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finding someone new
I've been dumped by the same guy twice now, and I'm now realizing that he's not right for me. But even still I find it hard to leave it all behind me. I've been kind of down because I feel like I can't find a guy that's right for me. It's been over a month now that I've been single and I just feel really out of the loop. How do I go about finding the guy that's right for me?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
1. I'd suggest that you at least think about taking a break from dating. I really believe that you have to be happy by yourself before you can be happy with another person. Think of it as an opportunity to pamper yourself, re-prioritize, and write down your standards concerning your future partner.
2. When you are ready to date... Don't set your heart on the first person you meet. Give yourself the opportunity to meet different people and really get to know them.
3. Wherever it is that you go to meet people... Try going somewhere different. I don't know how old you are and whether or not you are into the bar/club scene... But I can tell you that you won't find many good canditates for dating at these places, in general anyway. Instead try getting involved with a group with a specific focus. For example, if you like to read you could join a book club. Internet dating is not a bad idea, just so long as you play it safe.
4. Don't constrain yourself to a time frame. It may be two months or two years before you meet someone that you want to be in a relationship with. And that's okay. LIfe is a journey... Travel at your own pace ;)
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