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do i date him?
I'm 17 and a female. Sorry it's long. :/
So there is this boy who is 16 and a junior who really likes me and I like him as well. The only problem is that we don't know each other that well and I told him I do not want to rush into things until we get to know each other. A couple of my friends who know we like each other think I should eventually date him. Some of my other friends said he's a player and could possibly have an std. But that's only what they've heard. And my friend who happens to be his cousin says that he's said things to me that he hasn't said about and other girl. He would usually say inappropriate sexual things to her friends. Asking if they would do something with him, or tell them their hot. To me he has told me I'm beautiful, nice, sweet, things like that. He would also pay for the movies which he never has offered any other girl and he said he really likes me and he wouldn't do what my ex did to me. (my ex happens to be his friend and my ex was basically a prude d-bag). I do like him. And I want to take things slow before we possibly date. I just don't know if I should date him because he has a past of having sex with girls just to do it. Sex is something I do not want to do anytime soon. So should I give him a chance or just stay friends?
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You seem to really like him and he seems to really like you, so why not give it a shot. One thing you should do (although not always easy) is put everything out there. Let him know that you are not ready for a sexual relationship. That if you all start dating, you still want to move slowly. Tell him if that is not what he wants, no hard feelings. You all can still be friends but it won't work as any more. This way you are respecting what he wants as well as yourself.
I respect you for being very strong in your decision not to rush sex. I wish more people would think that way!!!
I wish you the best of luck girlie! Let me know how it goes.
<3 Leslie
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