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I've been with my boyfriend for about a week. He is friendly and has a ton of friends, although he's not considered popular and he's definitely not a jock. Since we've been together we've gone as far as taking all of our clothes off except underwear. He constantly makes sure I'm comfortable with this because, as he puts it, I'm too important to him to ruin it over something like moving too fast.
I'm completely okay with how far we've gone, and its comforting that he seems to care about me. However, everytime we hang out we only make out and never talk. I know a relationship needs more than physical aspects, and he assures me that he's not looking for a purely physical relationship. How do I make sure he's not just using me? Thanks in advance.
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Well, maybe you guys are moving to fast. You should tell him to that it would be better to take things slow. And if he cares about, he will respect that. Try not to make talk 24/7 though. Just call each other, go hang out at the mall together or do something that will get your mind off making-out and getting to know each other. That way it can be fun, so you know you dont have to make out all the time to have a good time together (=
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If you want to make sure he's not using you, one day when he wants to do it, tell him that you don't feel like doing it today. if he gets mad, there's a probability that he is using you. and if he's understanding and is okay with not doing it, then he's not.
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