alright so i dated this guy for almost 2 years, and i REALLY loved him. but he started changing and he became a complete asshole and treated me like shit. he broke up with me about 3 times and then came back, it was the hardest thing ever.. i just wanted to get things back the way they were but it was too late beacuse he was already soooo different!! it hurt horribly, but i realized he wasnt a good guy anyway and that i needed to move on. its been 3 months since we broke up, and 2 whole weeks sice weve talked AT ALL, its the longest weve gone without talking! and i knoww hes not coming back this time, i really hate him for evrything! but anyways back to the point!! i met this new guy and weve been hanging out a lot and i know he likes me because he pretty much told me strait up. i think i might actually like him, which is awesome beacuse i havent liked anybody else since my ex! eventually im sure he's going to ask me out, and im just not sure if i should? do you think it would be wrong to him since i dated a guy so long and probably still have feelings for him?? or do you think i should just go for it?! it might help me get over my ex?!
surferchick16 answered Friday August 8 2008, 12:52 pm: I actually think you should give the new guy a chance, because your ex has broken your heart enough times, and he will just keep doing it. If your concerned about your felling for you ex, then maybe taking a little time to get over it wouldn't be such a bad idea. I think you should give the new guy a chance b/c he may be the one for you, he may not break your heart. You know. All Im saying is your ex, will just keep breaking your heart, I know a guy like this, its so hard to walk away, but trust me you have to, itll be the best for both of you.
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