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what is friendship when your getting left out!!
Okay so, for starters thanks for helping me, and i know this is kind of a long drawn out thing, but please read all of it inorder to understand the complete situation.
Okay So i have two "best" friends, MC (girl), and TL(guy/cousin)
So me and TL have been bff's since we were little babies, and me and MC have been bff's for a few years too, and I guess at some point of having both of them as best friends, they also became bff's.
WELL the thing is MC like, likes TL, and she is constantly flirty getting his attention. AND he likes it he'll say stuff all the time to her like " i love you as my #1 bff, or your soooo funny, Your awsome" But he NEVER talks to me any more hardly, and neither does MC, they don't save me a seat, or if they do it's like diagnol from their seats, which are side by side.
AND it really makes me mad. I KNOW i'm jelous, but can you blame me! I don't want to confront them, because I think they'll be mad. Sometimes i think (IN MY HEAD NOT OUT LOUD)that they were both my friends FIRST bEFORE they were EVER best friends!!! If it wasn't for me well, they wouldn't be bff's. AND I KNOW that's wrong, but i can't get it out of my head!
WHAT DO I DO?!?!?! P.S I'm in 8th grade. (oh and i'm a girl if that means anything )
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Jealousy can turn a very sweet person into a very, well, not so sweet person. Just continue to be a friend to both of them.
Guys love it when girls flirt with them because it makes them feel special and manly. So when MC flirts with TL, they're both getting something positive out of it.
The feelings will eventually pass. Just give it time and don't let jealousy make you say or do something you'll regret.
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well, as a 19 yr old i am just one of many (pretty much all) who will tell you this is part of life. i have grown close with friends, and drifted apart from friends and its all part of life to put it simply. and ive been there..the frustration that you were friends with one before they met the other and then the two of them get all buddy buddy and leave out the other. its hard to accept and its frustrating. through life and especially high school, etc. you will make new friends and drift away from others. some approaches you can try...
1) invite one of them to sleep over (the girl probably lol) and spend one on one time with her.work on your bonding and whats funny is one fun sleepover/day at the mall could be the answer to this problem.
2) hang out with bothh of them. take lots of pictures, be spontaneous, funny, center of the spot light.
3) lay low and start talking with some other aquaintances. hang out with them and see if your two friends start to miss you and change their closed attitudes.
good luck i hope it works out
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