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Boys think Im weird
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 3:29 pm
some boys dont talk to me becuse im weird and also im not that hot or cute
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Posted Friday August 8 2008, 3:27 pm
Hey. My name is Marie and I'm 17. I'm a junior in highschool, and my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 years, and I really think he's the one. Since my first year of highschool I've had too many problems to count at home, and he's always been there and I can tell him anything at all.
I was wondering if when he goes to college it will still be the same between us. And, I was wondering if you think it's normal to be with someone for as long as I have during highschool years.
Also, lately it's been really hard to cope around my house. My mom is in jail, I've never met my dad, my twin brother recently tried to kill himself, and a lot of people are worried about how our family is coping. I have 5 siblings: one is 20...
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Is jealousy the right answer?
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 3:24 pm
Hey,I'm a 16 year-old female I have recently broke up with my boyfriend. We still liked each other then my best friend started liking him. He told me he would never like her and that he liked me but the next day my friend and him were going out. She knew I still had strong feelings for him. What should I do to try to get him back? Is making him jealous the right answer? If so what should I do to make him jealous
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how do you...
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 3:24 pm
I know this is stupid but im just 13 and have no experience...but i was wondering how do you make-out?
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how can i tell?
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 1:08 pm
16/f
there's this guy that i have had a crush on for a little over a month now. i knew him from a couple classes last school year and a school related activity. we act like acquaintances, but we know each other like friends, if that makes sense. starting monday was when the activity started and i see him everyday. i want to get to know him better and everything, but after a bit of time, what are some hints that guys give that show that they like girls?
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I dont understand.
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 12:51 pm
So everytime i get a boyfriend that i do really like, my feelings change all of a sudden. and i dont want anything to do with them. and i dont know why. i mean i really do like them, but i find ways to avoid them sometimes. its so weird. or i get worried that there too obsessive.[sp] and i dont know its so weird.
can anybody tell me why? or anything about this.
thank you!
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should i go for this guy?
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 11:22 am
alright so i dated this guy for almost 2 years, and i REALLY loved him. but he started changing and he became a complete asshole and treated me like shit. he broke up with me about 3 times and then came back, it was the hardest thing ever.. i just wanted to get things back the way they were but it was too late beacuse he was already soooo different!! it hurt horribly, but i realized he wasnt a good guy anyway and that i needed to move on. its been 3 months since we broke up, and 2 whole weeks sice weve talked AT ALL, its the longest weve gone without talking! and i knoww hes not coming back this time, i really hate him for evrything! but anyways back to the point!! i met this new guy and weve been hanging out a lot and i know he likes me be...
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two faced boyfriend??
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 9:27 am
15/F
okay so normally i dont really care about these things.
But its happened so often i think its time i do something about this.
Beofore i even get to explaining it i want you to know that breaking up is NOT an option for me.
Whenever im on the phone with my boyfriend and he has his friend or cousins over.
He NEVER talks to me, he just talks to the people hes in the rooom with, and leaves me holding the phone to my ear and looksing stupid.
yesterday, i hung up because it was getting really annoying, and it took him ten minutes to realize i hung up, and only THEN did he call me backk.
Then he just does the same thing over again.
Every now and then he would say
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a guy
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 6:41 am
there is this guy who is a bit older than i am (we're both in college) and he works at the library ... in order to borrow anything from them i have to go through the reserve desk and that's where he works.... so anyhow... i've been doing everything: eye contact smiles everything... i've only gotten to the point where he realizes that i am interested and he acknowledges. he flirted a couple of times the day before but the next day there was less eye contact (though he would acknowledge my presence by smiling or looking or smiling to himself when i look over) i don't want to seem desperate or basically young and clingy but thats the way i feel when i see him... my stomach goes in knots and i can't help but look to see if he is there (he is a ...
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i dont like him!
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 3:31 am
so one of my friends decided to hook me up with this guy she used to go to school with and that she used to have a crush on him blah blah blah..anyways he messaged me on myspace tellin me this too. when i told him i had to get off he texted me and he was pretty cool..i thought. we had a lot of stuff in common and he seemed okay but when i saw him he wasnt attractive and i dont like him so how should i tell him that without sounding rude. or like make something up lol
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my half year anniversary
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 2:54 am
my boyfriend and i are having our half year anniversary august the 19th. he told me that we would spend the day together and he would take me out to dinner, also to the movies.
but that same day he is supposed to go to a concert with his best friend *girl*
and he would be gone all day
its my choice whether he goes so:
should i let him go and spend the money on the concert ticket *wont see him*
OR
should i tell him its our nite to share and that he should be there
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party...what to do around him
Posted Friday August 8 2008, 12:38 am
i asked this question already but i couldn't see the answers for some reason so here it is:
i really like this guy and i think he might like me back, hes been dropping a few hints and stuff but like he didnt flat out say that he liked me... (yet?) we've only hung out like 3 or so times. im seeing him again this weekend at a party and theres gonna be alcohol there. hes not really a big drinker but he does a little bit, and hes friends with everyone who does. this is gonna sound really stupid but my question is, should i act a little tipsy around him? because i kind of want to see if he'll take care of me and stuff. please don't tell me to act myself and stuff its not like im gonna get flat out drunk, im not like that. ...
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help
Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 9:23 pm
So the guy I'm talking to is a little mad at me, for reasons that I fully take blame for. I've apologized but he doesn't think I'm really sorry. I'll be seeing him at his graduation party where there will be family, mine and his, how would I be able to catch his attention and make him sure I was truly sorry?
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What can I do?
Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 2:36 pm
Has anyone ever felt such a strong physical pain left mentally by someone else? My ex boyfriend used to be everything, my superhero. He moved out to Rhode Island for me but it completely changed him. Our whole year of amazing love has turned into me being dirt in his eyes. We've had problems just like everyone else but we were always there for eachother. When he came here he started to fall into other girls and once he got a job and his own place to live it was like he was completely done with me. I feel so used but I don't want to believe it I want to believe in the guy I once knew. Its tearing me apart literally to the point of hyperventalation. Nothing I do can remind him of our promises nothing I say can change his heart and my heart ca...
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Are there times when not revealing an affair is ok?
Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 1:51 pm
I had an affair for a few weeks and we did have sex 1 time. It blew up horribly when my spouse found things. She does not know we were intimate and I really do not want her to know. She is a wreck and so am I. I am afraid that this will kill her - she is a little unstable right now. Why does she even need to know these details? I can carry this secret to my grave. If this were known, I believe we will end up in a divorce and our home w/kids will be destroyed, and I do not want that to happen! It seems like I remember Dr. Laura mentioned once that a one-time affair (not a long lasting one) didn't need to be disclosed. Why burden your spouse with this. Why dump these rocks on them. Its your burden to carry. Help.
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letting go.
Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 1:04 pm
what's the easiest way to get over your first love? we were together almost a year. we were each others first 'real' relationship and took each other's virginity. we recently broke up and i dont know what to do now. we havent talked since, (not that i really want to now) and he's trying to make me jealous. i've tried hanging out with someone else but idk. and i can't find anything really to keep me busy so i don't think about it. please help.
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no calls?!
Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 1:02 pm
ok so everytime im on the phone with my boyfriend and we are going to get off he says hell call me back and ends up not doing that i dont know what to do ya duh talk about it but i sorta dont know how to start with it without sounding like a biotch i think its so stupid to get angry over this but i am and i want it to stop. o and by the way my number is so simple to remember its not even funy the last 4 digits are all the same like it 5555 its ANNOYING
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abusive
Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 2:12 am
I'm not really sure how to start this so I'm just going to jump right in...
I was in a very abusive relationship for about 2 years, the guy hit me and would call me fat and just a lot of really bad things that I don't like to talk about.
Well, I got out of that relationship and it's been about a year and a half almost 2 years since then but I'm still having a very hard time with guys.
Every guy I've met (since the ex that abused me) stops talking to me. I always seem to scare them off I think. And I think it's because I'm very scared of guys and I tend to overreact over things because of it.
Any time a guy I meet does something my ex used to do I get scared because I'm so afraid o...
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lust?
Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 12:34 am
ok so im 15f i have only had 1 bf before. i feel like i dont wanna be committed having to buy gifts and just all that stuff. but now thats changing i think. im ready to try a relationship, my ex was an awful kisser and i think that turned me off and i just like stopped talking to him , its mean i know. idk why i feel like this but now there was an older guy, by 1 year and him and i got close and we talked and as soon as we started getting closer i backed off and didnt talk to him. its not live ive been hurt so why am i like this, what can i do to change
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About this guy.
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 11:42 pm
So I've known this guy for 2 years, And he started to have a hatred for me, because I was kind of a whore in 8th grade when he was in 10th grade. I went out with a lot of people. And he still didn't like me till I got into high school, and then finally I started to date one of his good friends and he still talked shit about me and didn't like me, and didn't like what I stood for and all that shit. He said I was annoying and didn't like me.
So this happened, : I always was interested in him from the first time I met him, I thought he was just amazing. So randomly this summer, a couple days ago, I'm going to be a junior and he's already graduated. I got his number from a friend and texted him randomly and told him I'm "Na...
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