, but be happy.
you need to realize (just as your boyfriend did), that you are beautiful because of who you are inside...not because of what you look like or what size clothes you wear.
but if you really can't overcome the way you feel about yourself, then maybe do something that will boost your confidence. go exercising with your boyfriend...eat healthier...with the exercise and healthy diet you'll start losing some weight and you'll gain your confidence in yourself.
but still keep in mind that it doesn't matter what you look like on the outside, even if you lose the weight, your still the same beautiful person on the inside. :)
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Your boyfriend loves you. He sees you as beautiful. He wants you to be happy and he [odviously] cares about you alot.
I saw the picture, you actually are pretty, contrary to what you think.
I don't know if that answers your question or not--but you should just know that you're really really lucky, kay?
I want a boyfriend like that.
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