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i want to foreplay with my boyfriend for vday but where would do 16 year olds go to do that stuff? i love him with all my heart and i dont want to be interupted by parents or siblings. (link)
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the beach! it's so sexy :D.
trust me,
oh but bring a blanket.
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Firstly, I'm more after an opinion than advice. But any advice for this situation would be greatly appreciated.
Okay, so this is my first relationship. And I like to think of myself as not one who gets jealous easily. We're both open about people we find attractive and he's even said things to me people say I should feel jealous about, but I don't. Bottom line is, I think...well hope I don't get jealous easily. But I'm scared this is just jealousy talking in this situation.
I'm trying to keep this as vague as possible, because I'm terrified my friend mentioned or my boyfriend may stumble across this.
But basically, my friend hooked up with this guy. Everytime we hang out, she's usually all over him. Everyone comments on it. However lately she hasn't been. She has however, been hanging around my boyfriend a lot. I've been fine with it, afterall I'm around him a lot and she's my best friend. Plus they're friends too, so it's okay.
Anyway, today she was going to play a trick on this guy we don't like (Long story, he derserves it) she was going to be a slut, and then when he thinks he had a chance reject him. He is part of our group.
So she sluts herself up, BUT everytime me and my boyfriend pushed her to this guy she'd make an excuse. And the weird thing is that really made me WTF was as soon as the guy she was going to reject left, she was eager to approach him but was like "Oh, he's gone. Whoops....too late. Damn! Oh well..." she wasn't that disappointed.
Usually, I wouldn't care. But there are a few factors to that. My boyfriend showed her how to slut herself up. She seemed to enjoy it a bit too much...then because she slutted herself up, he paid extra attention to her (No comments about this, he apologised later on to me and some of it was joking around. However this is another reason why I don't think I'm a jealous person, he's like this.) and she seemed to enjoy the attention, A LOT.
Combine that with her doing a tiny flirting, and staying slutty even after the guy left until my boyfriend told her to cover up, it's starting to make me wonder if I'm just being a paranoid jealous girlfriend, or if she was hitting on him.
From these signs, do you think she was hitting on him, or do you think I'm just being jealous?
I'm NOT going to approach her about it, afterall some people flirt and not realise it. Hell, I'm guilty of that. But if she does it more and more, I will.
My boyfriend didn't mention anything after she left, but he did seem to do a lot of reassuring that I'm prettier than her, which is a sign he knew she was hitting on him. (link)
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Oh my gosh.
i think you already know the answer to this question.
Yes She IS.
im sorry,
but she is.
and she's gonna keep doing it,
so you better speak up now before things get worse,
and you start becoming the jelous type.
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I know it sounds gross but I don't want to embarress myself. So how can I dance on guys like really good. I have a big butt(no lie at all) thats why at the last dance a lot of guys wanted me to do that. I've done it before i just don't think it was GREAT. Please help the dance is tomorrow. I had no idea what (link)
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Omg,is this valerie?
lol if your not valerie my bad!
ha,
but yah Definatley Youtube!
if you dont learn,
dont trip,
some people just dont have it in them,
but good luck:D
i hope yew learn!
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im 15/f. i shy and have a hard time talking to guys....just so u kno im not one of those weird people u kno who tlk to there cat but,i havent ever had a boyfriend...i dont think im bad looking im 5'0 and a little chubby but i can still wear a bikini and look in it..well i have semilong brown razor cut style hair and blue eyes...i wear hollister and stuff like that...but now i sound like im writing a single person seeking a person ad...but, i still cant figure out why im single (link)
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:) i THINK the reason you're still single is because you are shy.
guys like someone they can talk to & have fun with,
so since you're shy they i guess in a way like stay away.
just open up! i mean yah as much as it scares you,
its not gonna do anything but good for you!
Trust mee,
you'll meet way more guys(& girls :] ) if you make yourself more aproachable
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this guy. We went out for about a year. I think i was inlove with him. When we used to fight, i would ignore him for a while because i didn't want to deal with him, then i would talk to him later after. days later. I miss him so much. he's told one of my friends that he still likes me, but i guess i'm not supposed to know, even his best friend thought that he mite still like me because he was talking about me a lot at his school...i still love him...i can't stop thinking about him...and it makes me super jealous to know that he seems to be doing fine without me....i'm just so depressed. Life is going straight downhill, and i'm hanging in there. I just need advice about this one issue. So one of my ex's friends called me saying that my ex told him to call me. And i didn't understand why. i was so confused. and at the same time it hurt me because it was like he was calling me a slut or easy or something. And i didn't understand my why he would call me a slut because we never did it. I'm not planning on that anytime soon. We just made out and kind of grinded on each other, and it was almost like we were doing it, but not really because our clothes were on...i guess this could be counted as a slutty, but...what do you guys think? just tryna get help and get myself up... thank you! (link)
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Hmmm,
well im not positive cos i dont know him (obviously lol)
but i think he told your ex to call yew cos guys can be SO dumb man.
This kind of happened to me one time,
exept for my ex told me other ex that he should start talking to me again.
which he later regreted because we ended up getting together lol,
but ANYWAYS,
i think he doesn't really want you to go with your ex.
& um i honestly dont think he's implying that you are a "slut".
Haha,Dont Worry Grinding on someone that you've been with for a whole YEAR is NOT SLUTTY.
At ALL.
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ok so heres the deal, my twin sister hates me im almost sure of it, i moved in with my dad who is in a different state than my mom my sister came with me because of problems, she got pregnant. my older sister asked me to move back so i aske my twin for some input, she flat out said she didnt think i should go back because she didnt want me there. i told her that hurt me, bad, and i cried my self to sleep that night and havnt talked to her since.
my twin and i , by the way, have been close since birth, BFF and closer we talked about everything, and rarely faught, when she told me that she didnt want me around it took me way of guard because she gave no clue or hint that i was even remotely bugging her. she never apologized to me and now shes back living with my mom, not cause of me, and i read on her myspace that she is glad she's back home and from "her" which im assuming is me since i was the only her here that she had a problem with when she left.
what should i do, im stubborn just like everyone else in my family but i cant totaly forgive her unless she apologizes, am i at fault or is she or are we both at fault? (link)
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What the girl under me said!
& also maybe she's angry because she's the problem child.
thats how i use to feel.
i hated that i was always the one to mess up & my other siblings were like perfect.
& especially if she got pregnant she's going through a rough time right now :l
it might hurt,
but dont take it to bad,
It just sounds like she's confused.
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How do you put a different picture on your profile. Like you're default is "picture no. 1" and you want your friends seeing that one..but on your page you want "picture no.2" HOw do you do that? thanks in advance. (link)
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You can't do that ;)
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14/f
I get acne on my face alot. Its not like over dramatic bad but sometimes I just can't take it. I use face wash and stuff. It helps a little. I see girls who have like no acne on their face whatsoever. Do you think you can help me with this? Like any better stuff I can use for my face or if there is anything else? Thanks so much! (link)
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oh god acne sucks.
well you should use proactive.
they dont sell it in stores,
but its gotten WAY cheaper over the years.
and it REALLY works.
But yah,
until you get it make sure you wash your face at least 2 to 3 times a day w/any acne face wash product.
in the morning
in the day
and ESPEACIALLY night.
and drink lots of water,
and greasy oily foods make you break out like crazy so yah,
that too.
hope i helped :]
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-not liking or hating your friends
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Jelousy by Paris Hilton
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So I'm changing my room. I'm 16/f. It was a cool lookin tropical theme, but now I wana change it to bright colors. Like neon colors. Like really bright pink, yellow, green, orange, and blue. And I'm painting my room for the first time, with those colors. I'm doing the whole splatter paint thing. Like, dip a paint brush and just splatter paint on the walls. But I'm having trouble finding a bedspread. I kinda know what I want, but kinda not. Since I'm splattering paint, I don't know what kind of bedspread to get. I was thinking just a black bedspread with some bright pillows, but I'm not sure if that would look good? Do you guys think it would? For bedspreads, I've looked at wakeupfrankie, target, jc penny, sears, pbteen, and kohls. I couldn't find anything I liked. So what do you guys think of the black beadspread with bright pillows idea? good or bad? any other fun ideas would be awesome too! Like the little things that make a room, ya know? the fun stuff! Thanks people!!! (link)
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Omg Ikea had thee best bright pillows!
You should totally go there for the bedspread and pillows
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Alright, this guy i like so incredibly much just broke up with his gf...and we've been hanging out and talking, were both 18.
but i dunno how i should get him to want to ask me out, or on a date or something without straight up asking...??? (link)
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well if he just broke up w/her maybe he's not ready yew know?
but just enjoy the time yew have now w/ him as frands,
then when he does ask yew out,
haveeee fun;]]
lol
GL
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im 17 and i havnt had a proper bf before. ive had one lousy kiss. no lad has ever called me pretty/cute/beautiful etc. i leave for university next year. i have no prospects for a bf before then but i really really dont want to turn up at uni an inexperienced virgin. cos i just know everyone else will have done everything already. all of my friends have lost their virginity and have boyfriends. i really hate it but im not sure if im confident enough to do anything about it. :( (link)
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/no matter how much yew dont,
yew really should feal proud.
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well i'm a very random person to start out with.
i LOVE being random.
but sometimes when i'm with this guy i like, i just can't think of anything random to say.
i know most guys like randomness, haha.
and he used to be like haha your so random. its so cute(;
you know, things like that.
what are some random things to say.
just like wierd things out of the blue?
maybe even ones that would start a nice conversation. (link)
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"oh my god,
i just got the hiccups,
but like it was only one hiccup.!"
haha one time i told a guy that and he cracked up.
gosh i really cant remember what else ive told guy,
i really wanna answer yer ? more because im the exact same way :)
ill get back to yew w/more kk :]
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14/f. I'm a freshman. I want to find a sport. I'm not like good at anything. I want a sport I feel like i'm wasting my life. I can't think of anything. I used to run so I can run long and short distance. I don't want to do track or cross country. Been there done that. I like football, not that great. And i'm a girl. So yea. I know I could still do it but it'd be harder you know? sport suggestions?!?! (link)
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Volley Ball is like the most eastiest one :)
but i think you will LOVE soccer.
i love it!
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15/f
i'm normally a super happy person, but how do you keep yourself from getting kinda sad when it gets dark early? like i've been used to it being sunny later and everytime the weather changes into fall/winter i get like sad when it gets dark so early. i live in ohio btw. how do i stay happy? (link)
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wow,thats weird thats exactly what has been happening to me,
personally i LOVE the sun, or hot days,stuff like that.
when its cold or the sun is gone i usually where very bright colors,
and eat alot of sugary foods lol,
then that way i get everyone else whose down ,
up
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haha.
GL
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im 18 years old/female
this friday my best friend turns 18 and i took off the whole weekend for work because of course we're going to be celebrating! well her and her friends decided that on her actual birthday (friday) that we're all going to go out to eat, go to the club and then go back to her house. the only problem is, ive NEVER been to the club before, i just never wanted to go. i dont know how to dance for the life of me and it made me mad because she knows i dont go to the club but of course im going to go because it's her birthday, and i wanna celebrate it with her! all her friends are club junkies and go to the club pretty much every weekend so they all know how to dance. she isn't a very good dancer, just like me but she doesn't care she still wants to go. i just feel akward dancing with people i don't know. i've never danced with a guy before (not even at school dances) and i DONT know how to grind or dirty dance with a guy, which is all they do at the club. all her friends are like its okay just dance with all of us and if a guy comes up to you, and you dont want to dance with him we'll take care of it. but i know that there going to be dancing with guys so i don't want to just be standing there looking like an idiot and my cousin's crush is going too so im sure that she is going to be paying alot of attention to him and she said that if she danced with anyone, it would only be him. im pretty sure guys are going to want to dance with me (because ive been told by so many people im gorgeous) not trying to be conceited at all! but i just dont want to dance with guys! i dont know what to do, someone help me please with this situation. i'm going to go, no doubt because it's my best friend but i just hate dancing!!!! and i know people say it's easy to grind but for me i have no rhythm and i look like an idiot when i try!! i don't want to make a fool of myself out of EVERYONE there! (link)
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haha wow,
same exact probelm my frand had :]
all i friecken do is party,and my frand wanted to come w/me but she didnt know how to dance fer shit.
so like i tought her.
i suggest you ask yer frands if they can teach you,
and make sure they know yer serious because it looks like you really wanna learn lol.
and also kinda dumb,
but you should totally watch youtube videos.
that also helped my frand=]
she watched like billions of them and would practice with them..
i really hope i helped!
dont feal bad though some people just are born dancers and some not.
honestly i think you should not give a fck and go fer it,
just have fun :)
ohh also you should drink a lil bit before.
it will totally loosen you up and you'll have more courage ya know.
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ok so i need some help on what i should be for halloween. i wanna be something slutty. but the only this is. everything slutty doesnt have much cothing to it. and up here in chicago its coldddd !
i saw on alot of sight they have reallly cute christmas costumes and there really cute. and some gangsters one. and im going to a party sometime at night too so and suggestions on what i should be?
or like sights tooo.
thanksss ! (link)
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oh em gee,
same probelem i had.
well i live in LA lol,
but its cold right now.
so
some REAL good websites are:
http://www.forplaycatalog.com/store/Halloween_Costumes___Sports_Costumes558409?Args=
and:
pinupgirlclothing.com
and:
halloweenexpress.com
hope i helped:]
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so theres this guy. and we're always texting/iming and stuff.
he is ALWAYS asking me who i like. and the one who i like, is him.
so i really can't tell him yet. i don't know. it seems like he might like me since he's always asking me that. he has greeted me with smiley faces, loser (haha as a joke), and sexy. once. but still.
and today he asked me if i was prude. and was hypothetically speaking, what if i liked you and you liked me but we never knew because you wouldn't say who you liked. so tell me!
what do you think?
the only reason i'm doubting it, is because him and this girl were like in love and they broke up a while ago, but they stayed really good friends. and they like stopped recently. and sometimes i'm like whats up, and hes like talking to _____ :/.
i'm like is that bad?
hes like i don't know yet.
soo....help? (link)
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Wow lol.
Well first off,
if he just broke up with some one he was "in love" with then you might wanna watch out.
I mean like i really dont want to make you feal bad, but like many guys talk to other girls when they are hurting over their recent break-up.
You should straight out ask him,why do you always ask me who i like? Don't be afraid to ask a guy ANYTHING. i learned that a while ago:).
Don't fall for him though! He doesn't sound too sure of what he wants :/
i really hope i helped
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well i have a problem with my hair it is naturally curl and thick....
it is hard to straghten what are some ways to make not so firzzy and thick looking
please help and if you can give me ideas to wear it that would be great (link)
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Garnier Fructise Sleek and Shine Shampoo & conditoner are really good to make it less frizzy!
And you should also use the Sleek and shine serum.
& it would really help if you go to the salon and ask them to thin it out,
make sure you say: can you thin it out...alot.
lol
because sometimes they barley take out any hair if you're not specific.
hope i helped
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where can i find the house of horror? i went on it last summer and i loved i just forgot whre i went its eaither universal studios hollywood or disneyland.. which one? (link)
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its at universal studios,
not disney.
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