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Question Posted Thursday August 7 2008, 9:23 pm

So the guy I'm talking to is a little mad at me, for reasons that I fully take blame for. I've apologized but he doesn't think I'm really sorry. I'll be seeing him at his graduation party where there will be family, mine and his, how would I be able to catch his attention and make him sure I was truly sorry?

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xlovexx463 answered Friday August 8 2008, 9:09 am:
It all depends. I don't know your friend, but I'm going to give you three possibilities and you can see whichever one applies more...

1) He just needs space. He's not ready to accept your apology, and only time will heal.

2) He just needed space for that one day. He wasn't ready to accept your apology then, but he might be now.

3) He's totally forgotten and is no longer mad at you.

For all of these possibilities, the solution is simple. At the graduation party, just smile and say hi if you cross paths with him. Then, gauge his reaction:

1) If he stares you down with a "if-looks-could-kill" glare, back off.

2) If he smiles and brings it up again himself, then maybe you two could talk it out. That's the key, let him bring it up, not you.

3)And lastly, if he smiles hugely and gives you hug saying "I'm so happy you're here!" and doesn't bring it up at all, case closed and move on. ;]

Good luck and have fun at that party. =]

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HEALER answered Friday August 8 2008, 3:01 am:
IT depends on what you did wrong, you should know on you're mistake. only by going and confront him you will find out.

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