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Young Marriage Help
My husband and I are goint through so much at this time we had to move in with his parents becasue his dad is dying, we are both going to nursing school, and all we do is fight. I try so hard to be a good wife he never has to do anything the only thing is he told me today that he is not happy and will never be I ask him if he wanted me to leave and he said no we both are stubborn and Idon't know how to show him I love him with out showing him so much i push him away
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is there any way for you both to have the same night off or a weekend to yourselves?
Stress (especially the stress of a dying family member) can really change a person. So if you BOTH are doing nursing school and his dad is dying, there's most likely a HUGE amount of stress going on.
Try getting a weekend or a night off together to see if you guys could get away for a bit to reconnect.
Remind him that both of you are in a marriage: a partnership. Whatever he goes through or is going on in his head, he should share that stress with you. To not push you out of his life.
And listen to what he says too. Really listen, don't try to root around for a deeper meaning. Most of the time, when approached with a problem, guys like to keep to themselves until they solve the problem. Let him talk. And listen.
Next time you feel that a fight is about to happen, take a deep breath and count to 10.
If worse comes to worse and he actually means that he is not happy because of your relationship or that things aren't what they used to be or they can't be worked out, then you need to take that stubbornness and obtain trial separation papers.
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