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Love Triangle Dilemna
I was almost in love with this guy but he chose to go back to his ex instead of being with me. He told me before he actually decided to get back with her that he really liked me a lot as a friend, but then he said he wanted me to come back to him and that he hoped i wasn't with any body or anything, and then finally before i came back he reconciled with his ex. But, it seemed to me like he still has underlying feelings for me But i have begin to get closer to his roomate. I wonder if this bothers him that we have spent time together or i wonder if he has told him that it is okay for him to be with me or if they have discussed me at all? I know you all don't know the answer but i'd like an opinion on any part of this if possible.
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My opinion: leave this guy alone. I'm not going to speculate as to why he is acting the way he is... I'm just going to point out that he seems to be juggling you and his on/off girlfriend. That's not cool and you deserve better. Move on.
As for the roomate... Right now it sounds like the two of you are in the process of getting to know one another. I don't think it matters whether or not they've talked about you because you aren't dating anyone yet. If you spend more time with his roomate and the two of you begin to consider something more... You could always ask the roomie if he's concerned about whether or not this will making his living situation awkward. If he thinks it will... That's something for him to worry about and work-out. I know that sounds cold... But the bottom line is that this is between the two of them.
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