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How do I hang out with my mom AND have fun with my friends?
My mom always complains about me never being home. She says that she thinks that i dont love her and only want to talk to her when i want something. (im sure everyone is gonna say that their mom is like that too), but are there any ways that i can 'hang out' or spend time with my mom with still being able to be as social and hang out with my friends as much as i do? please give me some ideas to have fun with my mom (i know that sounds lame) but i know it would help me to be able to do more stuff.
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Do like movie night. or cook a dinner together. shopping?
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You could try picking a specific day for a once-a-week hangout date. You can do things like go to the movies or rent one, get your nails done, cook or bake, etc.
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well, you should take a day or 2 out of your week and instead of going out with your friends spend time with your mom. im sure there are some days where you dont figure out plans with your friends until the last second. so, on those days instead of rushing out to hang out with your friends, go shopping or stay home with your mom.
hope i helped!
<33 Jordyn
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Ok, I don't live with mom anymore, but we still stay in touch. I talk to her usually once a day on the phone. Once a week we have lunch together (we both work in the same city not far away). Occasionally, we go shopping together. We sometimes go on vacation together for a weekend. You don't have to give up a lot of time to spend time with mom.
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Spend a night or two a week watching movies // going out to dinner // going shopping // doing whatever with your mom. It's not as bad as you think, and it's not that big of a deal to give up like, one night a week.
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Maybe you guys chould have a mother/daughter day, like once a week. (Then you still have time to go hangout with your friends) You and your mom could, Go to the movies, supper, shopping, catch up on things, talk, laugh, ect.
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once a week just spend the day w| your mom and let her know how much you love her and appreciate all shes done for you. if you have any more questions put in in my inbox ! thanks x3 becca
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Hey, I had this problem to!!! Well, some good ideas to hang out with your mom would be:
1) Go to the movies
2) Go see a play with her
3) Go to the mall
4) Go to a restaurant
5) Take a walk together
6) Take a drive together
Just do things that you know she likes also, because that would mean alot to her!! And you can still have social time. Another idea would be to set aside, say, every Thursday and have that be "Mom and me" time (sounds lame and corny but hey it works!) Hope I helped!
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Have a mother-daughter day out. Go out for Lunch n ice cream. Go shopping things you both like to do!
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hey..me and you are just alike ..im neva home to spend time with my mom...and you kno one way to is have one of your bestest frineds and have you your mom your frined and frineds mom...and ang out some where get a bond with both parentes then soon enough youll be goin to your friends with your mom..but dont worry it wont constint..i kno i did that with my mom and nnow i hang out with my mom and friends..or another thing is just try to stay home on days shes home or if she is always home then stay home on the days shes goes out then ask to go with her..you kno if this happens sometimes theyll take u to the mall shopping..its great..lol...hope i helped....if ya need me box me in
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My mom said that to me yesterday, the thing about only talking to her when i want something, i dont know..just ask her about her day and stuff like that, maybe then she will be convinced that you care about her and all. And ask to tag along when she goes shopping or something like that, you can talk on the way there.
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try and spend more time with her. go shopping go to the movies, stuff like that. and tell her how your day went, tell her what you did. she probably wants to be more involved with your life. good luck. drop one in my inbox if you need more help. *
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me and my mom go get manicures and pedicures together its a great way to spend time with your mom and still have fun doing it.
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it think you should tell your mom some things about your life or ask her for advice so that she feels important and included in your life...things you can do together ~ see a movie, go out to lunch, go on a bikeride...hey, you can even offer to pay so she feels exxtra special! lol
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One thing u can do is to find out wut kind of things ur mom likes to do. For example, if ur mom likes to go bowling, u can spend time with her while ur at the bowling alley. Spending time with ur mom doesn't mean u have to stay home. However, u may have to sacrifice a little bit of time with ur friends in order to do this. U just have to decide if u love ur mom enough to miss a little time with ur friends for her.
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I know this may sound weird...but if you actually spent time with your mother...instead of TRYING to make time for her, you might actually enjoy it. You can do that whole "I don't want to "hang out" with my mother, and have a huge social life...but it's pointless when you think about it. Your mother is always going to be there for you, and she loves you unconditionally...and would die for you...how many of your friends would do that? I'm not saying to NOT spend time with your friends...I'm just saying DO STUFF with your mother. Go shopping with her and don't ask for anyhing for a change. When you go into one of her shops..and she's trying on clothes....tell her how great they look on her. It's alright for mothers and daughters to be friends. And eventually you'll want to do stuff with her, rather then spend every waking moment with your friends. Imagine if one of your best friends spent all their time with another friend? You'd be jealous too. Try to see where your mother is coming from...and compromise. She has a life too.
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well me n ma mom rnt really tat close.. i meen i luv her to death and all but i donno i cant really "talk" to her.. n she always tells me tat i never talk w her and that all i do is hang wit ma friends.. n sumtimes i feel really bad.. but this past week we've been going shopping together and stuff n its been real cool.. u can tell shes happy im wit her n stuf.. go watch a movie wit ur mom or go shopping.. do fun stuff.. well gud luk xoxo angie
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Hi. i'm glad to help yoU! haha anyways maybe one weekend you can hang out with her at the mall or something...be like mom i'm sorry so why dont we bond and go to the mall...you dont have to get me anything...(well...for now lol jk)but we can just shop around and give eachother fashion tips on wuts hot and wuts not...dave up money and take her to get her nails done...manicure...pedicure...nails wutever u can afford...maybe a spa treatment...wutever you can think of invite her to it...i'm sure she will appreciate it all..but if you hang out with friends during the weekends open up friday afterschool and spend some time with her...also it doesnt have to be anything expensive either...i dont kno read a book with her...talk to her about how things are in school or bake some cookies with her..she will love it all since she only also wants a little bit of quility time with u. i'm sure she will love u to death! lol Take Care...Hope I Helped x3 SweetStar.
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