Ok, well...A friend of mine has an obsession with always being with a guy. No, it is not me. My friend. She says that she always needs a boyfriend all the time. The longest she's been single for 2 years has been around one week long or so. I myself couldn't care. Sure I like guys and all but I'm only Fifteen and so is my friend. Why do it all now when I have a whole life ahead of me. But, I'm justing wondering what I should do. It's kind of making me a bit angery at her. She doesn't get it that you DON'T need to alwyas have a man in her life. How should I tell her this? She doesn't seem to be listening.
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It's a stage in her life and eventually she'll realise what you're tying to tell her and get over it.
But I'm afraid you'll just have to wait it out.
Don't end the friendship, it's not worth it.
As long as she knows you're there for her when this stage of her life is over.
She'll come back, don't worry
(my best friend used to be like that, she's 17 now and much more sensible and has been single for about a year now)
Cux answered Monday July 21 2008, 12:28 am: Just let her do what she does. I know it can be irritating, and I have friends like that too, but I'm like you in that I would rather just wait for the right person. I've had too many relationships fail that it just isn't worth it.
Eventually she'll realize that she doesn't need a guy. Maybe try sitting her down one time and explaining your feelings to her. If she doesn't understand, just let her be on her way and she'll stop eventually.
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