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I think i dont like him anymore
OK so me and my boyfriend have been together for a month and a half...i think...And he said he loves me. and i said it back. But then, i started to like him less and less. But when i told him i didnt love him but i liked him alot. He started crieing and telling me how bad i hurt him and that i crashed his heart and stuff. And i asked if he was going to break up with me. He said i lied to him and broke his heart...well i want to break up with him because i just dont think things are working out. And im scared he may do something. Because he gets over stuff fast. Because after that huge fight we had, the next day he acted as tho nothing happened. So what do i say.....
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He probably burries all his pain and emotions deep down. So don't just think that he has gotten over it and everything is fine.
Did you take the time to explain to him that you did love him, only now, you like him alot, it is just that the feelings have faded and you're just not feeling it anymore. Tell him you most probably don't feel the relationship and the love as much as the beginning because you two haven't met in so long, and so that is probably why your feelings have changed and faded. That change of feeling is totally natural, you need to want to meet each other as often to keep the relationship blooming.
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Sounds like you're pressuring yourself into making a quick decision.
See him a little bit less for a few days at least and take time out to really think about what you want, what he wants and what will ultimately be better for the both of you in this situation.
A relationship is about 2 people, not 1, so if you're not happy, you have every right to get out of it. Don't let him presuade you not to leave if you want to.
Remember - DON'T MAKE A HASTY DECISION!
Good luck, hope it works out the best for you.
K-J
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