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Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 9:43 pm
PS i am a 13 year old girl
So at night I like to talk to my crush on IM. We only talk to like 10:30 on school nights, but my parents don't think i should be allowed to be on the computer at night, something about how my siblings weren't ever allowed to have the laptop in their room. They don't know that I am talking to my crush, who is moving at the end of the year; i NEED to talk to him. My grades aren't suffering, i still get up early every day, but they keep hinting that they wont let me talk on IM at night anymore. how do i deal with them??
katwashala
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How do I tell my parents?
Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 8:36 pm
17/f. Never dated anyone, at all. I've been talking to this really great guy for a few weeks, and my parents have no clue who he is because he goes to a different school. He and I both like each other and are going on a date in like a week or so. The problem is that we haven't spent much time together in person, so that's the point of the date- to see if it would even work. We talk on the phone and stuff but it's not the same as actually hanging out.
So how do I tell my parents without making them think that he's my boyfriend? I know they'll want to meet him at some point, but he and I have barely even gotten to hang out ever so I don't know how to make this not awkward. Plus, this will be my first date ever so I know ...
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finding someone new
Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 8:27 pm
I've been dumped by the same guy twice now, and I'm now realizing that he's not right for me. But even still I find it hard to leave it all behind me. I've been kind of down because I feel like I can't find a guy that's right for me. It's been over a month now that I've been single and I just feel really out of the loop. How do I go about finding the guy that's right for me?
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Losing Interest.
Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 7:11 pm
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. He's 15, and I'm 14. Lately, it seems like he is loosing interest in me. He is in AP classes, on the soccer team, and in band. I feel like I'm never at the top of his list of priorities anymore. I need a cute but fun way to spice things up and get him more interested. Maybe if we have sex, he'll be excited about me again? I'm not really sure what to do. Help?
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which girl do i like
Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 6:55 pm
im with a girl now and i love her but their is this other girl that every time i see her or talk to her i fall harder for her making me want to leave my curret girl what do i do????
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Still hurting/angry
Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 6:52 pm
I'm 18 and I really need advice.
When I was 15 years old I met a guy (he was 16 at the time) and I thought he was really gross because he was always hooking up with all these girls. He tried to start talking to me and he had kissed me once and he kept telling me he liked me but he didn't want a g/f. I told him that he just wasn't my type and I was over the games. After I said that he asked me to give him a week to get rid of all his hook ups that he had. I wasn't exactly going to hold my breath. Sure enough though exactly one week later he asked me out. Now, me being so young and NEVER having a boyfriend before I thought that was really sweet...
The guy was into a lot of bad things. Like being sexually active, ...
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Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 5:48 pm
hi,well let me say my story sorry if its too long.
ok i have a boyfriend and we been together for a yr already.now he is a freshman in high school and im a sophomore,in the morning when he sees me he dont even go up to me, not to even say hi or anything,and then in lunch he dont even go to my table to sit with me,he just stays wit his friends,im seriously confused.sometimes i think he is just embarresed to be with meh im soo sad,and when we walk together in the hallaways he dont even hug meh or kisses me.today i felt like braking up with him but i dont knoww i love him to much and im scared to loose him because he is my fisrt boyfriend nd the man i really love.
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sex?
Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 4:26 pm
so i'm fourteen years old, my birthday is in december, i'm verrrry mature for my age. i know whats right from wrong, and stuff like that. i just got out of a relationship that was basically based on sexuall things like handjobs, blowjobs, fingering, and stuff. me and my ex boyfriend (16) would do stuff everyday we hung out. it was okay and stuff but idk it made me more mature. i am now in a relationship with a boy that has been my friend since late july ish? i have kinda liked him since late july, but he had a girlfriend till mid august, and i dated my ex boyfriend from late july to late august. anyways, my "new" boyfriend was basically my bestfriend, and i feel really comfortable with him. i kinda want to have sex with him i'm ju...
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does my boyfriend like another girl more than me?
Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 2:38 pm
before me and my boyfriend started going out he asked my friend out and she said no. then he asked me out and i said yes. then my friend told me that she saw on of my boyfriends friends and he said that my boyfriend liked her. my friend told me this then said i'm pretty sure he likes you more. i think he does but for some reason i'm scared. he always tells me he loves me but i dont know if its true. i'm scared of losing him. ANY ADVISE????
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I think I have an actual obsession with him.
Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 12:44 am
female
13 years old.
Zack. Zack Garrett. I love him with all my heart, and I know what any of you reading this are thinking..it'll pass over. Someone else will come along. Well.. I've tried to let go after we broke up. I shunned all contact from him and didn't keep any reminders. Explored the single world you know? Well he was my best love. It's hard to imagine better until it happens.
When shunning him didn't exactly work, and I stopped, all the memories and thoughts of him invaded my mind almost immediately. I currently talk to him, and things are looking up for me again. I think we may hook up.
But this isn't the problem. The problem is, had I really thought of only him for a month str...
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does he like me?
Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 12:19 am
i am really starting to like this guy at school and well i don't know him very well, kinda just met him. So like the first day i find out we like the same music so we talked about that. Then like the next day we had to do a presentation in class. So like at lunch i was with one of my friends and he was nearby so he walks over and says "hey your presentation was really good. mine kinda sucked." And we kinda talked but not so much. Pretty much it is still pretty much small talk, but I ran into him today and he gives me this smile which was personally the cutest smile I have ever seen. When I say it all like this it sounds pretty convincing that he likes me but idk because he is really friendly and has a lot of girls as friends. He i...
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Love Triangle Dilemna
Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 11:30 pm
I was almost in love with this guy but he chose to go back to his ex instead of being with me. He told me before he actually decided to get back with her that he really liked me a lot as a friend, but then he said he wanted me to come back to him and that he hoped i wasn't with any body or anything, and then finally before i came back he reconciled with his ex. But, it seemed to me like he still has underlying feelings for me But i have begin to get closer to his roomate. I wonder if this bothers him that we have spent time together or i wonder if he has told him that it is okay for him to be with me or if they have discussed me at all? I know you all don't know the answer but i'd like an opinion on any part of this if possible.
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What to do?
Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 11:12 pm
17/f, Boyfriend 20/m
So I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 5 months today. The other day I asked my boyfriend if he thought he was in love and he said yes and asked the question back. and all I could manage to say was I don't know first. and I went on to say that I loved him but wasn't IN love with him. I know that's bad admitting that to him and it's already been over a year. He understood.. i think. I went on to saying that If I was in love with him, I'd know. I would have told him. That, that's one of the reasons why I haven't given him my virginity and the other was that he's not a virgin like me and it wouldn't be AS special as it would be if he was and also that I wasn't ready and what not... but back to the poi...
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a boy..
Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 10:49 pm
okay so what' s a good way to get a guy without being obvious. How do you play hard to get? I'm trying but it's not working. He doesn't seem interested, like sometimes he does but then at other times he doesn't. So how do I go about making him want me more? haha it sounds selfish but I'm just curious! thanks!
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My guy friend, is not my guy friend.....
Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 9:33 pm
Female, 15.
Hi, the school year just started and it's only the 4th day of school. I am a sophmore. And i had this crush on a guy at school since last year. But this year my friend keeps calling him on my cell phone, and he thinks that its me prank calling him. Then just yesterday she shoved me into a door when he was coming out of the class room and made me crash into him!!! Then he got mad. So now he thinks that i am chidish and immature and he is mad at me and i think he might even hate me. Please i need advice on how to fix this!!!!
Thank you in advance!
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Young Marriage Help
Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 7:26 pm
My husband and I are goint through so much at this time we had to move in with his parents becasue his dad is dying, we are both going to nursing school, and all we do is fight. I try so hard to be a good wife he never has to do anything the only thing is he told me today that he is not happy and will never be I ask him if he wanted me to leave and he said no we both are stubborn and Idon't know how to show him I love him with out showing him so much i push him away
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i want to ask him out!
Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 7:19 pm
so i like this guy and i want to ask him out! im 16 and we go to the same school but i have no clue what to say!!
any ideas?
were should we go?
movies?
just hang out?
thanks
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Ehh, first impression. warning:: its lengthy
Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 7:17 pm
15/F
Over the summer, my half sister took me to a Christian Revival and she introduced me to a boy that goes to my school but hes 16. Hes not gorgeous but hes not hideous and he gives such good hugs! But at the revival he specifically told me that he considered himself to be a Prep. He dressed like it, too. We talked and spent the entire night together. It was great! I heard he liked me from my sister..ALOT
This year hes in my lunch block and I didnt recognize him until he said something. He was all goth er w/e with a fauxhawk, spiked wristbands and everything! I said it was weird so TODAY he dressed.. normal? He has a chasity ring but he doesnt want his friends to know. But his bestfriend actually has a trenchcoat and chains ...
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do i date him?
Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 6:42 pm
I'm 17 and a female. Sorry it's long. :/
So there is this boy who is 16 and a junior who really likes me and I like him as well. The only problem is that we don't know each other that well and I told him I do not want to rush into things until we get to know each other. A couple of my friends who know we like each other think I should eventually date him. Some of my other friends said he's a player and could possibly have an std. But that's only what they've heard. And my friend who happens to be his cousin says that he's said things to me that he hasn't said about and other girl. He would usually say inappropriate sexual things to her friends. Asking if they would do something with him, or tell them their hot. To me he has t...
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Reputation.
Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 6:33 pm
Okay, so this year just started 8th grade has been extremely diffrent and not in a good way. I've known Cole for about a year now, and last year he wasn't the nicest person to me but this year he's been ONE OF THE nicest and really cute. All my friends say he's flirting with me and Im A-OK with that.
and i got him whipped. frkn i called him from halfway across the room to pick my pencil up and he just kicked it to me, and i was like.. u didnt pick it up. so we started agruing about why i couldnt.. and Skye was like JESUS CRIST I WILL and she bent over, but before she even got it he like Jedi Mastered hahaha and gave it to me and he was like =D and it was so cute. and Skye was like.. Did you notice the look he just gave you, cuz we d...
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