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I have some major realatinship issues
16/f
bi-sexual
so whenever i get into a realationship,it always feels awkward afterwards
its like i want one but right after i do it just doesn't feel right i guess you could say
right now im going out with my best girl friend
she gorgeous and fun and itde seem like shede be perfect for me
but it feels wierd
this happens everytime,girl or boy,friend,best friend,or just met
its like ill never be marrige material,i know thats a bit extreme,but i just mean ide love a serious realatinship type thing but idk its never right
its like ill always be a one time thing
so i have two problems
1.i want a realationship,but i don't know how to fix this wierdness
2.If i can't i need to break-up with this friend,but i don't know how to go about
it seems anyway i say it doesn't come out right
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"Things are only awkward if you make them awkward"
I've definitely learned that lesson lately. What I mean is, the first few days of a relationship are always a little weird or awkward at our age. It's perfectly normal. To get over awkwardness, just pretend everything's cool and fine, etc. Pretty soon, it will fade away.
(You didn't specify how long you've been dating this new girlfriend so I'm just going on assumption lol.)
But basically, if you walk into a relationship (or any situation really) already thinking about how awkward it will be...chances are you're going to be in for the weirdest relationship of your life. But, if you go in with confidence and a positive attitude, the awkward first days will pass quickly.
I wouldn't worry yourself at the moment about not being able to get married. Don't stress just because you're having a few awkward times. No worries.
If with this friend you really do come to find that that awkwardness won't go away and it's been months/years...then do what feels right. If you need to break up with her just let her know that it doesn't feel right and it isn't working out for you. I know it may be hard, but if it isn't working out after a long period of time and you've really given it your best effort, then it's time to move on.
I hope everything works out okay for you. Good luck!
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