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Hey dude! It's that one hot girl that wants to get you drunk & take advantage of you. So what's up. I don't feel like e-mailing you... haha. So I'm pretending to ask you a question. Anyway. I wrote you a letter!! But I forgot that I'm not allowed to cuss or talk about sex and stuff. So I have to write another one. And buy a stamp. And then I'll send it to you. Yeah. Peace babe!!

Yeah, sure, no problem. Anyway, I'm still curious about what you said in your first letter... So, just email it to me. Anyway, I'll look for your letter. Thanks.

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what exactly is a Sorority/Fraternity and is it a bad thing??

A Sorority is a social club for female undergraduates. A Fraternity is just the opposite. Its a social club for male undergraduates.

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ok so i just started cross country today and it is so hard. ive done track for 3 years but that was nothing compared to this. for 3 hours we just ran! we did about 5 miles. i came in 2nd to last/tied for last every time! ive never been fast but my track coach told me i should give cross country a try. it was SO inspiring and it makes me feel REALLY good but i felt like i was going to throw up the entire time and when we compete against other schools, theres just no way really! should i drop out now before its really a commitment and do winter and/or spring track or should i keep it up and hope/pray to get better?

thanks

I think that you shouldn't worry about competing other schools. No matter what, if you try your hardest, you will get better. Getting better is always going past your limit. However, if you do decide to stop cross country, then go ahead and do track. Just remember, the harder you try, the better you'll get. Just try not to go so hard so that you start vomiting. (That could be unhealthy) Good luck!

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hey this is a quistion for all those guys out there-
do you prefer girls with or without makeup? thanks:-)

No makeup is good. But lipgloss is ok. Or maybe us guy can't tell... I never assume that girls use makeup... Don't know why...

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I have such a variety of friends. I have popular girl friends, nerd friends, weird friends, popular boys, and loser boys, and some ghetto people (sorry bout the name but what else can I say). I know it's good to have a variety, but sometimes I feel weird around my nerdy/weird friends. They are the only ones in my classes so I feel as if I'm being viewed as one. I absolutely don't care what people think of me, but sometimes I want to,you know, hang out with people in my own boat. I don't know what to do! I'm never mean to people and this is why I end up with such a variety! I can't turn people down! What can I do to feel better about this???

Hey I'm the same way. And this is how I deal with it.... I don't think about it. Simple as that. Its good to have a large variety of friends. Just stay the way you are. You'll never know, one of you're geek friends could be the next Bill Gates or one of you're ghetto friends could be the next Nelly. So, just don't think so much about this.

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Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
~Brina

Just a mistake that's all. You know, I have a very feminin face (but I'm a dude) and now that my hair is in a perm (So now my hair is straight) I look exactly like a girl if you see me from behind. This one dude was checking me out, and I thought to myself "Oh God! I have to get hair braided soon!" Haha! Maybe that's why girls don't talk to me. I look like a girl from far away!

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At what ages to guys and girls stop growing. I knew..then I forgot haha. Thanx

I think guys stop growing around 18 and girls stop around 16.

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Alright so the start menu/task bar/ thing on my computer used to run along the bottom...but my friend did something (she doesn't know what) so now it is running vertically along the right side. If you know how to reverse this so it is at the bottom again i would really appreciate it. I'll rate 5's for anyone who can give me directions on changing it.

Right click on your taksk bar. It's probably locked. Then drag and drop it at the bottom of the screen. Then right click and lock it.

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hi my name is justin and im 16. i live in the bronx, ny. and im into the oreintal stuff, so recently i bought a katana. (its a sword) its not sharp or anything, but my father hetes it. he said he thinks one day i might get angry at him and chop him to piecies. which makes sense, but my father owns a desert eagle( a gun) thet he brought back from the war( its either the vietnam of persien, im not sure..) so should he complain even though he owns a gun?

signed..
Konfused

Dude, you're cool! Oriental stuff kicks ass! Well, when I bought my swords (which are sharpened), my parents were worried that I would cut myself or my friends swinging it around and stuff. But when I showed them that I didn't hurt myself (actually I did, but small cuts on the fingers don't count) then they started letting me buy more weapons. You should just tell you're dad to relax and that you wouldn't think of cutting him (you wouldn't do that, riiiight?) and say something like he has his thing and you have yours.

Also, I do agree with one of the people below. Your dad might be keeping that gun for sentimental values. I hope I helped.

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I just started a brand new school, and met this girl & she asked me to sit with her so I did, she said "Bring 5 dollars or so tomorrow & we can get a Subway." Um, basically my question is, she is asking me to sit with her again right? lol Thanks!

Yeah she is... Unless she's a total bitch and wants you to buy something for her. But let's go for the best case scenario and say that she wants to be with you.

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Whenever I eat a large amount of dairy products of any kind, particularly milk, I get this awful painful feeling internally right below my back...and then I get diarrhea. Could I be lactose intolerant?

Actually I don't think you are. You said "a lot of dairy prodoucts" right? (Sorry, my information is not accurate. I'm doing this from memory. I saw this on an episode of "Good Eats") Well, dairy has, of course, lactose. There is enzimes in your body that breaks down lactose. As you grow older, you loose more of those enzimes, so you will start getting sick from eating too much dairy products. My advice is to go easy on the dairy. Once again, my information isn't too accurate, but its pretty much the same.

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I am babysitting for this wild kid on Friday evening. He is a good boy age 7. BUT, he is everywhere at once! Any ideas on what kind of calming things I can do to entertain him so he isn't running through the house like a little maniac? I can just see him falling into sharp corners and things!

Movies work only for so long, so... You could let him take out all of his energy by letting him run around outside. If that's not possible, then I strongly suggest you let him play a simple videogame. Super Mario Bro. was always my favorite! If that's not possible then, try letting him play games on the computer. That should calm him down. I hope I helped!

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Hey,im a sophomore at HS and i like this guy who is rly popular. I dunno y i like him cuz i usually dun like guyz who r popular and all dat. but its just dat i cant like flirt with him or even smile at him for that matter. i hav no classes with him but i had some last year and i got chances to talk to him and it went fine. there were times when i actually thought that he might like me too (i kno,crazy). i rly wanna get to know him better but how should i do it if i hav no classes with him and im too shy to just go upto him and say hi.
thanks a bunch!!

Hmmm... I'm the same way. I'm shy too. Well, it seems that you are an aquaintance to this guy. That's a good start. At least he knows you. Because you don't have a class with him, I think the only chances you have to talk to him is lunch right? Well, you could start a conversation with him there. Assuming you just started school, you could ask him what classes he has. What he's doing in that class. Ask him what he's up to whenever you see him. You know, just be his friend. After awhile, you could say that you wish that you could talk to him longer. That's where you could ask for his IM screen name. (I find it easier to talk to a person over the internet) That way, you can talk whenever you're both online. I hope I helped. I find it hard to hold a conversation with a cute girl also... Good luck!

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I made out with my boyfriend last night and my older brother walked in on us (we were in my room with the door locked but my bro just has to stick a penny in the door too twist it.. if you know how those work yeah)... He came in and got really really pissed and started yelling at my bf (which made him leave), My brother had me in tears, he acted like he was my parents he was yelling at me and everything... I mean all we were doing was making out just sitting there not even laying down or anything. Im 14 and hes 17 but he was sooooooo mean and he told my parents so now im grounded for a frigin MONTH!!! I was so pissed at my brother and he said he didnt want me too turn into a slut (wth all we did was makeout) So this morning he was in the living room and he told me my bf called and my bro told him he wasnt allowed to call my house anymore... WHY IS he taking this so out of proportion.. I started crying again so i told him i hated him and that i wished he would die and burn in hell... :( That got me grounded for even longer but i didnt mean it :( Ive tried apologizing and he wont listen too me. Does anybody know how i could apologize too him and handle this whole situation all together because if not i could lose my BF.. because hes not allowed over here and my parents say i cant see him :(.

Heh... Sorry to say this, but I know EXATLY how your brother feels. I'm an older brother too. I know that if I see my sister making out with a dude, I'd have to raise hell! I dunno. I think this is an older brother thing. My friend does it too. I positive that your brother is angry at you because he saw you making out. Not laying down doesn't matter.
You see, I'm sure you're brother loves you very much. (you probably hurt him when you said that you hated him and wished that he would burn in hell... I would feel very bad if my sister were to say that...) You have to understand, he was with you since the day you were born. He remembers you when you were in infant, (I'm pretty sure... 3 years is kinda close) You both grew up together. Now he's seeing you making out... That's a bad transition. It's very hard for us older brothers to get over the vision of our little sisters making out with boys. Its probably burned into his head... It's pretty hard to explain. But I'm sure that this is how your brother feels. He feels that he should always protect his sister from all things sexual, or anything close. Plese understand.

As apologizing... I think you should give him time to cool off. (Maybe 2 weeks... maybe even 3. This is big) Then once he's cooled down, give him a big hug (ugh... sounds too mushy for me!) and say that you are deeply sorry for saying "blah blah blah" and that you didn't mean it. Then give him some chocolate. (I dunno, it might make him feel better!)

Also, show him this answer and ask him if what I said is true. THEN rate me and tell me what he thinks. I really hope I helped. And please understand that his reaction is a normal, older brother thing.

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Okay well i am 13\f and i havent made out yet and i want to REALLY bad. i have a bf but he doesnt live near me so yeah..i really love him and all that. but i have a friend who lives closer to me and hes really cool. we are supposed to hang out sometime and im afraid i might start doing stuff with him because i want to make out really bad..but i dont want to cheat on my bf. I would feel horrible if i did that to him. Should i just wait for liek a year till my bf comes to see me and wait. or what. because i want to REALLLLYYY badd. :P???

Girl relax! First of all, you have to have a reason for wanting to make out REALLY bad. Not "because I want to". I mean a real reason. If you don't have a real reason, then, quit worring about it. Just let you're relationship flow.

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16/f... Lately I've been so pissed at my mom. She works from 9-5 but when she gets home, she's on the computer doing e-mails, ebay, or going to all these different meetings she chooses to be apart of. She wasn't always like this... where she's always gone, or on the computer. And now our house is so messy... and I clean it up. But we have so much junk lying around and a lot of it is hers and she's always saying "Get things cleaned up" well, I do the best I can and she thanks me for it... but everyday its "Get things cleaned up, blah blah blah". And I do what I can but its never clean enough and she never has time to help me because she's always on the stupid computer doing her "little business" on ebay and its stupid! She doesn't have time to cook anymore either. And I have a life too, I have to clean up, plus do stuff on my own whether its taking my cousins somewhere, school, or being a regular teenager. The problem with me is, that I tend to hold emotions in, and then I'll just attack you... and so today I did that with my mom. I attacked her with how I was feeling, but this hasn't been the first time... I've attacked her about this situation before. I'm tired of all this. Same thing with the plumbing back in February (which, btw is still not fixed, but I've given up on that and that was all because of the same thing... she doesn't have time for anything else or she "foregets" to call). Well, she's tired of me always doing this and being sarcastic. I'll start telling her how we're tired of her not having time for anything else. Our house is still messy (a lot of things I can't do... like where am I supposed to put all of the statements she keeps, papers, etc? we have ALOT of that kind of stuff), we have fast food all the time... I go and get my own food, otherwise I won't eat until like 9pm and I'm too tired to cook, and things like the plumbing, etc. So today as I was cleaning out the linen closet I told her how I was tired of this, how she can't do anything anymore and she kept saying "Oh knock it off!, I don't want to hear it, Stop being sarcastic, I'm tired of it" blah blah blah. So I left the room with tears running down my face. The main reason was because she wasn't listening to anything I had to say. She thinks I'm being sarcastic when I'm telling how I really feel. She left for a meeting and the entire time, I kept thinking about cutting. I have no other reason to get anything else out. She won't listen to me. I never tell her anything, I'm not close to her at all. Sure we have a good relationship... she's always been here. She's not the type that goes out drinking or whatever. But deep down, I'm not close to her. I don't "tell her everything" as most daughters and mothers are. Its too late for that, and I've excepted it. And my dad's here, but he doesn't do anything. When he gets off work, he goes downstairs and falls asleep or goes on the computer, then sleeps again. On weekends he'll mow the lawn sometimes, and he used to the the fixer guy... he would have fixed the plumbing, but its not the same anymore. He's just the regular couch potatoe and I'm sick of cleaning up after him and my mom. Yea, they pay me and while most kids think that thats awesome... to me its not all about the money. My parents won't let me have friends over when the house is messy and its ALWAYS messy. The majority of the time, I'd much rather have some friends over than 40 bucks. Money really can't buy happiness. I've only had people over about a total of 10 times in the 16 years I've lived. It sucks and I feel so alone. My mom would be pissed at me if I just came home from school and said "oh hey mom! so-and-so's here!". And those 10 times someone came over, the day before I spent cleaning the entire house. It sucks. I guess what I'm trying to say is, it scares me that I've been having thoughts about cutting. But I feel like theres no other way to get my feelings out. I told my mom before I left the room, that she won't listen to me so I'll just take my anger out in a different way. She just barely looks at me and screamed "Well, you need help then, like a councelor or something" so I finally said "Yea, get me a councelor". But she didn't seem too serious about that... she just said it to make me shut up. I guess my question is, do you have ANY advice? Is there any way you can help me? Give me some advice. I'm so sick of this. I'm sick of how my parents live, its not the way I want to live. And, it makes me mad that my mom won't even listen to how I feel. Just because I raise my voice when I'm mad, or I keep bringing up the same subject over and over again. She won't answer my questions like "When are we getting the plumbing fixed?" "Oh I don't know" "Thats what you said yesterday" "Well, I DON'T KNOW, stop asking..." I HATE IT SO MUCH. She won't talk about anything, make plans to get something fixed. What am I supposed to do? Sorry this is so long.

Damn... It seems like you're the adult in the family. First thing... DO NOT CUT YOURSELF! That doesn't solve anything. Instead, go somewhere and punch something soft, like a pillow or something. That should help you release your anger. A punching bag would be better though, so try to get to one.
I feel so bad for you. You have to keep up with everthing. It seems hard, but somebody has to do it, right? I can only give you suggestions to help you. So consider you options before following them out.

1. Print out your question and put it on the computer screen. (since that's where your mom usually is) This should be able to show that you are serious. Or better yet. Go to your question on this site with all of the answers on it, then leave it there. So when your mom get's back, your question should be the first thing she sees. And make sure she sees it. Stand behind her and say "Wait, lemme see something..." when she get's on. Then look at your question as if you're reading it. It's natural for people to read what you're looking at.

2. It looks to me that you're computer is the enemy. You could do this but it may be a bad idea... So REALLY think this though. If you have an anti-virus program, then turn it off. Then open up all the spam mail you get. (You might want to save all of your files on a disk first). Getting virises on your computer will screw it up, make it run slow, delete files, etc. So... if the computer runs slow, your mom will get discouraged about it. (You're computer will eventually run PAINFULLY SLOW!) Kinda hard to go on eBay with a virus infected computer.

3. I strongly suggest that you DO see a counsler. Not for yourself though. For the family. There are family counslers out there. I'm not sure where to find them though, so you'll have to ask people around your area, such as teachers. If you have a Psychology teacher in your school, they might be able to know.

I really hope I helped. You derserve WAY more that this!

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For along time now I have had scary thoughts. Thoughts that someone is going to kill me in my sleep. I always have thoughts of my sister or family member doing this. I also have thoughts of killing myself, I even go through the cabinets and pour some pills into ziploc bags and hide them in my room just in case I feel the need to overdose. Sometimes I get in crazy moods and can't control them and I am afraid I am going to do something I know I normally wouldn't do. I am like a different person when I am depressed and in a different mood. It's like I have a split personality or something. I don't know what is wrong with me, and I have this urge to always pull my eyebrows out. It feels so good to feel the hair slip from my skin. I get into a trance and can't stop pulling, afterwards I feel so guilty but while I am doing i its all I am focused on. Each hair I feel represents a problem in my life. And when they come out it feels for a moment I am free of worries. Is it strange to feel this way, to love to feel pain?

Hmm... You REALLY need to stop hiding those pills in your room. From what you've been saying, you may be schizophrenic. I really think that you should talk to a psychologist.
You may be schizophrenic or bi-polor. Either way, you need to talk to somebody.

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Hey Everyone..k i have a really weird problem..i can not do a push up. any tips? maybe im not doing it correctly or something? ive tried but like just one pushup takes so much effort, and i can barely do one! please help! thanks!

Hey, I help teach Tae Kwon do, and I got tired of seeing my students not being able to do a proper pushup. I think I found the problem. Your arm mucscles must not be strong enough to lift up your body. To build up arm muscles, you should do girl pushups. Get down on all fours, then bend your arms. Be sure to go down until the tip of your nose touches the floor. Try to do 30 of theses continusiously

To do a proper pushup, laydown straight with your arms out to make a "T" with your body. Next put your toes perpendicular to the floor. Then, put your hands flat on the floor right next to your sholders. Then push up, KEEPING YOUR BACK STRAIGHT. Now that you're up. Bend ONLY your arms (like in the girl pushups). Go down so that the tip of your nose touches the floor and push your body up. Remember, keep your back straight at all times. Try to do 10 straight pushups. I hope this helps! Don't rate until you try this.

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Sometime this year i am planning to buy either an mp3 player or an ipod. I was wondering what people thought was better, an mp3 player or an ipod.

iPods are mp3 players. But don't get an iPod. Get a Nomad Zen Micro. They're better and cheaper than the iPod Mini (Zen Micro just doesn't have games). But a regular mp3 player doesn't hold as many songs as an iPod or Zen Micro.

Go here to compare prices between iPod and Zen Micro

http://www.crutchfield.com/S-AmHhs4rmBnH/cgi-bin/ProdGroup.asp?g=158150

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This school year I started late because I was on vacation. Well, the first day I walked into my Physics class he smiled at me so I smiled back thinking "wow this guy is pretty hott" During that week we looked at each other in class and smiled but never talked. Today we had a fire drill and he was the fisrt out the classroom and I wasn't too far behind. He got to about half way where we were supposed to be and waite until I caught up and started walking again. When we got to out standing point, I was standing with another girl in my class and him and one of his friends stood by us. Then, HE STARTED TALKING TO THE GIRL I WAS WITH. This really made me made so I left and started talking to other people. I don't know if I was jealous or what but now I don't feel like tlaking to that girl at all. What am I supposed to do?


I know this sounds pretty kiddish but I've never been in this situation. I'm a senior by the way.

Damn!!! My bad! I guess I'm tired... Sorry about that crappy answer!

Lemme try again... Ok, well, the guy could just be shy. He could just be talking to the girl to start a conversation with you, you know, to make it flow right, and to hold a meaningful conversation. That's what I should do. And like what the others said, you really shouldn't be mad because the girl didn't really do anything.

I hope this is better! And sorry again for my other, crappy answer...

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