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im 17 and i havnt had a proper bf before. ive had one lousy kiss. no lad has ever called me pretty/cute/beautiful etc. i leave for university next year. i have no prospects for a bf before then but i really really dont want to turn up at uni an inexperienced virgin. cos i just know everyone else will have done everything already. all of my friends have lost their virginity and have boyfriends. i really hate it but im not sure if im confident enough to do anything about it. :(
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you don't have to lose your virginity cause your friends did.
you should be happy that you kept your "pureness" and maybe you'll find a right guy to have it with instead of just doing it out of a whim.
-Maddison
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/no matter how much yew dont,
yew really should feal proud.
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im 17 years old and a virgin and iam so proud for making it this far that shows self respect.dont rush into anything because you feel that you need too.right now your dealing with very immature young boys your about to go to college its all going to change.do not disrespect your body just becuase you feel you feel you need too.good luck
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Hello,
Just because you are going to a university and are inexperienced isnt really bad. Its good to lose your virginity to somebody you love and somebody that loves YOU. I made that mistake of losing mine to somebody that didnt LOVE me. Not that a regret it, but it would of been more special if i knew he felt the same. When you get to the uni. it will be a whole new world for you. Most guys will understand that you dont have experience, and most will be absolutely fine with that. Most guys like virgins better to be honest.
Because you are 17 and still a virgin, you will get more respect than the average girl who isnt.
Looking back when your older you will be glad you waited :]
GOOD LUCK
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(The following may sound religious and pretentious but that's not my intentions.)
There is no reason why you can't wait until you know you are ready and have found the right person. Just because you are heading to university does not mean you have to be experienced, you can remain a virgin as long as you need to be until you are ready. I am 18, in uiversity, and am still a virgin. I also only had my first kiss a few weeks ago, and the guy totally understood that I didn't want to do much that nihgt. It doesn't change who you are whether you are a virgin or not so you need to ask yourself if you're just going to have sex to not be a virgin anymore or are you going to because you love, or at least like the person alot. As for confidence, just go to parties (clubs/bars when you are of age depending on where you live) and just go free. Dance with guys, maybe even a few make-out sessions (they're quite easy you just go with the flow) and just proving to yourself that you are capable of doing it will give you confidence. Then all you need is the right guy.
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Hope this is what you were looking for =]
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~unluckychick~
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