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junior and freshman rivalry
okay so I have this friend who's a junior and I'm a freshman. my friend gets mad at me because I never said hi to her parents when they drove us home and to school but I did. I said hi and bye and thank you but she said I got no manners and I'm disrespectful but I'm not. and today I talked to her and asked her if she was mad at me and she said yeah because it's weird how she said all that shit to me but I didn't take it seriously. but I did. she said that I should at least ask her for a ride but I didn't know that she wanted one and if she did she could at least ask. and I told her that. but she said that she shouldn't have to ask me for ride and that I shouldve offered but I didn't know that I was suppose to like I'm kinda slow but she just said I'm fake. and it kinda hurts me that she took it out on my parents. she ask me didn't my parents teach me any manners but they did. and like I'm not fake but then she is and she's been treating me like dirt because I'm a freshman. but isn't that the stupidiest reason to get mad? like I'm slow so I didn't know I was suppose to ask her if she want a ride. idk what to do now.help! I don't wanna loose her freindship. but should I be friends with someone who calls me fake when she's fake herself? what do I do?
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It seems to me that this is just a huge misunderstanding.
Go up to her or call her and tell her you're sorry for offending her and for her feeling like you don't have the same respect for her that she has for you. Explain to her that you do not mind at all giving her a ride and wasn't even thinking about it and the fact that you should have offered to give her one. Tell her you did not mean to come off the wrong way and you understand why she is upset.
I know you're upset for her calling you fake, but maybe she just looks at it like you are not a true friend because she looked out for you and you didn't look out for her. And you're right, this is a stupid argument that shouldn't even be an issue between friends.
If you feel she treats you like dirt even outside of this argument, then yes, it is time to let this "friendship" go. You definately do not want someone that is supposed to be a support and positive person in your life tearing you down in any way.
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