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boy issues
long story short, my boyfriend sorta cheated on me, after he basically worshipped me and said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and he's never loved anyone like me. he didnt actually CHEAT, but he definitely betrayed me, and im not sure i believe that he wouldnt have cheated on me had he been given the chance. the point is, i feel like shit. after listening to him carry on about how much he loved me, i found this out, and listened to him deny it [yes i know for a FACT it was true. trust me.] its some girl he had a crush on like 4 years ago, she had a crush on him too, they never knew, then she moved, so they never had their chance, now theyre back in touch so now they know. that makes me feel sooo second choice. me and him arent together and basically not speaking. but i cant help feeling soo torn up. i know to go out with friends and have fun to get my mind off of it and all that stuff. but still, its not the fact that it happened. that hurts too, but its the fact that it seems like he'd take her over me, as much as he said he wouldnt, obviously i now know not to believe anything he says. i feel like im not good enough, like he'd rather have her any day, and like im second choice. if you've been in this situation, you know. i know that he's in the wrong here, not me, but it still hurts and the whole situation is making me feel like that. i just need some help =[
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dont worry everything will be ok! my ex boyfriend was the same way he told me he loved me, wuld spend the rest of his life with me and would never hurt me and then he did shady things behind my back. Jus always remember how special you are and remember it is your boyfriends loss not urs! it is his fault and he lost a fabulous girl. be confident jus hold your head up high. trust me i know it hurts but everything will b ok. jus remember that actions speak louder than words and not to believe everything men and people tell you and know that u r the prize it is his loss and he was lucky to have you!
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I know that it really hurts to feel like you are in a race. It seems like most men are insensitive to see how it hurts us or even to look at it in our point of view. Sometimes going out with friends keeps you mind off things but sometimes it makes you think about it even more. When a guy truly loves he gives his heart and soul, not matter who comes in the picture. It seems like he is the complete opposite of what you truly deserve. The only advice a person can really give in your situation is to go on a search to finding yourself. Find your strengths and your weaknesses,using them to your advantage. Once you completely find yourself, you will realize that he was not the man for you and you deserve much better.
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