|
My sister hates me
ok so heres the deal, my twin sister hates me im almost sure of it, i moved in with my dad who is in a different state than my mom my sister came with me because of problems, she got pregnant. my older sister asked me to move back so i aske my twin for some input, she flat out said she didnt think i should go back because she didnt want me there. i told her that hurt me, bad, and i cried my self to sleep that night and havnt talked to her since.
my twin and i , by the way, have been close since birth, BFF and closer we talked about everything, and rarely faught, when she told me that she didnt want me around it took me way of guard because she gave no clue or hint that i was even remotely bugging her. she never apologized to me and now shes back living with my mom, not cause of me, and i read on her myspace that she is glad she's back home and from "her" which im assuming is me since i was the only her here that she had a problem with when she left.
what should i do, im stubborn just like everyone else in my family but i cant totaly forgive her unless she apologizes, am i at fault or is she or are we both at fault?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
What the girl under me said!
& also maybe she's angry because she's the problem child.
thats how i use to feel.
i hated that i was always the one to mess up & my other siblings were like perfect.
& especially if she got pregnant she's going through a rough time right now :l
it might hurt,
but dont take it to bad,
It just sounds like she's confused.
]
I dont think she meant what she said but sometimes being a twin is hard i should know i am one anyways the point is that being a twin isnt easy and sometimes always being together gets annoying and creates problems so just dont take it offensivly she just wants to be seperated because she likes it better when shes by herself because she's never had the oppurtunity to be alone because you have always been there i dont think you or her are at fault i think that you need a little seperation to live your life the way you want to and so just talk to her and tell her you understand whats happening and that your okay with it because you telling her that will make her want to talk to you more and open up and maybe one day when she feels its right she will ask you to come stay with her trust me as hard as it seems now things will get better if you need to talk about anything just message me ill be here to help.:)
]
More Questions: |