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hi,well let me say my story sorry if its too long.
ok i have a boyfriend and we been together for a yr already.now he is a freshman in high school and im a sophomore,in the morning when he sees me he dont even go up to me, not to even say hi or anything,and then in lunch he dont even go to my table to sit with me,he just stays wit his friends,im seriously confused.sometimes i think he is just embarresed to be with meh im soo sad,and when we walk together in the hallaways he dont even hug meh or kisses me.today i felt like braking up with him but i dont knoww i love him to much and im scared to loose him because he is my fisrt boyfriend nd the man i really love.
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This behavior doesn't mean he is embarresed to be with you. It probably isn't you he is embarresed about, it might just be the whole talking to you around his friends etc. Or maybe he is embarresed to just come up to you when you are with your friends. You have been with him for a year so it is unlikely that he is embarresed of you. If i were you i would talk to him about how you feel then maybe he can explain his behaviour. =] x
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First off, before you skip to conclusions, make sure you have his story. You have to sit down with him at some point in time (preferable when it is ust you guys)and ask him "Why don't you ever sit at my table at lunch or say anything to me in the hallways?"
Sadly guys can be ignorant to the point where if something is bothering them, they just try to avoid it all together. You have to find out why. And if his reason is something like "I don't know" then you really have a problem. If he can't be honest and curtious to you then I would mention that "this isn't going to work."
But since you have been together for a year, I advise trying to work out all complications. Maybe spending more time together could make him feel comfortable.
And maybe it is the fact that you are a sophmore and HE is the freshman that bothers him. Just ask him about it. Honesty is the key to havng a good and healthy relationship.
And I know how you feel, I lost my first boyfriend a month ago tomorrow actually. It is heart breaking knowing that you've saved the first kiss and everything for that guy but nothing lasts forever and we are still young.
Let me know if you have anymore questions!!!
-KD/f/15
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