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Please..help me i don't no what to do..
Posted Monday September 1 2008, 12:49 am
Okay..you might think i'm werid but please help me..I am in love with a guy that is 12 years older than me. he is not a rapist or some guy that will take advantage of me..I know for sure...he is really caring and think for others but not himself.
He is actually my sister in law's brother...I know i shouldn't love him but i love him really much. We love each other really much and can even give up our life for each other. its just that some peoplee in our family really oppose to us..They keep saying things that would really hurt him, like why does he like me and stuff..my parents approve of us but our siblings don't..only his brother and my sister approve of us also..but aunts approve of us too...expect for my grandfathers side...
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Relationships and love as a teenager...
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 10:42 pm
So I'm in a relationship for the first time, and on top of that, my boyfriend was my first real, major crush. I've had a crush on him for a few months (pretty much since I met him), and we've been going out for three weeks....so these kinds of feelings are rather new to me, and I guess as for most people / teens, they can be pretty...intense, shall we say...and I'm wondering if it's better to let myself get caught up in it and completely enjoy the experience or to stay attached to the earth and realize that as a teen, I'm a naive, hormone-flooded being and keep in mind that teen relationships are usually basically purely for fun, and therefore not take to seriously what I think I feel at any point, because it probably isn't "really true."
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lolng distnace
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 9:45 pm
me and my boy have been together, here, for a year. he just moved to live in florida.. we together in person would have so much to talk about do, we get along so good. now that hes gone, like, on the phone, theres not so much to say, its really hard to keep this relationship, i feel like eventually we'll just fall outta love cause the things we loved about each other we cant do cause hes far away, we can just talk, i like in NY by the way. Anyways, idk what to do.. any advice..
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my boyfriend is caught between me and his best friend.
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 9:12 pm
So, my boyfriend has a best friend named Tessa. Tessa and I have been best friends for awhile, and me, my boyfriend, and her have the same circle of friends. We have been friends long before I started dating my boyfriend. Anyway, Tessa is always inviting my boyfriend to go places with her. To her house, to her godfathers lake house, ect. I know they are friends and all, but this makes me very uncomfortable. I know Tessa has liked my boyfriend in the past, and she says she doesn't like him now, but still. I know if she had a boyfriend that I was good friends with I wouldn't invite him over my house alone, so I don't understand why she would do that to me? So basically, what should I do? I know my boyfriend hates being put in the middle becau...
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just friends speech
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 9:07 pm
umm how to break it to someone gently? that you thought you thought you were just gonna hang out but it turns out that you guys went out?
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how to say no
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 8:55 pm
let's say your boyfriend or someone you really like asks you to give them head. well, not asks you, but says it like "give me head." or "get down." or "how bout a blow job?"
how can you say no? or reject them? and they don't have to be nice rejections.
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The EX wants to come back
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 8:35 pm
15/f
Ya I have an Ex that I broke up with over the summer because he was cheating on me, and now he wants to go back out again and I kinda still have feelings for him, what should I do?
plus nobody wants me going out with him.
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I really like this guy but im not sure if he likes me...
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 7:59 pm
Welll every summer i go on vacation with some friends and theres this one guy whos goes thats my age that i hang out with .In the begin of the trip he doesn't show much intrest in me and he'll kinda stay distant from me. but as the trip progress his start to flirt with me more and more. like he'll just start out like with little flirty thing like "oh your cute" and stuff like that and then he'll try to hold my hand and make excuses to hug me and stuff like that and it makes me really nervous and gets my stomach turning, and there sometimes when thing almost get really serious. but i dont want to take it that fare.And hes been doing it every trip for the past 3 years. But i really really like him but im not sure if hes just using ...
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this one guy
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 7:54 pm
well see there is this one guy. we dont date and his name is bradley white. he goes to huntsville middle and i go to chapman middle, and he live down the street from me. like we have dated 3 times and i want to make it a 4th. everytime we touch and everytime we talk i just want it to last. i never want to loose him. well like this guy im dating named seth he dumped mehh like a week ago, bc his frends told him i was using him and cheating on him and i wasnt. they told mehh the same thing just to break us up. but then after school he came to my house and around 4 asked mehh bak out well bradley was ther hangin out with mehh and he told my sister and step sister he was gonna ask me out well seth asked me out and i said yeh to him bc i didnt no...
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Erm.. There's this girl...
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 7:18 pm
Here's the story. Me and a girl, lets call her Emily, had a thing for each other for about a week. We have totally different personalitys, such as, we dont have A LOT of common things, and she's not really into what i am, but the thing is she still likes me. I called her about 3 times a day.. She thought i was a little annoying, so she told her friend to tell me that i was 'clingy'. I got a little angry.. kinda.. and i kinda made a bet with Emily's friend that i wouldn't talk to her for 3 days.. 3 Day's passed by, and I've ignored every single call/text/IM, that she sent me. I know that was a stupid idea, and now she doesn't like me anymore. Any idea advice someone can give me? I really really need help..
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Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 6:29 pm
if someone asks you out (first time), what happens next? it doesnt mean you two are dating, right? what if you dont want to pursue the relationship? is that where you give the "just friends" speech?
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over him
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 2:53 pm
Okay, well recently i found out the guy i like is "talking" to some one else. He had always been kinda flirty with me and all my friends said he liked me so i kinda felt like he was leading me on. Well now that i found out he is "talking" to someone, i got really sad because i really started to like him and i was constantly thinking about him and i am not one of those teenagers who say i love you to them and are obsessed with their boyfriends and the people i like. But, i really started to like this guy and got the feeling he liked me to but now, i guess not because he is already talking to someone else. I have been really sad lately because i liked him so much and i never have really felt this way about a guy before. I ...
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Ex bf confusion
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 2:17 pm
17/f Last night I went to a mixer and my ex was there. We dated for a really long time and broke up 2 months ago. I got over him pretty easily because he was being a huge jerk. So last night, these 3 boys from his school were really into me, hanging out with me and one of them even put his arm around me. My ex got really mad and kept giving me evil glares. So I went to talk to him, thinking, I don't want to get a glare from him every time we look at each other.
He ended up apologizing for his jerky behavior from our break up. He really did seem sincere. At the same time he told me he is still in love with me and regrets breaking up with me (he broke it off). So I'm confused. If you love someone... why would you be a jerk to them? It...
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new short hair
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 11:09 am
i just got a haircut and its really short. Its like an inch under my ears but i still think its really short. I have heard that guys dont like girls with short hair and im going back to school soon so i dont want to look like a boy. Is it true that guys dont think girls with short hair are hot? Thank you :)
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no time for me "/
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 9:35 am
so i met this guy..he had to have been the cutest ever. well it all started one night when he came over with some of his friends .. me and him hit it off right then and there an we were having so much fun ..as summer went on we'd spend like every week or so together. yeah i mean we didnt spend every waking moment together but the times we were together were amazing. plus hes a busy kid with everything he has coming to him for the future. well now summers coming to an end. practically ended already.. and hes in college and im a junior dont worry hes only 18. but anyways, hes told me he likes me a lot and hopes that we can spend time together more. well hes the type of guy whose always busy..his dads opening up some place for him to run, part...
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How do I act on a date? I want to make a good impression!
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 8:05 am
I am going on a date with a really nice guy soon and I want to make a great first impression on the date. He knows me from work but I really want to show him a different side of me. I am really already shooting for another date after this first one, as long as everything goes smoothly and there isn't some twisted shocker by the end of it. I think I know him pretty well but I want him to be as interested in me as I am in him.
I know I need to dress nice and be polite, but I'm sure that's not all. He's never seen me outside of the work environment and I really want to wow him with myself. I am a pretty down to earth girl, and I don't do anything wild or risky (I don't drink, smoke, have sex, etc.), but I want to show him t...
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what should i do???
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 6:23 am
I am 19/f.
I am from India.
My boyfriend is 18 and we are dating each other for nearly more than 1 year.
Initially the relationship was wonderful but lately we are fighting a lot.
In my past i had many frnds who r boys n now bcoz of dat he thinks dat i m a flirt n he doesn't even trust me.
Wen i say dat dey wer only my frnd n nothin more den dat he gets angry n starts arguing.
Now i dont even have many frnds n now days i avoid talkin 2 ne boy 4m ma class.
but still he doesn't trust me.
But he says dat he loves me a lot.
Even i love him a lot.
I don't want 2 leave him.
nowdays he says dat he doesnt wants 2 b wit n after sayin no he keeps callin me back everytime...n fights wit me again...
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wow..please help!
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 2:26 am
Okay well, i like(d) this guy named chase. and he said he like me but he want's me to change like everything about me like my looks my friends, my makeup....is it worth it? Or should i go for someone else, PS im emo/scene...so i need's tips too go for someone like me,
Thanks in advance.
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boy
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 2:13 am
so this guy moved to new york from colorado and he's really cute and funny, i'm kinda falling for him. the thing is he has a girl back in colorado, i guess they're pretty serious, but long distance relationships hardly ever work, so do you think i have a chance with him? i mean i definitely don't want to come in between them ..but idk. help please! :/
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crush
Posted Sunday August 31 2008, 1:57 am
I have a friend. I know for a fact that he doesn't like me as more than a friend. But sometimes I find myself looking at him and wondering what it would be like to kiss him. I like being around him mostly because he is such a relaxed person who can hold a good conversation. But every time he walks away I feel a little sad inside because I know I'll miss him. I used to really like him a lot but then I didn't see him for a long time and after hanging out with him today, I feel a little confused again. I'm not even sure that I have a crush on him. Is it possible to mix up friendship with a crush?
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