Okay..you might think i'm werid but please help me..I am in love with a guy that is 12 years older than me. he is not a rapist or some guy that will take advantage of me..I know for sure...he is really caring and think for others but not himself.
He is actually my sister in law's brother...I know i shouldn't love him but i love him really much. We love each other really much and can even give up our life for each other. its just that some peoplee in our family really oppose to us..They keep saying things that would really hurt him, like why does he like me and stuff..my parents approve of us but our siblings don't..only his brother and my sister approve of us also..but aunts approve of us too...expect for my grandfathers side. they say mean things to him which hurts me to...please help me..tell me what to do to make them accept my b/f..plese don't tell me that hes too old for me and hes my brother in law..
teardrops7 answered Monday September 1 2008, 11:24 am: Well if you really love him and your parents approve, you shouldnt care what everyone else thinks. If they cant accept him they cant accept you. If you love him thats all that matters. [ teardrops7's advice column | Ask teardrops7 A Question ]
Lil-Nikkay answered Monday September 1 2008, 4:17 am: Hello!
If some of your family cant accept the fact that you two are together, then dont worry.
The thing I would be more worried about is my parents to be honest.
If there fine with it then whats the worry. In your life, not everyone will like everything that you do.. but does that matter?
If it makes you happy, then let it be.
Your family will come round,
Dont worry.
If they say hurtful things, then just leave the room.
Im sure it will work out!
:) [ Lil-Nikkay's advice column | Ask Lil-Nikkay A Question ]
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