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Hey. My name is Marie and I'm 17. I'm a junior in highschool, and my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 years, and I really think he's the one. Since my first year of highschool I've had too many problems to count at home, and he's always been there and I can tell him anything at all.
I was wondering if when he goes to college it will still be the same between us. And, I was wondering if you think it's normal to be with someone for as long as I have during highschool years.
Also, lately it's been really hard to cope around my house. My mom is in jail, I've never met my dad, my twin brother recently tried to kill himself, and a lot of people are worried about how our family is coping. I have 5 siblings: one is 20, one is 16, one is 14, one is 10, and my twin is 17. I feel like since my brother can't handle stress, I have to keep things running smoothly around the house. And it's really been a lot to deal with, and I think I'm close to having a mental breakdown. What should I do?
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I'm so sorry about your home life first of all. It is not your responsibilty though, to handle your family. Another thing, that is great you have a boyfriend who is understanding and treats you well. Love like that is hard to find. And there is nothing wrong with dating someone 3 years, I wish my relationships could last like that.Thats awesome!! And when he goes to college, things will be hard, yeah, but you have strong love, love can get you through anything, no matter the distance or intensity.
Also, i think you need to talk to a trusted adult, or family member, who can help you out with your home life, especailly if your close to a mental breakdown.
I can understand how hard oyur home life must be, and I wish you the best, I'll pray for you and your family.
If you would like to talk more about it just write me back, I'm here to listen :)
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