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does he LOVE me?


Question Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 5:25 pm

16/f
i've been friends with a guy named chris since i first moved here 2 years ago, we went but since i had no prior experiance with guys or my feelings for them, i confused my friendship feelings for something more, so i had to break up with him.
After breaking up it was real auquered for him since he still liked me so i stopped being friends with him all together....
then in january of this year we started talking again, just as friends, it wasnt as aquered as b4 so i decide to be his friend again. ive always liked him in a way, he's one of the kindest and sweetest guys i know.
And wen i thought i mightve been pregnant i talked about it with him, and no one else.
i never even considered of asking him to do this but the next time i saw him, he gave me a pregnancy test....thankfully was neg........
for the longest time i thought he'd gotten over me but since that day i was no longer sure.
Since then ive randomly asked guys if their gf asked em to get em a preg test wat wud they do, not one of em said they wudve bought it.
so ive been thinking well chris wasnt even my bf we had barely started becoming friends again....

from your opinion does he LOVE me?
and if so wat do i do about it? i really like him but not in that way, i wish i cud but so far i havnt been able to....



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dhunters_baby answered Monday July 21 2008, 10:17 pm:
It sounds like he loves you but don't let that ruin your relationship. He may just love you as a friend and really care about you.

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Cux answered Sunday July 20 2008, 8:01 pm:
To be honest I could barely understand what was going on. Chatspeak is hard to read for me.

Here's a list of what guys do when they like/love you:

1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.

2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.

3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...

4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.

5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".

6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.


I don't know, I think he definitely could like you, but if you want to find out for yourself- ask HIM. His friends can make anything up they want.

--Jack
(16/m)

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