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blah situation :/
Posted Sunday October 19 2008, 1:52 am
well i'm in a blah situation. homecoming was tonight, and i danced with this guy who is totally amazing. and it made me realize how much i like him. the problem is everyone would probably think i've totally lost my mind. and we don't talk, like ever. tonight was basically the first time we've really talked, and we only said like 2 sentences to eachother. but he's so sweet and gentle, and he gives me the cute little butterflies, and ahh. i don't know what to do. can anyone help me? id greatly appreciate it.
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Talk to this boy
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 11:20 pm
So theres this boy thats new to my high school and a year younger than me and i think he is really cute. one of my friends already told him i thought he was cute but i need to talk to him myself. i no he plays basketball and i do too (plus volleyball) should i talk to him about that? how should i approach him so i dont come off as creepy. Thank u advice is much needed ! :)
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Please tell me what is love
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 10:05 pm
I have i bf and we been together for almost 7 months. He loves me more than anything and im questioning myself. we talked about our future and when we are going to get married. One side of me is trying hold on and the other side is giving up. We been arguing a lil more and i feel my self detached. Im afraid I may never regin it again. Every time i detach myself from someone i can never reconnect. Hes my best friend and is always there. we cant spend much time wit each other neither, How should i feel? Whats love, how should love feel. Please help me.
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confused :/
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 7:59 pm
so theres this guy. and we're always texting/iming and stuff.
he is ALWAYS asking me who i like. and the one who i like, is him.
so i really can't tell him yet. i don't know. it seems like he might like me since he's always asking me that. he has greeted me with smiley faces, loser (haha as a joke), and sexy. once. but still.
and today he asked me if i was prude. and was hypothetically speaking, what if i liked you and you liked me but we never knew because you wouldn't say who you liked. so tell me!
what do you think?
the only reason i'm doubting it, is because him and this girl were like in love and they broke up a while ago, but they stayed really good friends. and they like stopped recently. and somet...
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what do I do?
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 5:42 pm
Ok so I like this guy and I think he might like me back.
Yesterday we were supposed to go to a party together but he couldn't make it.
Anyway, to cut a long story short I got really drunk and a guy took advantage of me. We didn't do anything past making out, because my friends saw and got angry at him. They had to go home early though.
When I sobered up though I pushed him away and was like 'WTF am I doing? Go away' heh it was amusing.
But, how do I tell the guy I like? I don't want to say 'yes I did make out with someone at the party but it was because a guy took advantage of me whilst drunk' because
A) I don't want him to kick his ass
B) I have mutua...
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:[ younger than i look.
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 4:54 pm
Well i am so friecken tired :[
im 15.
and i look like at lease 18 or 19.
at first i thought its because the way i dress.
(no that i dress sluty or anything)
but its not.
because the other day i was wearing no make up and in a regular shirt and jeans and this guy(looked at lease 20) came up to me.
i hate it.
because like guys my age dont even come up to me because they think im older.
and guys that shouldnt be talking to me do.
ugh >;[
well yah.
i dunno what to do anymore.
what do i do!
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how to have a nice convo through text... HELP
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 4:03 pm
14/f
hey my name is claire,
Okay so I really like this guy, we call each other our "bestest friends" and last night we hung out for the first time and he asked for my number so i gave it to him then i got his. Now when he texts me i'm afraid the conversation is going to be boring like
Him: hey
me: Heyy
him: whats up?
Me: nm bored you?
him: sameee haha
me: coool
...and then its just going to be awkward and boring. i don't want him to think i'm a boring person. so like what could i say to make the conversation go on for like EVER. you know like when you have those late night texts staying up all night texting the one you like? I want to do soemthing like ...
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I fear i might be gay
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 3:19 pm
I'm 17/m
at the beginning of this semester we got this new guy in our class. he calls himself and emo and wears skinny jeans and even eyeliner. he doesnt have many friends. I started talking to him and hes actually really nice and i think i'm starting to get feelings for him?! i think about him all the time when im not with him and when i am i sometimes just feel like kissing him and taking him into my arms. i just dont know how to handle this. I'm pretty much the only person he talks to but i dont think he's gay coz he always checks out girls. ive never had feelings for a guy before so im not used to this. ive never had a real girlfriend and never had deep feelings for anyone except for him? hes not really manly and seems like he of...
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I like 2 guys
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 3:09 pm
16/f
ok so i like 2 guys but I've never really spoken to either of them because theyre a year above me in school. but both seem like they really do like me. so theyre's A and D. I always smile at A when i see him and he always smiles back. we never said anything to eachother yet. but he's really cute and for example yesterday we were standing infront of our classrooms which are close together and we kept smiling at eachother and then he kind of opened his mouth and it seemed like he was saying hi or something but it was quite far away.
then D is like the cutest guy ever. he's really shy around me and we've also never talked before but he's been kind of checking me out for a year now. and once when i cried really hard he saw m...
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Meet The Parents
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 12:23 pm
16/f
I just started dating this guy, and I can't hide him from my parents, soon they will find out.
But when they do meet them, im a little worried.
Im 16, and he's 19, which im used to dating older guys, but he will be 20 in late march. Im Caucasian and he's black, which i dont care about, it's just skin color. But i don't know how my parents will react, i don't think it will be a good one.
and i don't know what to do, or how im going to have them meet. I could say he's a senior in high school and he's 18.
But they could find out soon that he's not.
help?
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i need advice
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 10:47 am
how do you know when the boy you like, likes you back
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Am I really good enough?
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 4:00 am
26, male.
I've been with my girlfriend for five years. And lately, it just feels like we're killing each other slowly. And she has high hopes about us getting married. But I'm currently unemployed, and struggling just to get back out there. Throw in my low self-esteem, and other issues between us like religion, our families, and it's just so damn hard.
She almost walked out on me crying because she felt stupid for waiting for me. I managed to talk her down, and we're still together. But looking back, a part of me feels like she really would be better off without me.
I always look at my relationships as things to continue working on and trying to make work to the very end. Is it wrong that I keep ...
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This guy...
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 2:25 am
14/f
Ok I've liked this guy for quite awhile now. My friends boyfriend found out I liked him. I deny it but he went and told the guy I like I like him. He still talks to me but its...idk weird. Her boyfriend said he will tell him I don't like him. I don't exactly know what to do. Now I'm so nervous to even be around him. He still jokes around but her boyfriend said, "pick on her" so yeah. I don't know what to do! I don't even know what my question is! I need help. Its bugging me so much because I really do like him but I'm not freakishly obsessed but I like him. Please help. Thanks so much!
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i feel like a part of me is lost..
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 12:57 am
18 years old, female
im sorry this is really long but i would absolutely love it if you could help me im hopeless and heartbroken. i'll give a 5 to someone who answers cuz i appreciate you taking the time!
i have been totally head over heals for my best friend, BUT he has a girlfriend of a very very long time. (2 and a half years) we use to be so close, flirt ALL the time. we never kissed or did anything. i just can't get over him. i feel like when i dont talk to him a part of me is missing. i am never truly happy because i know he is with her, and loves her. i can't take it anymore. i go months without talking to him, and as much as i just want to text him saying, "i miss you.." i would be afraid of the poss...
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Relationship
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 12:41 am
Hi please help
My girlfriend and i are about to get married. This week her ex boyfriend contact her. He needs help. He has been lying to everyone. He is at a stage where he want to end his life. My girlfriend decides that she want to help him. She feels sorry for him. In four years he has had no contact with her. Why now. What should i do.
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i miss her
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 12:05 am
15/m
theres this girl shes 13 almost 14 i've been talking to her for 2 months like as a friend until now she would always talk to me first, she tells me everything now i think i like her we literally talk everyday but sunday i talked to her she said she had a boyfriend which i didn't really care about anyway but since sunday i haven't talked to her and im freaking out i miss her A LOT idk whats going on tuesday i didn't wanna talk to any of my friends i've become attached to her in some way its weird and idk if she really does like me even though she has a boyfriend
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I have a Boyfriend but why am I so lonely?
Posted Friday October 17 2008, 9:41 pm
I Have had the same boyfriend for ggoing on 3 years now.we stay together and everyting but why do i feel so lonely.i just recently lost my job so i'm home alone all day.he's off to work at about 3 in the morning and he's home no later than 8 in the evening.when he come in i'm so excited but he comes in say a few thingss and then right back outbthe door to the store or something and then when he gets back he's outside talking to one of his friends for an hour or two and then when he comes in he's tired he ask me for his dinner he eats take a shower and get in bed..and then he hollars for me to come to get in bed so we can have sex and then he turns over and go to sleep..thats everyday we don't spend any time together..we just got rid of my c...
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used to be so close; please read. its long!!!
Posted Friday October 17 2008, 5:47 pm
16/f Okay, well.. the beginning of this summer I dated a boy that I dated about a year ago. When we dated the first time, we kinda just broke up and never talked about it. So then Idk, I missed him. He was a perfect boyfriend. Seriously, I don't know why I was so stupid to let him go. But that's besides the point. When we dated at beginning of this summer, we were only talking for a few days before that so it didn't make the relationship work that well. Well we broke up, it was a very nice break-up & we stayed really close throughout the whole summer. I liked him so much, I might have even loved him, I don't know. But we told eachother everything. It was like we were best friends. Towards the end of the summer he didn't talk to me as mu...
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kiss
Posted Friday October 17 2008, 3:08 pm
16/f
I have never been kissed before. I have been dating my boyfriend michael for a week now and he knows that i haven't kissed before. He told my friend he tried to kiss me twice and i just didn't notice. Then today after we hugged, i stood there waiting and he never did and he told my friend "I tried to but she won't do it!!" I mean, i stood there waiting but he never did. Is this my fault? I'm just not sure what to do. I mean, i want to kiss him but i'm not really sure how and i get scared at the last minute.
What do i do?
Is it my fault?
How?
Please help! My name is lauren. Thanks!
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Waiting on a reply for homecoming...
Posted Friday October 17 2008, 2:52 pm
I asked someone to homecoming yesterday morning and got a "maybe" because he was already going to ask another girl... so I said alright, just let me know.
But homecoming is next week! (I know, I procrastinated...) So how long should I wait for him to get back to me?? I want a date so if he says no then I want to have time to ask someone else. So should I just ask someone else if he doesn't tell me in time?
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