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About this guy.
So I've known this guy for 2 years, And he started to have a hatred for me, because I was kind of a whore in 8th grade when he was in 10th grade. I went out with a lot of people. And he still didn't like me till I got into high school, and then finally I started to date one of his good friends and he still talked shit about me and didn't like me, and didn't like what I stood for and all that shit. He said I was annoying and didn't like me.
So this happened, : I always was interested in him from the first time I met him, I thought he was just amazing. So randomly this summer, a couple days ago, I'm going to be a junior and he's already graduated. I got his number from a friend and texted him randomly and told him I'm "Natasha" even though my name is Jacky. And he didn't even know that. I sent him pictures of me over texts and he said I was cute as hell and stuff like that, and he didn't know it was me Jacky. He thought I was Natasha. So we started talking on the phone and texting a lot, and getting to know each other a bit better. And he says he's interested in me and so am I.
So we hang out this one day at midnight. I come to his house and he's all smiling and shit when he sees me. We get in his friends car and we're sitting in the back talking and shit, and we get really high. It was a lot of fun and he starts making out with me and we're driving around. He still doesn't know I'm Jacky, the girl he hates, he thinks I'm Natasha. So we cruise around town, and then we get back to his house.
We have sex. It was really amazing. We were so high and it was so good and he was so amazing. He still thinks I'm Natasha. But I'm not. I told him I'm Natasha because I thought if I told him who I really was, he'd reject me. So I'm playing this little game with him, it might not be mature, but it's actually kind of smart.
So later on, he finds out from a friend that I'm Jacky. And he says that he knew I was. And now I don't know what's going on, if he's interested in me still or what's going on. I'm really confused, and I don't know what to do, or if I should talk to him or not. I still really like him and I want to date him. What should I do? What's going on? Please help me.
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You better call him up and ASK him.
We can't read his mind. We can't tell you how he feels about you lying to him and misleading him.
He might think it was cute and flattering.
Or he might think it's just the damn Jacky behaving badly agian.
Call him up, and start with an apology. See where things go from there.
(And frankly, not only is this not mature, it's not very smart either. Lying to people you are fucking, will always be fundementally 'Not Smart' for a million reasons I'm sure you can think of yourself.)
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Well, if he knew you were really 'Jacky' all along and went along with it, then he probably liked you the whole time. Sometimes guys express their feelings in odd ways and by him teasing you and saying he didn't like you, probably just meant he did the whole time.
First things first, ask him straight up if he's still into you. Let him know that you have always liked him and wanted to get close to him, but you knew he hated you. Therefore, you chose a fake name.
If you meant as much to him as he means to you, then he will tell you right then and there.
x0*-Bryttnii
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Confront him but do it nicely. Ask him if he really new if you were Jacky. And if he did then why didn't he care. If he says that he doesn't care and he loves you anyways then he sounds like an awesome guy that you should be happy about.
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