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uuugh i hate guys.
15/f
theres this kid that i've been hanging out with recently. (i posted a question about him about a month ago about whether he liked me or not. things have changed since then. we met in like the beginning of june when we went to a lake with mutual friends. he was flirting with me and held my hand when we went through the woods, and afterwards he told our friend he was interested and wanted to hang out soon. i was so exited because he's a year older than me and i never even thought i would get to know him, he always seemed unattainable. we hung out a few times after that, but he seemed to put less effort into talking to me or whatever, but i was really starting to like him.
but when i saw him last night at this carnival. at first when he drove by i waved to him and he smiled then his friend looked back at me then at him then like raised his eyebrows and nodded which seemed to be a good sign. later he was being friendly and flirting with me, complimenting me and stuff. then we hung out tonight with more people and he barely even talked to me. he seemed so uninterested. my sister's friends with him and she said he's really unreliable and is ADD with like, everything in his life and to forget about him. it's not that easy though, because i really like him and want things to work out but it's not going anywhere. ughh he keeps sending me mixed signals and i'm getting so aggrivated. i rarely find a guy that i actually like, so it's really hard to just forget about him because there's no other guy right now that i'm even romotely interested in. i really don't get many chances to meet new guys for some reason. it sucks soo bad because i think about how exited i was when i found out he liked me and i had hopes that it would work out, and now it's basically gone to shit. adfjb whattt do i do?
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Maybe you should tell him directly that you like him.
Maybe he's really the one that's unsure.
Don't believe that he's interested in you just because your friend said so - ask him straight up.
Don't spend too much time dwelling on it, you're only 15 and you'll have plently more chances when you're older.
Sometime being friends for a long time first makes for a very strong relationsip later - I had been friends with my current boyfriend for about 2 years when we decided to take it further, and now we've been together for almost 14 months and have no interest in anyone else and no plans to end the relationship anytime soon.
Hope it works out for you
K-J
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Don't listen to what other people say about him. YOU talk to him and figure out what is going on. Tell him this:
"Look, you're giving me mixed signals and I would really just like to know if you like me or not,"
Be blunt about it, but try not to be too harsh. If he is worth being with, he will be honest and let you know what he really wants.
--Jack
(16/m)
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