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party...what to do around him
i asked this question already but i couldn't see the answers for some reason so here it is:
i really like this guy and i think he might like me back, hes been dropping a few hints and stuff but like he didnt flat out say that he liked me... (yet?) we've only hung out like 3 or so times. im seeing him again this weekend at a party and theres gonna be alcohol there. hes not really a big drinker but he does a little bit, and hes friends with everyone who does. this is gonna sound really stupid but my question is, should i act a little tipsy around him? because i kind of want to see if he'll take care of me and stuff. please don't tell me to act myself and stuff its not like im gonna get flat out drunk, im not like that. i just wanna see if he really does have feelings for me and stays with me...which he has before at a non-alcoholic beverage party. oh and like everyones gonna be drunk, so i dont want him to get the wrong impression of me thinking im like a big party pooper, i wanna be fun, cause i am fun =)
thank youu!
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First of all, you definitely wouldn't be a "party pooper" if you didn't get drunk. There's nothing wrong with being sober at a party, and it's good to have someone responsible and sober around, just in case anything bad goes down. Also, remember that you'd rather someone be genuine, right? Imagine if ya'll ended up doing something on a physical level together. Would you rather question of that was the alchohol or him? Think about how he's feel in that case, too.
It'd be nice to see if he sticks with you if you got "tipsy". But it'd be even nicer to see that he sticks with you again, even if you're not drinking. Plus, "tipsy" can get out of hand VERY quickly.
Guys don't really like girls who act stupid/defenseless/like they're trying to impress them, so I don't see why a guy would want a girl to be tipsy around them, unless they just want in their pants or something.
Overall, I'd REALLY recommend that you stay sober, or at least don't try to act tipsy or something you otherwise would'nt. Let things go smoothly sober, or however they're meant to go. You can be tons of fun without booze or acting like you can't handle booze, lol.
He'll probably be really impressed if you can handle your alcohol, or even not drinking!
XOXO
KAT.
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Like the person below me said, he basically wouldn't be worth it if he didn't want you anymore because you were above the influence at a party. Why drink just because everybody else is, and you think it would get more people to like you? Those people who wouldn't like you as much sober...well, forget them. =P
Besides, you are your own person. I understand that you would want to know if he'd take care of you when you're 'tipsy'. But think about this: if he takes care of you when you're a little drunk, it could just mean that he's a nice person, not that he necessarily likes you. So, why not do it the old-fashioned way...ask him or flirt a little.
If he's already stayed with Sober You to talk at a non-alcoholic party, what makes you think he wouldn't stay with Sober You at an alcoholic party? He likes you already sober, so what's the point in testing him by drinking?
Just my opinion on the matter. Above all though, just have fun and remember that you don't need to show off to him by drinking. I think you're already in his good graces hun.
Good luck! =]
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I answered this question the last time you posted it. But here is what I said.
First off, guys don't like girls that act dumb or drunk in this case. Don't do that for attention because it could make things really bad, especially if he's not a big drinker to begin with.
Now, when guys throw hints at you that they like you, they really do. When you go to this party, keep conversation going and flirt.
To be honest, he'd probably be more impressed if you could handle yourself at a party rather than being drunk and falling all over the place (or acting drunk.) Not to mention, if he thinks your a "party pooper" because you don't get drunk, he's a loser anyways.
Just have fun! Remember, he likes you for you! There are other ways to see if he'd take care of you.
x0*-Bryttnii
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