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If I have too much sex then my body reacts strangely. Could it be the Mirena IUD?


Posted Thursday February 23 2012, 3:12 am

23 female

okay so before January, the last time I had sex was in August, so I hadn't had sex in 5 months. I went to have a one night stand... which ended up being really good so we have been having sex on multiple occassions ever since and everything was great!! then... I noticed that now, if he penetrates to deep or if we have sex at all I tend to bleed. The amount keeps getting worse the more we have sex. This happened with my ex too. The more sex we had, the less my body allowed me to do it. I would bleed, swell up or get bloated and its not very enjoyable for me when all thats going on. I do have an appointment with my gynecologist in a few weeks but I have talked to him about it already and he seems to think the reason i...

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I am quitting my job and I want him to quit his job too so we can just BE TOGETHER!


Posted Thursday February 23 2012, 2:52 am

I have a boyfriend for a year now and i can things are going great in general. We are officemates but we seldom see each other in the office (since we have to go to different clients). Our jobs are demanding most of the time, we can be sent to different places or we get to work really late. This brought up the hard part of our relationship. Everything in my job sucks right now (politic in the office) and there were times i just cant stop crying. During those time i just want to see him and hug him to make me feel a little better, but i cant. He's busy too with his work. He never fails to say 'love, things will be fine. just be strong.' but that's not enough for me. I want to see him so bad. We missed special occasions in the past because of...

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Depression poems I wrote


Posted Thursday February 23 2012, 1:06 am

Hi instead of self harming myself I've been writing poetry :) would you mind reading some if my work and giving me feedback? I have a lot but here are my three favorite ones :)
This one is called " useless lies "

Today is the day
That I'll give up on trying
Today is the end
Of all the useless lying
Not wasting my tears
If they won't stop the bleeding
Today is the day that my heart will stop beating
My palms are sweaty my vision is blurred
I let out a scream that no one even heard
I blink back the tears I choke back a cry
Today is the end if all the useless lies

"Call me crazy"
some people call me crazy
...

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its about periods: i had sex and now my date is delayed


Posted Thursday February 23 2012, 12:04 am

i had sex..but it was not properly intercourse...and now there is a delay in my dates...so what should i do now

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I'm afraid: If nobody helps me, I might as well commit suicide tonight.


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 10:29 pm

I wish I could have one ounce of control of my life. I'm stuck in a household that is always drama every night. I'm 20/female, and I have no one else to go to. Everyone is hateful here and threatening me they will ruin relationships with the little family I have with rumors. I didn't cause this and I'm the one left with the shame. Why did God give me this? Could I make it on $400 if I moved now? That's all I have. If I'm lucky I'll find a job somewhere but nothing is ever guaranteed. I don't have any friends or anyone that cares in my daily life. If I moved to another state, maybe that chance are better than the chances of trying to survive this hell. If nobody helps me, I might as well commit suicide tonight.

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Justin Beiber Chain Letters Real?


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 10:29 pm

My little sister read this thing. It said this:
"Justin Beiber is 17. Reblog this because in 10 days you won't be able to."
Is it going to be his birthday or something? Or is it a death threat? She is really scared HELP

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I don't understand what's wrong with me


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 10:12 pm

I have a good life. I have a good future, friends family and yet... for sometime I keep thinking about death, about all the ways I can die. I think of the easiest ways, the quickest and I find myself wanting an almost painful end. I have a good life, but at the same time, I want to leave it. I want to leave my future, my friends, family, people, and I hate myself for it, yet I hate myself for wanting attention, for wanting someone to notice that the smile I have on is killing me and all I want to do is sleep and forget everything but I can't because I have school and friends and they don't know how to handle me when I'm like this, I know because when I've told them they become scared of me and it makes me hate myself for making feel that wa...

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What did Jessica Sanchez Sing


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 9:45 pm

in that episode of American Idol where they were in vegas singing with the water all around them. It was a solo balad. Thank you.

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Does this smart, geeky guy like me?


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 9:25 pm

He normally keeps to himself, and doesn't say anything during class, but ever since we started talking, he just talks more and more. sometimes it's almost like babbling, like he'll just say random things, and I'm the only one who sits right next to him, so I'm pretty sure they're directed at me. I talk to him, but when he starts babbling something random sometimes I don't know what to do and just smile at him or ignore it, and just like move my head, to acknowledge his words.

i'm really attracted to him (he's not ugly or anything, too but i think he's a bit insecure, but then again, so am I.), but I don't know. i thought guys were supposed to be shy around girls they liked "more than a friend"? but with him it's th...

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Confucianism skit?!?


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 8:26 pm

For school I am doing a project on Confucianism. Me and a group of people have to come up with a skit/activity thing on Confucianism, daoism, and buddhism. We invite like, 5 elementary schools to come and we go in the parking lot and if a kid comes up to us we perform. It's kind of a big deal at our school ( we are the only school who does so we are pretty proud) so I really want to do something good( also it's worth a lot of my grade) so I just need some ideas for a skit or a game or like some kind of food that has to do with any of those topics. Please I really need help!

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Should I go through with it? Or should I get away from this guy?


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 7:54 pm

I need to figure this out by tomorrow night, so please help me out. I'm a 17 year old female. I'm 4'10 and quite skinny. I am pretty small (I say this because I might just be an easy target.. I don't know). At school today, during lunch, this black guy that I've never seen before came up to my friends and I and asked me if I had a boyfriend. I said no. He said his friend over at his table wanted my number and all that. Long story short, 3 guys at this guy's table got my number. I went over to them like 4 times because the guy asked me to and one of the times, they asked if my friends gave head. I said they'd have to ask them, in a sarcastic way. Then they asked if I did and I said "I'm gonna go now" and they said they were just ki...

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does he like me do i tell him that i like him?


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 7:53 pm

im thirteen, girl. My crush for the past year is moving away! we are sorta friends. we talk if we sit next to each other in class (assigned seats) but it seems like he really likes talking to me. theres still about three months before he moves. do i tell him now, cuz i REALLY WANT TO! How do i do it? Can i just go up to him? And does he like me?
**????**

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Wanting Sex with him too soon


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 7:08 pm

So for a few weeks now I've been talking to this guy over Facebook and we seemed to get along quite well. Just last weekend we met each other for the first time (he lives an hour away) and we cuddled A LOT. At first he just had his arm around me and i laid my head against him, then he grabbed my wrist and put my arm around his stomach, later on, we were holding hands and at first i didnt realize it but the back of my hand was over his crotch, which is weird to me, i've never cuddled/ kissed/ dated anyone. The next day we were im'ing each other, he told me he had wanted to kiss me. Later in the conversation i told him i had been wet and then he told me he had gotten an erection ( i did notice his hand covering his crotch a few times). I can'...

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how to get him to stop being forward while trying to get him to kiss me


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 5:53 pm

So, I have this boyfriend, we have been dating for 2 years and have not kissed... we rarely hold hands. We went out for dinner on valentines day and his dad was find with that but we were supposed to go to the movies with his sister and stuff yesterday but his dad would not let him. The reason we have not kissed is his dad, he just will not let us. The thing is recently he has been very up close and personal if you know what I mean, I will be standing somewhere and he will come up behind me and tickle my waist while pulling me in for a short hug, or he has been putting stickers on my legs during class, he starts at my knee then slowly tries to get farther and farther up my leg. today one of my friends noticed and said something then he sto...

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thoughts on engagement at 18 yet marry in 3 or 4 years?


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 4:44 pm

Would there be anything harder or bad, if I would get engaged at 18 but wait to actually get married till towards the end of college?
He is my age and love him to death and he is my world. We give each other space and can do our own thing but also spend a lot of amazing time together. We are going to the same college and he doesn't want me to feel tied down but he wants me to know he's my world and there for me no matter what. We are both simple chill people but I have just done all the stupid things under the sun like smoking drinking drugs and he has never even touched a thing. He doesn’t hate me for it or even get mad when I do anything, he just helps me see the bad and even got me to stop smoking. He spent all he had on a ring....

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names: finding a nickname for my boyfriend


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 4:41 pm

i need help finding a nickname for my boyfriend

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I screwed him over twice and he took me back. Now I want to dump him, should i?


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 4:35 pm

i have screwed my bf over 2 times in the past year and we got back together, but i want to breakup should i?


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i am breaking up with my boyfriend i think


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 3:21 pm

i dont want to break up with him i love him so much but he has been flirting with another girl well actually like 2 girls and he wouldnt let me read through his texts so its like he is hiding something from me i cant take it anymore what should i say?

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to file taxes


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 2:22 pm

what do i have to do to file taxes? do i HAVE to file taxes? if i do then how do i do it?

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Breaking Up with long term serious/clingy girlfriend


Posted Wednesday February 22 2012, 1:24 pm

So here's the deal, I started going out with my girlfriend of 1 1/2 years my freshman year of college, before I had really experienced much of the classic college life. I care about my girlfriend and I want her to be happy but she pretty much dominates my entire social life. Pretty much whenever I'm not in class or studying I'm with her. We get into really stressful fights fairly frequently and sometimes I feel like I may die at the early age of 45 because of this stress. Another thing is that I had a lot of plans for myself post-college. Like, I was going to go teach English abroad in Japan for a year or two before I settled down to getting a real job. It looks like I wont be able to do any of that stuff because I've got my girlfriend hold...

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