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confused :/


Question Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 7:59 pm

so theres this guy. and we're always texting/iming and stuff.
he is ALWAYS asking me who i like. and the one who i like, is him.
so i really can't tell him yet. i don't know. it seems like he might like me since he's always asking me that. he has greeted me with smiley faces, loser (haha as a joke), and sexy. once. but still.
and today he asked me if i was prude. and was hypothetically speaking, what if i liked you and you liked me but we never knew because you wouldn't say who you liked. so tell me!
what do you think?
the only reason i'm doubting it, is because him and this girl were like in love and they broke up a while ago, but they stayed really good friends. and they like stopped recently. and sometimes i'm like whats up, and hes like talking to _____ :/.
i'm like is that bad?
hes like i don't know yet.
soo....help?


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Additional info, added Sunday October 19 2008, 12:33 pm:
and just not he asmed me if who i liked was him.
i just wasn't really ready to let him know yet. so i said:
i kind of do. but there is someone else.
even thought there isn't.
but he just replied sweet(:
i don't know.
and when we first started texting, he asked me who i liked like all day.
i liked noone then. i asked him, and he was like ____ (my friend who he dated ):) and me a little bit. i don't even know.
and the breakup was actually kind of a while ago. and he has dated other girls since. and whenever i ask him why he asks me that so much he only replies with "i just need to know these things"
i'm just so confused!
.

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ccupcake07 answered Monday October 20 2008, 11:57 am:
It sounds like he likes you a lot and he wants you to admit it so you can actually go somewhere (into the relationship). I would text him and be like "i know who i like" and then when he says who say "well i text him everyday, he dated my friend before, etc." That is a really good way to do it. Hope this helps!

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angryatfriend answered Monday October 20 2008, 3:15 am:
wow. im in basically the same situation except im a guy.
but i keep asking this girl who she likes all of the time and she tells me its between these two guys that are the most hottest(at least alot of the girls reckon). ive told her that i like her and this other girl but i only say that cause i only like her and she will be creeped out by me saying that i like her and only her cause last time i said that she started being a bitch to me, well not really a bitch but just she was irritated by the things i did more than usual but now shes not like that anymore and we make jokes about it and stuff

thats not going to help you but just tell him that you like him and i bet you taht he will say that he likes you aswell and then you two can go out or sumthin like that :)

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iiL0VEY0U answered Monday October 20 2008, 1:18 am:
ahhh ahhh ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh-
let him know YOU LIKE HIM!!!
same thing happened to me i wasn't ready to let him know I like him now I lost the guy i really really like, do me the favor and as soon as you get the chance bettr yet as SOON as you talk to him let him know YOU LIKE HIM!! and there isnt any one else.
cause he likes you! he sounds like my guy
don't let him get away your chance is now.
go for it let him no now

_xoxo<3

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kiran answered Sunday October 19 2008, 4:23 pm:
This is tough. If he is still talking and staying good friends with this girl he was in love with then I think you should wait just a little more. He seems confused and unsure. He sounds like he does kinda like you but remember there is still this other girl in the picture. So I think you should watch for that. So if he likes you a little bit and then another girl that is your friend then he doesn't know what he wants yet. Just wait a little bit until he gives you a real answer. I hope everything works out!

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GabieBaybee answered Sunday October 19 2008, 3:58 am:
Wow lol.

Well first off,
if he just broke up with some one he was "in love" with then you might wanna watch out.

I mean like i really dont want to make you feal bad, but like many guys talk to other girls when they are hurting over their recent break-up.

You should straight out ask him,why do you always ask me who i like? Don't be afraid to ask a guy ANYTHING. i learned that a while ago:).

Don't fall for him though! He doesn't sound too sure of what he wants :/

i really hope i helped
<3

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