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so i met this guy..he had to have been the cutest ever. well it all started one night when he came over with some of his friends .. me and him hit it off right then and there an we were having so much fun ..as summer went on we'd spend like every week or so together. yeah i mean we didnt spend every waking moment together but the times we were together were amazing. plus hes a busy kid with everything he has coming to him for the future. well now summers coming to an end. practically ended already.. and hes in college and im a junior dont worry hes only 18. but anyways, hes told me he likes me a lot and hopes that we can spend time together more. well hes the type of guy whose always busy..his dads opening up some place for him to run, part time college and running this business. he says he wont have the same amount of time for me, but hes really going to try.. well now me and him barely talk. i don't really wanna talk to him but i think i like him more than i thought. and everyone tells me hes so into me. he notices every little thing about me. its cute in all .. but he told me to make it in life is either the smarter decision or heart decision. and guys never go with there heart ..so i feel like im wasting my time waiting on him.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You can't blame the guy for wanting to make something of his life. It seems the older we get, the busier our lives become. That is just how life goes.
You got to try to see it this way: What if there is some great future for you and him. Isn't it nice to know that he is responsible and making a stable life?
Here's a couple of options for you:
1- Have patience. The guy is going to school AND running a business. To expect more time than he can give is, honestly, on the selfish side. Enjoy every minute of the time he CAN devote to you.
2- Ask him flat out if you're wasting your time. Part of a having a healthy relationship is talking about the things that nag your mind.
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