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Posted Monday July 21 2008, 12:29 am
How do i tell my boyfriend that i'm cheating on him?
Signed,
confused chicky
female
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Does this guy like me? I can't tell!
Posted Monday July 21 2008, 12:28 am
okay,first of all i'm a 14 year old female. sorry if this is long, but let me try to explain my situation:
to start out, i didn't really like this guy (lets just call him Sam, that really isn't his name, but thats what i'll refer to him as for this). but then one day during music class, we both volunteered to demonstrate something for the entire class. after we finished two girls (who happened to be both of his ex-girlfriends) came up to me and asked me if i liked sam. i told them no (which was the truth then..we were really just friends). Then they told me that they think we would make a really cute couple. So that got me thinking. Then that same day one of my best friends asked me if i liked sam because i was talking to him...
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A friend is obsessed with relationships.
Posted Monday July 21 2008, 12:26 am
Ok, well...A friend of mine has an obsession with always being with a guy. No, it is not me. My friend. She says that she always needs a boyfriend all the time. The longest she's been single for 2 years has been around one week long or so. I myself couldn't care. Sure I like guys and all but I'm only Fifteen and so is my friend. Why do it all now when I have a whole life ahead of me. But, I'm justing wondering what I should do. It's kind of making me a bit angery at her. She doesn't get it that you DON'T need to alwyas have a man in her life. How should I tell her this? She doesn't seem to be listening.
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uuugh i hate guys.
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 11:46 pm
15/f
theres this kid that i've been hanging out with recently. (i posted a question about him about a month ago about whether he liked me or not. things have changed since then. we met in like the beginning of june when we went to a lake with mutual friends. he was flirting with me and held my hand when we went through the woods, and afterwards he told our friend he was interested and wanted to hang out soon. i was so exited because he's a year older than me and i never even thought i would get to know him, he always seemed unattainable. we hung out a few times after that, but he seemed to put less effort into talking to me or whatever, but i was really starting to like him.
but when i saw him last night at this carnival. at ...
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shy guy
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 11:41 pm
i have been hooking up with a guy from college every night we go out...say once a month, but thats as far as it goes..every time i see him were both so embarsed.he txt me few times and i got so sick of it goin nowhere i asked him 4 coffee,,, we went and it was fine but he hasnt got in touch since...his mates make it really awkward slaggin us...i dont know if i should jus forget him and end it...i know hes shy but does it sound like he doesnt care... well be goin out next wk again how do i find out wat he thinks?
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Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 11:40 pm
i know after hearin this u will surely say me to forget her.she told to one of my friend that she said yes to me becuse her friends forced her to,then she said to my mom that she said yes because she observed that i will lose my carrer by ending up with bad results in my 10th standard and she did not wanted herself to be the reason of it.she also said that i had been wasting my time behind her.actually we had decided to think about extending this relationship after 30th of april,2006.but one day when we were talking she suddenly took out the topic that i never asked that whether i she loves me or not.i means that she wanted me to ask her that ''do you love me''to which she wanted me to say yes,it wasn't supposed to be 2nd december , but 30 ...
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I think i dont like him anymore
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 10:48 pm
OK so me and my boyfriend have been together for a month and a half...i think...And he said he loves me. and i said it back. But then, i started to like him less and less. But when i told him i didnt love him but i liked him alot. He started crieing and telling me how bad i hurt him and that i crashed his heart and stuff. And i asked if he was going to break up with me. He said i lied to him and broke his heart...well i want to break up with him because i just dont think things are working out. And im scared he may do something. Because he gets over stuff fast. Because after that huge fight we had, the next day he acted as tho nothing happened. So what do i say.....
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date? hanging out? idk
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 10:39 pm
i really like this guy and we're hanging out in a few days. he wants me to choose what we're gonna do but i have no idea what to do. does anyone know of some fun things/places to do/go? i need helpp :(
oh by the way im 16.
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confusing boy!
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 10:03 pm
okay so i met this kid anthony at my friends graduation party in june & we hooked up..nothing serious though. after the party we hung out at two other parties and started talking a little bit. my friend told me that he likes me & i have a crush on him. the only thing is that he hooks up with so many girls. so i don't want to be like just another girl he hooks up with. i don't want a relationship but i don't want him to only think of me as a hook up partner. how do i get to talk to him more & figure out what's going on in his mind. he's so confusing! thanks!
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Break Up
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 8:57 pm
Me and my bf of 6 months broke up about a wk and a half ago. i dumped him because he told my friend he was gonna hook up with other girls bhind my back while we were on a break. i was really angry becuz he told me he would never hurt me and all this stuff about he loved me etc. the other day (i told) my friend to tell him how she feels because of what he did and he got really angry and sed he wuldnt talk to me or her nemore and now he put up a quote on myspace saying something like ya i cheated but its because i didnt get what i wanted from it. im pretty sure its because i didnt have sex with him because i didnt want it. he also put some on his page bragging that hes single. he is acting so immature i didnt do nething to the kid but be hone...
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he's leaving gift
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 8:16 pm
18 me
20 him
-my boyfriend and I will be together for 3 months when he leaves to college in california. in september (8 hrs away if that matters)
-i want to get him a couple of gifts that will remind him of me and that are just funny going away gifts.
-no websites please.
-just ideas.
-he loves baseball favorite team NEW YORK YANKEES. likes basketball favorite team LA LAKERS.
-he likes to do anything thats active and he is an outdoors typea guy but he does like staying home and relaxing sometimes.
hope I helped you so you can help me thx!
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Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 8:04 pm
Me and my friend really like each other. (We have told one another) And we know that each of does. But she recently had her heart broken. I want to make her a CD with songs that:
-Tell her that I'm here for her
-Tell her that I want to be more than friends
And I want a song that would sum how we were friends and now we like each other.
I want something along the lines of Yellowcard's Light Up The Sky.
I prefer the songs to be acoustic, new wave, electronic, alternative, some hip-hop is okay; but she really doesn't like hip-hop.
Please help. Thanks.
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I have some major realatinship issues
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 7:21 pm
16/f
bi-sexual
so whenever i get into a realationship,it always feels awkward afterwards
its like i want one but right after i do it just doesn't feel right i guess you could say
right now im going out with my best girl friend
she gorgeous and fun and itde seem like shede be perfect for me
but it feels wierd
this happens everytime,girl or boy,friend,best friend,or just met
its like ill never be marrige material,i know thats a bit extreme,but i just mean ide love a serious realatinship type thing but idk its never right
its like ill always be a one time thing
so i have two problems
1.i want a realationship,but i don't know how...
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boy problemm
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 5:49 pm
16 almost 17/f
okay so i really like this guy. i met him about a month ago at a party. a couple weeks later we hung out for basically the whole entire day and we talked alot and one of my friends that was there said that he was always trying to find a way to talk to me. (who knows if shes right but whatever) anywaysss, about a week later he gave me his number and said to call him when i wanted to hang out again. i never called him but i texted him and we were texting for like basically the whole day...and night. he said he was gonna go to bed and he'll talk to me tomorrow but he never did...i kinda want to text him but im not sure if i should...should i let him text me? from a guys perspective, do you like when the girl makes...
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boy issues
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 5:45 pm
long story short, my boyfriend sorta cheated on me, after he basically worshipped me and said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and he's never loved anyone like me. he didnt actually CHEAT, but he definitely betrayed me, and im not sure i believe that he wouldnt have cheated on me had he been given the chance. the point is, i feel like shit. after listening to him carry on about how much he loved me, i found this out, and listened to him deny it [yes i know for a FACT it was true. trust me.] its some girl he had a crush on like 4 years ago, she had a crush on him too, they never knew, then she moved, so they never had their chance, now theyre back in touch so now they know. that makes me feel sooo second choice. me and him are...
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does he LOVE me?
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 5:25 pm
16/f
i've been friends with a guy named chris since i first moved here 2 years ago, we went but since i had no prior experiance with guys or my feelings for them, i confused my friendship feelings for something more, so i had to break up with him.
After breaking up it was real auquered for him since he still liked me so i stopped being friends with him all together....
then in january of this year we started talking again, just as friends, it wasnt as aquered as b4 so i decide to be his friend again. ive always liked him in a way, he's one of the kindest and sweetest guys i know.
And wen i thought i mightve been pregnant i talked about it with him, and no one else.
i never even considered of asking him to ...
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boyfriend
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 4:11 pm
16/f
I've been with my boyfriend for about a week. He is friendly and has a ton of friends, although he's not considered popular and he's definitely not a jock. Since we've been together we've gone as far as taking all of our clothes off except underwear. He constantly makes sure I'm comfortable with this because, as he puts it, I'm too important to him to ruin it over something like moving too fast.
I'm completely okay with how far we've gone, and its comforting that he seems to care about me. However, everytime we hang out we only make out and never talk. I know a relationship needs more than physical aspects, and he assures me that he's not looking for a purely physical relationship. How do I make sure he's not just using m...
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will i live happily?????
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 1:51 pm
m a guy of 19 ... and my girlfrnd is also af the same age ... a few monthe younger..
we love each other a lot but the thing is that she is my first love but i am not her first love... and i know almost everything bout the kind of relationship she had with the other guy for bout 1 year includind the physical contact which didnt include sexual intercoarse.. its just that he had removed her shirt a couple of times .. if you know wat i mean .. and no oral sex at all
the thing is that i want to marry her in future but am afraid that her past relationship may spoil our relationshp after marriage as i may harrass her for being wid anoher guy before marriage... if u know what i mean... i dont want her to live her life like a living he...
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Hiding
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 12:49 pm
Okay wow
major wake up call
I had never even though about this
until I read the lyrics to
Girls Just Want To Have Fun
Some boys take a beautiful girl
And hide her away from the rest of the world
I want to be the one to walk in the sun
Oh girls they want to have fun
My boyfriend NEVER takes me out anywhere
We just go to his house, my house
And occasionally the park which is
right by his house
I was starting to think I was a freak
And he didnt want to be seen with me
But hmm why else could he be hiding me?
Is he ashamed of me? :/
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Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 12:22 pm
Ok well something has happened and i dont know how to feel. There is this guy but comes off as really immature, concieted, and just a plain jerk sometimes. But when we are alone he seems so sweet.
And he told my little brother, (they are friends) that he thought i was hott and was going on and on about how he couldnt wait to meet me. And when we did meet (he lives in my home state, i reside 6 hours away) he was asking me questions about me like my intrests and my hobbies. But if there were other girls around or his friends it was like i was a burden. And it really hurt. But at the same time it makes me want him more. All i ever tried to do was be friends with him, even though i wanted more. My dad said he is always asking ab...
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